im a senior in high school and i have boyfriend . i want to go to college in MA. what will happen to us?

Question

i really need some good advice not some ******* asshole's whose bored this is serious

Answer 1

There's really no way to predict what will happen with your relationship. It depends on how much both of you want the long distance thing to work and how much effort you put into it. It can be difficult to maintain any kind of relationship in college because of the amount of work that has to be put into studying. I know couples from my graduating class that experienced all sorts of endings. One couple is split between Indiana and California, still together after more than a year. Several couple went to the same school, split up after about a semester. Some couples went to the same school and are still together. Some went to different schools and split up. The odds are stacked against you, but it really depends on what you do to make it work.

Answer 2

You really need to wait on having a baby. I'm sure that the two of you love each other, but you must understand that right now you are still getting your young life in order, and finishing school and getting yourself a good job should come first in life. Plus, look at it this way: you and your boyfriend should spend some time as a couple after graduation and live a little before settling down to have children. Having children is a huge responsibility that never ends and you have to make sure you are up to the task financially, emotionally, and spiritually. Take some time, live your life and enjoy what you've got right now. There will be time for children, you are still young and have many years ahead of you. Wait until you and your boyfriend are out of school, married and have had some time to enjoy life first, that way you can be completely ready for the blessings that children will bring to your life. Much luck to you both!

Answer 3

You'll probably break up... no bid deal in the long run... seriously... Leave with knowing you'll both meet new people- you're finally getting out INTO the world!!! You're graduated and there are tons of things to do in and for your future. Don't get tied up w/ your highschool boyfriend. Be friends and talk on the phone and email, even visit, but don't strain yourself and him on a long distance relationship. There will be so much more, and you'll see it once you move and get into school. You could tell him that a long distance relationship isn't good for you at this point in your life, even though you do care about him. You could stay friends and see about what to do with it later if you think there is a future (when that time comes). Otherwise, go have fun!

Answer 4

Most high school relationships cannot take a long term, long distance separation. So unfortunately you'll probably end up breaking up. The good news is...College life is very busy and exciting. You will meet tons of new people and forge new friendships that will last forever. You'll also meet lots and lots of new good looking men and have a great time. Don't look back look forward you are taking an important step in growing up.

Also, I agree with the guy who said not to make any important decisions about your life by taking the b/f or g/f into consideration. It is YOUR life and your education is very important. Go the college, you won't regret it.

Answer 5

Well, I guess it depends on what college he's going to. I'm assuming he's not going to be close to you next year based on the question. Most likely, you two will attempt to have some long-distance relationship. In my opinion, it is very difficult for these to work and most likely, I think the two of you will end up breaking up. I'm certain that's not the answer you're looking for. Perhaps you will be in that minority and be able to stay together. Good luck whatever you choose!

Answer 6

You have to decide which is more important, your boyfriend or your education. Is he someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, or is it just a high school fling? Unless he is reallly, really special(and, when I was 18, my girlfriend seemed awesome, but now i realize i was just immature) you should go to school where you want, even if it's away from him. Who knows, maybe he'll come with or something will happen that will keep you together

Answer 7

Never make any important life changing decisions by first taking the b/f or g/f into consideration. If you want to go to college in MA, go. You will both go your own way and you will probably find someone that is more suitable to you and you will definetely grow apart from the b/f as you grow and mature.

Answer 8

Most high school relationships split up before, or soon after, college begins. Out of sight, out of mind. It's probably a good thing not to be so tangled up that you miss out on the college experience.

Answer 9

Talk it over with him, if he is understanding about your decision as to wanting to continue your education your relationship should remain the same. Let me ask you something is your boyfriend in high school to. If not it should not be no problem with him visiting you as often as you want him to. If he say something like what am I suppose to do why you are off to college. You can reply by saying something like be there for me 100%.

Answer 10

Have you two ever been apart? You may want to try it for a week or two and see how that works out. This might give you a sense of what may happen.

Being a military spouse is hard. When they are away we worry more about who they are having sex with vs their safety. Its sad but true. Not saying they are all like this just speaking of the one I have.