If not, can a cycle like that be broken. I've never been single and I feel extremely challenged to leave my boyfriend although our relationship isn't working out emotionally. We don't argue...some things about our relationship just don't seem right like our connection with each other...we seem to be on two different levels about the future.
2006-12-11 00:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was just hoping I'd hit the jackpot and he was the one. But now I'm starting to think I'm stuck in a love warp and being settled is not for me.
2006-12-11 00:57:54 · update #1
This is more common than you think! And yes, you can break the cycle. You need to examine your reasons for fearing being alone, and then decide whether staying in an unhappy life is worth it. Of course, it's not! I broke this same cycle ten years ago, and I had to carry two children with me. I've since married and am truly happy. If I could do it (believe me, looking back I'm really surprised I did!) then you can do it! Liberate yourself and you may be surprised how happy you can be! and who knows, Mr. Right could be lurking around the corner, and he's worth the wait. If he doesn't show, pride yourself in being a confident and independent woman!
2006-12-11 01:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by tdmatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women might have something like that. I use to then I got in a abusive relationship and had to leave to be on my own for a while and its not so bad. I really enjoy being alone (not all the times) there is times when I am lonely but I just hang with a few guy friends and I will be fine. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-11 08:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the cycle can be broken. Take the time to know yourself. Do things that make you happy. Once you realize you don't need to be in a relationship to qualify as a woman being alone won't scare you. You have to change your mind set. Time goes by too fast to live unhappy.
2006-12-11 09:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by kimking711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the same one that makes men to compromise for the very same reason. They don't want to be 'out there' hunting for a mate, hunting for a job, hunting for other peoples attention, thus they compromise with the mediocrity that's usually available in relationships prior to settling for the social disaster that is promoted as family life thus breeding the next generations of frustrated malladapted humans who shall safely consume unto the eons lest their civilisation gets caught up in a war. Holly Holly Holly
2006-12-11 09:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but many have a fear of being lonely like me but after a 2.5 year relationship i hate feeling lonely but i must deal with it. so sweet heart if that is a reason for your relationship that is no good and you need to end it
2006-12-11 08:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by ERIC G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thenk that there might be a phobia of being alone bcause one of my friend is also in a relationship and she isn't happy but stays there because she doesn't whant to be alone!Being single is fun you dont have to stay with one guy and no one tells you what u can or cant do!
2006-12-11 08:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by chris-mare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be single.
2006-12-11 08:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by gvjvjhv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her own self doubts will keep her right where she's at.
2006-12-11 08:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe being depressed
2006-12-11 08:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup yup
2006-12-11 08:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋