Hi!
I know for a fact that this girl is torn between me and her boyfriend. They have been together for a week, maybe. I talked to her about it, and now she doesn't know what to do. I think my cards are pretty good, but how do I make sure she breaks up with her boyfriend? Any ideas?
2006-12-11 00:42:32 · 16 answers · asked by amostthere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being a jerk and let her make her own mind up
2006-12-11 00:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is the only way you can get any girl to breakup with her current boyfriend. It works every time so don't use this unless you are truly interested in the girl at hand because it might lead to her actually being with you in a rebound situation. The first thing you do is sit her down and talk to her about her current boyfriend just like if you were just interested in their relationship like any other person would be. Then ask her to list on a piece of paper all the reason they are in a relationship together and why they are so good a match for each other. Once she consciously or subconsciously realizes they aren't meant to be, she will break up with her boyfriend on her own. This works every time so don't use it unless you have the most honest intentions.
2006-12-11 09:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Armadura/ Eco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have made it clear to her of your feelings, now maybe it's time you step back and let her find out what her feelings really are. It's not fair to her for you to keep talking to her and probably giving her your own advice since your the one that wants her and the advice you give her doesn't mean it's the right advice.
2006-12-11 09:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she'll break up with her boyfriend this easily, don't you think she'll break up with you just as easily if the next guy comes along with "good cards"?
2006-12-11 08:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by adeleb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, then don't look for ways to maker her break up with her boyfriend. If it's not meant to be, it will happen on it's own - and you won't look like a jerk.
2006-12-11 08:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Julie F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One week is not enough for her to decide that he's her boyfriend. She's already unsure of that relationship. Don't be manipulative, just let things take their own course.
2006-12-11 08:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to find someone more mature. How is this dude her "boyfriend" after a week? How old are you guys?
2006-12-11 08:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by adrianne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a jerk. Let her make her own mind up.
If she lets someone break her and him up, how do you know it wont be just as easy to break you two up?
2006-12-11 08:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u sound like a loser and really young as well... he is hardly a boyfriend if they have only been going out for 7 days. your question is so unbelievably stupid! go and nibble on a baby biscuit
2006-12-11 08:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by wisewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of it like this, whatever she oes to him, she could easily do to you!! If she's gonna leave him for you, she could always find another guy and do it to you to!! Think about it, you dont want that type of girl!!!
2006-12-11 08:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋