i was playing on my friends phone last night and i was just having a little look at her txts when i came across dirty txt that she had sent to my bf. i had a look at her recived txt and found one txt from my bf asking who it was. so i decided to call him of her number and he answerd and when i said hello he said oh its you and put the phone down. me and my friend are now not speaking and she has txt him and explained it was her but i think he thinks it was me cause he will not answer my calls. what should i do?
2006-12-11 00:49:36 · 31 answers · asked by smith15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should get new and trustworthy friends! A true friend wouldn't text your man dirty messages! Be careful and watch your back!
Good luck.
2006-12-11 00:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably does not enjoy the txt messages that were sent to him, and when you finally called him from your friend's phone...he thought it was you. Another question I should ask you...have you been on good terms with him before that incident? Because it seems you guys were not on speaking terms. But I think you should not have called him from your friend's phone...you should have talk things over and hear what he had to say about the whole situation. If he doesn't give you the answer you want to hear then you will have to make a choice whether to go on with the relationship or just let go. Well, I hope you guys can put your differences aside and work things out.
2006-12-11 03:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by asake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds like a muppet in the first place for sending a dirty txt to your bloke! Bin her off - at least your boyfriend didnt know who it was who had txt him, which is fair enough, but to put the phone down on you when you rang is a bit strange. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but just be a bit wary and anything out of the ordinary in the future take more seriously? Good luck :-)
2006-12-11 01:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Something is not adding up. He has no reason to not be speaking to you, unless your girlfriend said something to him about you to cause him not to be answering your calls, or he called your ex gf and she said it was not her who called and had to be you, or he could have recognized your voice. So, either way, bottom line is he knows you are on to him and has turned tail and is running scared.
I suggest breaking both her arms so she can no longer text, and take out a hit contract on ur bf. (Just kidding),
In reality, confront your bf and find out what the problem is. I think your ex friend is the culprit. If you do not get a reasonable mature response from him, then it's time to make some early new years resolutions, in wiping the slate clean and finding a gf you can trust, and a bf you can trust, and that believes in you and trusts you.
Have a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year,
Darryl S.
2006-12-11 01:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a way you are able to block numbers even with the undeniable fact that it truly is different on each and each and every telephone so ask someone with your telephone or play round with it till you locate out how human beings asking perverted stuff is extra problem-free than you imagine, they're probable contained in the wish that you'll deliver them images. it truly is continually a nasty idea as they could surely get round and nicely... for different obtrusive motives. Definetly end texting them because you do not choose issues to worsen and that i doubt you're boyfriends would like another guy soliciting for issues! besides, are they somewhat worth dropping credit on?
2016-11-25 20:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you were already suspecting your friend and boyfriend!! I'm gonna say cut off all contact with both of them for now and see who comes crawling back first - then kick them into touch. You can do better than both of these horrible people, get out and about and meet some real friends!!!! All the best.x
2006-12-11 01:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by JOANNE C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to speak to your boyfriend because seems wrong here. it may be harmless and he may of reacted like that if he felt you were accusing him (somehow). However until you get an answer you will imagine all sorts of situations. whatever the outcome make sure your friend knows that even innocently sending a dirty txt to your boyfriend she has acted inappropriately and breached your trust. i hope this all works out
2006-12-11 00:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by bow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is weird, tell him the whole story, and he'll understand. But if he ain't picking up the phone, then just leave it. He'll come around eventually, and call you, that's only if you leave him alone and give him some space. As for your friend, what do friends do that?! I can't even trust my sister around my boyfriends, and it's a real shame. Confront your friend, and ask her why she would do such a thing. And then try to patch things up wit her, life's too short to be fighting over guys, best of luck. x
2006-12-11 00:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How dirty was the text i wonder ? Lover's tiff ? Or perhaps a not-interested response from your friend to an attempted romantic pass by your b/f ?
If he's not answering your calls... you found your friend had sent him a "dirty" text.... (dirty as in non-sexual i take it - sort of nasty ?)... complicated to understand what's going on.
2006-12-11 00:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You busted him and now hes being a punk thats why he isnt answering your calls you should lose the loser bf and the so called friend they both deserve each other. A true friend would not be sending texts to your bf what a whore.
2006-12-11 01:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋