Is it possible that if a man whose married says he is in love with you, that it could be real. And how can you tell? What would you say or do in this situation? Should you walk away even if you know in your heart this man might be the love of your life?
2006-12-11 00:56:16 · 34 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he could be, and yes you should walk away
tell him to get a divorce then come see you!
2006-12-11 00:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it would be nice to think so if u are in love with a married man! he may be the love of your life right now but you are bound to have more loves some may be as good if not better. walk away. because he is married. we all know that is what we have to when in a situation like this. doesn't make it any easier does it? good luck
2006-12-11 01:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by elsie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its possible to married and love someone else. I personally don't think we were meant to share our lives with just one person. Only because everyday, we grow, we change, our wants needs and desires at 25 are not the same as when we are 45. However, if chose to be married, and he did, he needs to remain true to that commitment, until he chooses to end that commitment. If he says he is in love with you, then he needs to be out of the marriage, with a clear heart and mind. If it were Me, and he were serious and you were serious. I would insist that he attend marriage counseling with his wife, he needs to try to save his marriage if at all possible. If he does, and you are the love of his life, you will know that he is true to his commitments, and that he did everything he possibly could to save his marriage and make it work. If he does go to counseling, then you need to stay away from him and not let him contact you so that he can truly make an effort at his marriage. I hope you both find happiness.
2006-12-11 01:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SERIOUSLY??? Who do you think that you are fooling? THE MAN IS MARRIED!! HE vowed the rest of his life to another woman through think, thin, better, worse. He probably has a kid too. That makes you even sicker for even thinking about being with a married man. I bet he sneaks and calls you every time his wife has her head turned. I bet you go to cheap hotels and in the car. I bet you sit by you phone and just wait for your long lost love to call you. SERIOUSLYYYYYY!!!!! YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR OWN MAN!! THIS ONE IS TAKEN. NO HE DOESNT LOVE YOU. HE IS JUST SAYING THAT TO KEEP YOUR LEGS SPREAD!!! And as long as you keep falling for it. He will keep you going with it. You dont believe he really loves you either or you wouldnt be asking it on the internet. IF YOU HAVE TO ASK...IT IS NOT REAL!! IF IT WAS REAL>>YOU WOULD KNOW IT!!!
2006-12-11 01:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by clawbeaja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to be married and love someone else. Love is an inadequat word for there are all different kinds of love, the love you have for your child, your mother, your father. he could be in love with both you and his wife, but it is what he does about it. Would you want to be with someone who brakes that kind of commitment? And waht a bout his wife should her happiness be shattered for the sake of yours? Trust me he is not the love of your life. Like him you will have other loves he thought his wife was the love of his. I promise you there will be others right round the corner, this is a big world. Do yourself a favor enjoy waht you had, enjoy your feelings but walk away and try to find someone exclusive for yourself you deserve it.
2006-12-11 01:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by beachloveric 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think the love of your life is a married cheater??? Please keep looking, there are so many men in the world. I am sure there is a great guy out there for you and just for you... Walk away while you can and be glad you are not the wife. Once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-12-11 01:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Real 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course! A persons hart is very surprised full, u know...but u can't truly know what's inside of his hart! He might lie! Try to test him or something like that, and u will see! A marriage, where one of the two in loved don't fell the same passion or love like the first day, is broken! I mean that if the man don't love the wife anymore, then is nothing more to do! The marriage is broken and don't worry...is not ur fault!Trust me!
Good luck!
Bye!
2006-12-11 01:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by andra 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is fantastically dangerous to be messing around with a man that is married. It's like bringing a curse upon yourself. He could actually be telling the truth though. Have you guys been intimate yet? How did you meet him? Did he truthfully inform you that he was married? What is his reason for not leaving her 1st before getting involved with you? The answers to these questions will set you on the right track!
2006-12-11 01:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to prove it and get a divorce. I think it's possible that people can marry the wrong person, but often times, they just don't know how to cope with commitment and don't truly understand what "better or worse" really means. I would be leary of anyone who "loves" someone when with someone else...think about it, when things get tough with you, is he going to be in love with yet another person then?
2006-12-11 00:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. As to how to tell this from any other situation involving a single person, well, there is no magical formula and I don't think marital status really has anything to do with that aspect of your question. As to your last question, are you willing to take the risk that he WON'T leave his wife for you? If that would devastate you, don't get involved in the first place.
2006-12-11 00:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by lmnop 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think so. ihave an ex who told me he will always love me, and if i wanted to be with him. I said no. But we have a dilemma. I know how he feels because i love him just as strong. So who knows. But he deceived me. I dont know if i can go thru that. But even if we are with other people, I know me and him willalways have this thing for each other. This man might be the love of your life, but you might not be his. Talk it out. If anything, he will be the one to leave you. Good luck.
2006-12-11 00:59:29 · answer #11 · answered by Yenny V 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋