What do you do with guilt? Where do you process it? Is there a time to be done with it?
2006-12-11 00:41:43 · 8 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cannot keep feeling guilty about things. I don't know what you are feeling guilty about but my husband felt guilty about his children from his first marriage and although he supported them and still supports them it almost destroyed us and almost killed him. He had to see a counselor so he could cope with every day life. He has learned that guilt is destructive and it does not help in life. Every aspect of your life is destroyed if you wallow in guilt, let it go and start over you cannot keep punishing yourself over what ever you feel guilty about. Deal with it and let it go!!.
2006-12-11 00:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guilt is very difficult to get rid of, when you least expect it, it will return and ruin a good day. If your with the person that you feel the guilt for, it is even more difficult. To tell the truth and get the guilt in the open, sometimes is the best. Good luck.
2006-12-11 08:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt is like pus that forms in the wound. The best way to cleanse it and begin healing is by opening the wound(telling someone).
if this is not done , it takes a long time for it to heal on its own, and sometimes creates a life threatening infection if not taken care of immediately!
2006-12-11 09:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only get rid of guilt by coming clean with why you feel guilt.
2006-12-11 08:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt is a waste of time and energy. The only way to get rid of it is to learn from whatever it is that makes you feel guilty and now that you know better you will do better.
I have many things to feel guilty about so I make the effort on a daily basis to make someone elses life easier, pay em a compliment, give em a big fat smile, be nice, help em, buy candy bars and give em to kids, open the door for someone who can't, you can't change what you feel guilty about but you sure can make today a day where you make someone elses life better..it works, and whatever it is you feel guilty about, remember, god forgives you so forgive yourself and get on with your life...good luck.
2006-12-11 08:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guilt, need more info
why would you feel this way, what is missing from your life.?.
2006-12-11 08:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt is to be forgiven.
2006-12-11 08:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
shivah??
2006-12-11 08:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋