Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

2006-12-10 04:47:56 · 6 answers · asked by technomix 3 in Singles & Dating

I have loved this man for so long and he is married to my ex best friend. They have been married for four almost five years. He told me how he loves me, and he said that he was going to leave his wife for me, but they never do, do they. He told me how much he loved me, but what if it was just an act, that he might have been using me, just to spice his married life up. How do get myself to move on. And should I even partake in a relationship with him, if he does leave his wife? Help!!

2006-12-10 04:46:35 · 27 answers · asked by blueygirl13815 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've met a man who is older than me. well, he's about my father's age. at first i haven't thought about having a relationship with him. but after i have hnown him closely i realised that he is a special person, that he knows many things and makes me feel very confortable when i'm with him.
but he told me that he wanted us to be more than friends and confessed he's in love with me.
i didn't really know how to react because i wasn't expecting to it, so i didn't answer for the moment . i'm very attached to him, maybe as a father, maybe as a friend or a lover i don't seem to realize it now.
but, anyway, this feeling is very confusing because, no matter what kind of feeling it might be, i care about him and i wouldn't like us to drift apart.
my friends say that he's too old for me and i should get out with guys of my age, because i might regret years after.
but would it be wrong to have a relationship with an older man? could this affect our friendship?
what do you think about it?

2006-12-10 04:45:45 · 20 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend broke up wiht ehr bf and hes been critzing ehr and calling ehr names and all and said that she changed soo much that everyone around her hates her could thsi be true ??? did she change ehr personality or not ??

2006-12-10 04:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by Lucy Pham 1 in Singles & Dating

I am with this guy who treats me so good. Gives me money, takes me out, cuddles me, and kisses me and gives me that emotional sercurity that I need. I do not want to be all paranoid, but I am so use to being hurt that I don't want it to happen again.

2006-12-10 04:43:53 · 16 answers · asked by dmchest 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i do that? if he comes and ask me, how will i be able to face him? i will see him feeling sad and i will feel SO uncomfortable...maybe if i told him ''just dont say it'' before he speaks? omg...its so complicated..

2006-12-10 04:42:57 · 5 answers · asked by ursula!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

I just turned 15 and i really want to be able to "date" like group dates but my over bearing mother won't let me b/c she treats me like a child. Any advice to prove my responsibility??

2006-12-10 04:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Lovin life 2 in Family

ok, i am in my 20s and i am friends w/ a guy in his 50s that likes me.. im sure of it. he flirts, has called my house,cellphone, makes it an effort to say and do things to show me he is interested. anyways, due to all of the attention i developed a small crush on him.. i also got tired of all of the "games" and flirting so i told him that we should stay away from each other.. well i saw him the other day and we resumed our friendship, and he was willing to be my friend again , even though i was the one who initially wanted to part friendship w/ him. now when he sees me he is reserved and he acts really weird. like you can tell that he likes me still but he is trying to hide it and the other day when i was about to leave the mall(thats where i saw him) he ran out and followed me from the store we were in, ran thru the parking lot, past about 100 cars to get to me... just to tell me that i had forgotten something that he could have given to his sister to give to me later(she lives by me)

2006-12-10 04:42:34 · 9 answers · asked by trendsetta 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i was in my moms closet looking for a belt to wear to the mall. i got a really cute one, and she reluctantly let me wear it. i broke it! the leather ripped and i dont know how to fix it! so its hiding in my desk in my room right now. do i tell her? please help! thanks!!!

2006-12-10 04:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and now she can't see so good. what should i do? will visine work?

2006-12-10 04:40:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl whom i love more than anyone in the world. She was my classfellow and She was a very brilliant student. She won too many medals in academics (we were in a medical college together, becoming doctors). I told her that i love her two years ago and asked for her hand in marriage. She said she loved me too. She agreed but her parents resisted my proposal. She became so upset by her parents attitude and failed in a single postgraduate exam six times. For all this while i was with her, beside her, helping her, encouraging, loving and caring for her all this time. But just a week ago she messaged me and said that it's been me responsible for all her failures and told me that she's breaking up as our relationship was not a blessing rather is a curse as its hindering her progress in life. We broke up. I don't know why but all this while there was not a single day she didn't say "I LOVE YOU" 10 times. Do you think that in true love you blame the one you love for all your failures?

2006-12-10 04:39:13 · 42 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Weddings

I get the impression that women nowadays (especially the younger set) are much more slutty than they used to be. After a few relationships with really wholesome women, I took a good four years off of dating anyone. Now I am ready to get back into it and it just seems there is nothing out there that has not already been emotionally and physically used up. I know that sounds harsh, but am I right or do I need to work on my perception?

2006-12-10 04:39:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do if i am depressed???

2006-12-10 04:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by mmn.mmn_1023 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is nice but sometimes he's a jerk. Should I say yes? I really want to go with somebody, but I don't want to use him. What should I do?????????

2006-12-10 04:37:25 · 12 answers · asked by soccerbabe15 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 04:36:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf has just found out that her husband has been cheating on her? Why do men and women cheat - are they lacking something in their relationship? Or do they have no self-respect and morals?

2006-12-10 04:36:42 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

still searching for mine

2006-12-10 04:36:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What's a good anniversary song?

Something sweet, something slow... something like "Wonderwall" by Oasis or "All is Full of Love" by Bjork.

I'm thinking of making a little slideshow of our pictures with a song in the background. : }

2006-12-10 04:35:53 · 6 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband recently moved out. He has had a lot of emotional and mental issues come up over the last year. He says he just needs time to deal with his past and figure out what he wants.

The thing is, since he left he comes over several times a day and even sits down to watch TV even after the kids (age 1 and 3)go to bed. I enjoy having him there so I don't kick him out. He was the one who left me.

I don't understand what he is thinking?

He wants to spend Christmas with us as a family. He even asked about New Years eve. Would it be better to ask that he have a separate Christmas with HIS family and the kids and then I have mine with them or let us all be together.

I don't know if it is better to let him have a taste of how the holidays would be like on his own or let him share it and make it amazing?!?


He won't be alone for Christmas. He has his sister and father but his mom died last Feb so it is their first Christmas without her.

2006-12-10 04:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by Sandra C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

met nice guy on personals says he does not have time not for me due to his career and elderly parents being ill and having to spend all of his time taking of them. He has never been married before and parents live with him.

Am I wasting my time on this guy or not? Why does he say he wants a relationship and then after 3 dates changes his story?

Help...................

2006-12-10 04:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by jebbie4u2005 1 in Singles & Dating

My g/f was raped a few months ago(not by me) and ever since then has only worn big baggy clothes that don't show off her hot body. Is this normal?? Why does she do this??She got consuling.
She reported the guy too.
Why isn't she ok with her body anymore?? She even quit gymnastics so she wouldn't have to wear leotards anymore.
Does she blame herself and is trying to change herself b/c of this??
Will it change eventually?? She says she is beginning to feel better again, so will it change soon?? I hate seeing her like this. I want her to be OK with herself and not hide who she is. Will she ever accept her appearance and inner self again??

2006-12-10 04:34:40 · 30 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 04:33:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with this guy named alex for about 1 year. and i loved him alot or at least i thought i did... when valentines day would come he would show up at my door around 8:00 at night with chocolates and flowers ( and payed attention to my favorite kind) ...i thought he was great and i thought we would last forever. then we broke up. it has been almost 6 months since then and we have communicated alot since. we even went on another date. but i lost his number and he hasnt called in a while. and i really wanna talk to him but i have absolutely no options on calling him.and he moved to the town next to us so i cant go to his place to see him... i also talk to his ex-girlfriend and she is going around saying they reconciled but she has lied about that before...she is the small gossip queen in town but she lies out her teeth... what do i do??? HELP!

2006-12-10 04:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by tori 1 in Singles & Dating

im thinking about buying a diamond for my girlfriends engagement ring online because they cost about half as much... probably .75-1 carat, i was thinking about amazon.com since it is a reputable retailer and all their diamonds are AGS graded which is the same as most jewelery stores. but im leary spending several thousand dollars on a mail order diamond i wont have seen until i get it.... does anybody have any experience purchasing from amazon or other sites? were you satisfied with quality/service? was the quality as good as what you get in a store? i asked this question once already and a bunch of people who have no experience or anything to judge whether this is a good idea all told me not to... if you dont have any experience doing this please dont answer!

2006-12-10 04:32:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend has shoulder-lenght hair. And I feel weird now that I cut most of my hair off. My hair used to be longer than his but I'm trying to go natural.

2006-12-10 04:32:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 5 months(aniversery right after xmas) and we have realized that throughout most of our relationship we have just given up our own ideas and attempted to make the other happy. Sometimes we could see breif periods of pure happyness where it worked perfectly, but almost since the begining all we have been trying to do is change the other and just giving in to make the other happy. We now realized this, but we dont know what to do about it, we utterly need to find us.

We have contemplated several options

we could break up, but that would hurt alot, and it might not b useful because we still might b meant for each other

we could take a break, find us and get back together to see how it works out, but that would hurt alot, and we might not b able to think under that pain

we could just continue like this, but that wouldnt help either of us find who we are and make sure we are meant for each other

we would desprately like another option

2006-12-10 04:31:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think she's cheating, since she is pretty overweight (I don't mind, but I KNOW other guys do!)...but she's on this kick of I have got to be nice to her...like "civil", she keeps saying, though I work hard and bring in all the money! Yeah, she used to work and got me through some tough times (I'm a recovering alcoholic since '95...and I got seizures after a head injruy)...an SHE says all that should count, but what about how she treats ME now? Is it my fault she drinks now? NO. (she says I was mean BEFORE she started drinking, after I got out of prison for my 4th DuI and started sleeping alone...I was flipped out by my experience!) Is it my fault she took care of me? NO! What am I supposed to do...devote my friggin' LIFE to her and our kid?

2006-12-10 04:31:09 · 22 answers · asked by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How to descirbe a girl/boy who always has a crush on someone else?

I like to hang out with my friends and people watch. But once they meet a good-looking person...They just tell me...I love him/her so much and wanna be his/her lover..

What kinds of adj are sutible for describing my friends?

spoonky? or something like that?

2006-12-10 04:30:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My sister and I are not talking to my mother and brother since my father died. My mother has signed over all her assets to my younger brother (2 mill.) My brother talked her into it, because he is her favorite. The worst part is they kept it a secret for 6 years. When we found out, by mistake neither of them tried to rectify it and don't care that we are hurt. In the six year period of the secret, I myself built my brother a large house for his family to live in (at cost - and saved him at least $400K). My sister and I both have families with children who will not receive any inheritance because of this. Now that it is holiday, they still want to spend it with us, but we don't want any part of them. It not about the money, it's about the deceit and the hurt. My younger brother is living off of my mother's money and he is jealous of me and my sister. He just wants us to accept the situation and we can't. His wife is rude and abusive to our mother and he does not care. He controls her.

2006-12-10 04:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by LouieP 1 in Family

well, i have a friend who just had a baby and she lived with her boyfriend until recently, when he broke up with her and got with another woman. mind you, all three (the boyfriend, my friend, and the Hooker) work with me at the bank and now everybody is very hostile towrads the Slut. My friend and her baby are now living w/ me and my husband, but theHooker always calls to harass all of us and when my nephew answered the phone once, she made him cry! what should i do? she also claimed that my husband had her car towed after she denied to ave sex with him. he didn't even know who she was until she accused him. what should i do?

2006-12-10 04:29:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends