Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

Ok im 14 and i have an almost 4 month old son. my brother already said i could get married when i wanted to that he would sign because he has custody of me. and this guy .dylan who i named my son after Dylan is 15 he will marry me when i want to he already said im tottally in love with him have been since i was 12. hes took care of me since ive had the baby and etc. what do you think of that anything posittive? please answer me its very important.

2006-12-10 04:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im am terified of my bfs mom for absolutly no reason but whenever i even hear someone talk about her i feel sick is there anyway i can make it stop?

2006-12-10 04:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by savvy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and never been kissed - I just started going out with this guy (my first boyfriend) He's kinda shy - what o you think kinda the average time of going out is before the first kiss - should i be nervous - i know i would be his first too!

2006-12-10 04:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

isthgis right say me suggestions to concentrate on my work---plz do ans

2006-12-10 04:12:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting abused....verbally, emotionally, and sometimes pshyically. I tried counceling....I tried to change myself...nothing has worked. I have bruises from when my sister kicked me in the stomach on Friday....she also threatened to kill me. I am trying to get a placve to live yet my parents keep taking my money and not letting me go anywhere. I even tried to kill myself to get away...found out I don't want to be dead just yet. I need help so please help me!

2006-12-10 04:12:32 · 7 answers · asked by *you make me feel invisible* 2 in Family

my fiancée is still in school I heard that she was going to by me a 15$ Silver Insanity wedding ring I was wondering if its a good ring I don’t care about the price its just I broke out easily with fake jewelry and I don’t want to ever take it off so she wont get pissed cuz thats my better half without her im nothing. so if anybody know is it a lifetime garanty ring or just temporary.
please help as good as u get or if you know another cheap website that she can get me one under 30 that wont break me out that’ll be very helpful
thanks godbless you all

2006-12-10 04:12:25 · 2 answers · asked by john c 1 in Weddings

isthgis right say me suggestions to concentrate on my work---plz do ans

2006-12-10 04:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 41 year old wife had a mid-life crisis, and had a affair with a old man in his 50. She brings him to all the childrens sports events. Should I be so bold to bring my girlfriend that is a professional ball room dancer, and much younger to these events? I am trying to be distreet, for the kids...

2006-12-10 04:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by cc8462r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a Blowie job when potentially its a sucking job?

2006-12-10 04:11:06 · 20 answers · asked by missree 5 in Singles & Dating

this boy is so confusing, we talk everynight (either on msn or phone), i go to his house (sometimes), i like him alot (when we first met he told me he liked me too but i dont know how he feels anymore), he's stopped now, but he used to complain about his ex gf alot to me, after he knew i liked him && wanted him, he got a girlfriend (but didnt tell me about it - i heard from other people because everyone else knew, he told me he didnt want to hurt my feelings) sometimes i think he likes me and other times i think he's just using me. as awful as it sounds, i think if i lost some weight ((im an unhealthy 211pds)) i think i'd have a better chance, b/c he says all the time that "big ppl" look so unhealthy, and like they dont take care of themselves and stuff but he also said that 100pd chicks are way to skinny! but as advised from the doctor, i already have to lose weight ((so im not losin it for him, im loosin it because im a risk for diabetes and other things, HEARTATTACKS as well lol))
but back to him..
-what do you think? && what should i do?

2006-12-10 04:10:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(answer this honestly, im doing this for school)

Ill ask you and just pick a, b, c, d.. etc
think of ALL the questions together not seprately.

I suggest you copy this and answer

1. Weight and Height:
a)Skinny and Short
b)Skinny and Tall
c) Average and Short
d) Average and Tall
e)Chubby/Overweight and Short
f)Chubby/OVerweight and Tall

2) Looks...
eyes:
blue
green
brown
other______

hair:
blonde
brown
black
other_______

3) Personality: (pick all that apply)
smart
funny
caring
nice
aggressive
mean
shy
annoying
playfully
----------------------

Would you ever date a girl that has some of your dislikes?
Would you date a girl who isn't the same race as you? would you marry someone out of your race?
How about dating a girl who has a different religion?
--------------------------------

thanks for your time

2006-12-10 04:10:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, I keep reading how many of you are in sexless marriages. How your husband either has a condition or simply doesnt want to have sex with you. My question is why are you so upset? I mean, in my view, as a general rule you ladies didnt seem to mind too much when it was you gals putting your men through such things or telling them no and then giving them no good or reasonable explanations for it.

In my view, most of this is the same old thing. You ladies want what you want. If you are the person doing something another doesnt like, it is still okay and reasonable in your mind or somehow justified. If you are the person who isnt doing something like having sex with your husband, you should be respected and understood and your not having sex with your husband is justified. When a man acts the same way toward you, he is somehow an uncaring, mean bastard.

Do you ladies ever get ashamed of your double standards or do you even think about it?

2006-12-10 04:09:44 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. JW 3 in Marriage & Divorce

alcoholic and drug addict. She has 2 kids ages 5 & 8. Last summer my husband and I ended up with her kids for 3 months because we called DCFS on her. She has a bad habit of leaving for several days at a time and we always get the kids dropped in our lap from someone else. I love my neice and nephew very much and I also love my sister......BUT......she needs help and this is not good for her kids. How do I help her to realize what she's doing to her kids and to the rest of the family?? Should I call and turn her into DCFS again?? What are foster homes like?? I heard some bad things about them?? The end of the rope is here and I'm not sure how much more I can take of this. Would they go to a foster home? Would the kids be split up? I feel sick about all this and so in the middle of it all. I'm tired and weary. Any suggestions would be nice. Thanks.

2006-12-10 04:08:39 · 16 answers · asked by AMCgremlin 1 in Family

I have this friend and he makes me laugh, feel happier, and he loves me for who I am!! I talk to him for hours with no end!! We basically see eachother every day!! And he goes to a different school!! He makes these pems that make my eyes water!! And I love him so much!! And I never felt like this before!

2006-12-10 04:08:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I grew up in a very loving city, my father passed away and my mother decided to move to a city that is highly dangerous (my extended famliy lives there) and where the people arent very loving. My mother started mistreating me because she was suffering because she didnt have any support (not even from my family members). I got severly sick at age 18 and almost became handicapped. Yet I still went to my university and worked for 4 years until I couldnt do it anymore, during this time I met a man who is very loving, but I do not love him, I married him out of surival (he knows this). How to find contempment in the middle of adversity and injustice?

2006-12-10 04:08:27 · 5 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I enjoy but sometimes I feel guilty. And no I am not religious.

2006-12-10 04:08:24 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

So im 15 and i haven't had a girlfriend in over 15 years, im kinda chuby but im working on that, but when it comes to chics, yea, im lost, So theres this chic, and im into her, and my other friends, that are girls :D, want me to get together with her, but I want to make the move, How do I?

2006-12-10 04:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by Mike_M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 2 year old son who's father never established paternity. I want to leave the state. Can I do so without informing him, and how do I keep him from coming back 10 years from now? I want no child support, I just want him to have no contact. Also there is a criminal no contact order thorugh the city that I live hime because of domestic violence and there is an extended order for protection against domestic violence. He has spent approx 300 days in jail for domestic violence on 2 seperate occasions.

2006-12-10 04:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by ijustwanttobeloved4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

drunk last night and called her we had a very good talk and i feel like maybe we should try again

2006-12-10 04:04:48 · 17 answers · asked by sudzy1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 04:04:09 · 13 answers · asked by hopie_su_bites 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i get my ex back. we work together an know he is dating another woman at the job

2006-12-10 04:01:30 · 16 answers · asked by qiana t 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl whom i love more than anyone in the world. She was my classfellow and She was a very brilliant student. She won too many medals in academics (we were in a medical college together, becoming doctors). I told her that i love her two years ago and asked for her hand in marriage. She said she loved me too. She agreed but her parents resisted my proposal. She became so upset by her parents attitude and failed in a single postgraduate exam six times. For all this while i was with her, beside her, helping her, encouraging, loving and caring for her all this time. But just a week ago she messaged me and said that it's been me responsible for all her failures and told me that she's breaking up as our relationship was not a blessing rather is a curse as its hindering her progress in life. We broke up. I don't know why but all this while there was not a single day she didn't say "I LOVE YOU" 10 times. Do you think that in true love you blame the one you love for all your failures?

2006-12-10 04:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by Dr. Sam 3 in Family

christmas is coming up and winter break starts friday 4 us
my gf and i have been together since last tuesday
i dont know should i get her something?
if so suggestions plz and if not plz tell why.
im tyhinking of a simple card

2006-12-10 04:00:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and sometimes my friends talk to him, they REFUSE to help me talk to him so i have to do it by myself, i dont know what to do to get him to notice me... any advice?

2006-12-10 03:59:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy ased me out friday morinng and we really like each other everything was perfect all day we talked and talked and hugged he was perfect like i actaully wrote this note to him that sed i love you and put it is his pen and he wrote back i love you to.
he was perfect . and since i was on restriction i couldnt hang out with him saturday so i went to our school basktball game on frieday after school . we were together the whole time happy as anything . hes the 1st guy ive actualy wanted to be with and that kept me happy in i dont know when. but turns out one of my friends told him i was gunna dump himand go out with him .
at the b ball game all the sudden he sed he had to use the bathroom he wrote s note and gave it to 2 of my friends 2 give to me that sed i dont wanna go with you no more.then he left.i was absoluly heartbroke. i havnt seen him since but i know he likes me he juss got freaked when that guy told him that stuff.but the thing is everything was perfect at the bball

2006-12-10 03:58:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok....im not a geek in school...but im not popular at all.....i wear all the clothes that the popular girls wear. im in 8th grade....i want to be popular SO bad...one issue is 2 of the most popular girls in school HATE me....and in sixth grade i was a geek and pretty wierd. but now im pretty and not geeky at all!!! i rele want to b popular and b noticed by the guy i like!!! we are perfect together....how can i get popular and get him to like me?

2006-12-10 03:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And I'm not looking for like "just believe in yourself" and "dont care what others think of you" becuase let's face it, that's alot easier said than done. Does anyone have like...concrete things I can do? (ex: One thing i've done thats helped is writing down my blessings each day.)

2006-12-10 03:55:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to find a men who can completes me!! How can I find THE RIGHT GUY????

2006-12-10 03:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by frenchgirlXX 1 in Singles & Dating

6 months back i met this guy online
we like talk to each other everyday and neither believes in the online relationshit stuff...
but its like we ve been there for each other when the other one was going through difficult times...
now he said he wanted to just meet up and talk someday... no obligations like upto me, otherwise we could remain online friends....
im wondering if thats prudent or sane...
bcoz he could be anybody..

2006-12-10 03:55:16 · 14 answers · asked by vegas l 1 in Singles & Dating

Although he's 50, he's still a big kid. Likes to have fun, loves his family, etc.

Any ideas on something appropriate?

2006-12-10 03:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family