i m in a committed relationship for over a year and a half now. but each time my girlfriend speaks to any other guy, for watever reason, i tend to upset myself thanks to my possessiveness. she receives a lot of sms's from guys who claim to be her fans etc, which again makes me insecure at times. also i know of a few guys who are nice to her(more nice to her than other girls) n when she speaks to them, i get possessive! one of those guys s a close friend of mine who once had a crush on her!
the more i try to not take things seriously n too much to heart, the more i m unable to control myself n often it stresses me out like hell. worst part s tat though i tel her when i feel possessive, i jus cant let her know tat she s one of the reasons tat i get stressed out, cos i know she ll feel very very hurt for no real fault of her own!
anyone, pls can u advice how i should deal with my possessiveness? thanks so much!
2006-12-10
04:21:22
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