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Well ever since kindergarten ive been friends with my group of friends until recently a lot have moved away... I want to make friends with new people some are the people ive known since kindergarten((im in 9th grade)) but we've never really been friends before and they all have their friends. How can we be friends when we've know each other for so long but never made the connection. NOTE that we've had fun in classes at times but never really just made the bound that makes us friends.

there are some complications... for one im an identical twin, and im chubby.

2006-12-10 04:20:06 · 3 answers · asked by Alkard 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Hey!Cheer up.U can be a closer friend with them if u did some of these things.I used to be like u last year.I really used to love my friends but we were actually not so close.Through the summer vacation,I tried to get closer.This year,the results were obvious.Actually,we r now the best of friends & we really care about each other.Anyways,I'll stop talking about myself now & I'll tell u the things u can do:

*Try to look on the bright side of things. Smile at everybody, which will show people what a fun person you are.
*Be positive and fill your speech with uplifting words. Never make an insulting joke to get attention. Companions are courteous and complimentary.
*Have confidence and try to always have a fun time.
*Make sure you are organized and not sloppy because when you are sloppy, people are not going to like the real you and they will judge you by the way you look and/or the things you have.
*If anybody asks you a question, answer in a friendly and polite way.
*Be sincerely interested in what others have to say. Look them in the eye. Listen carefully. Ask questions.
*Empathize. Laugh (with them, not at them). Be good company.
*Call your friends at least once a week to check on them and see how they're doing. They'll be happy you care. Tell them that you appreciate them.
*Remember important things about them such as things they like and their birthdays.
*Never, ever blurt out a friend's secret! Not only would you lose your friend's trust, but the trust of everyone around you.
*Always trust your gut feelings about people. If you feel someone (as nice as they may seem) is not the right person to make friends with, then move along.
*Don't be afraid to stand up for what is right. If you know one of your friends is doing something that you know is wrong, confront them. If you're a friend, you won't let them do the wrong thing.
*Try to bring them gifts to express ur feelings & invite them to parties.If they invited u to any,just try to attend.This will give them a good impression about u that u r an outgoing person.

And remember that u have to seek out "true" friends. A false friend will destroy rather than build up a relationship. By the way,what the heck is wrong if u r a chubby person.It's from inside that countsShow them who r u from inside & u'll feel the difference.Good luck,dude!!

2006-12-10 05:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by ..pAniC aTTacks.. 4 · 1 0

good i suppose i will make peers conveniently it depends upon the character if i meet a character that has plenty n ordinary with me then we undoubtedly can be pleasant peers the next day to come and if i meet anyone who's a little exclusive then me it could take a while for us to be truly peers

2016-09-03 09:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you need to spend time

2006-12-10 04:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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