Ok..there is this boy who is propably in love with me for 2 yrs...and the summer we had been talking and i thought ''if he ask me to be his girlfriend i will tell him yes''....but things changed...he isnt the person i knew...although he tells me that nothing has changed...and i ve talked to him about these problems i have and plus there is another guy who came into my life...but i dont date him yet..So, if the first boy tells me that he is in love with me...what will say? he propably thinks that i still like him..since i talk to him really gently and i have told him not to worry about his past...HELP..
2006-12-10 04:26:05 · 12 answers · asked by ursula!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you NEED to be str8 up and to the point...you have to be forward the first time. Don't be cruel, but just make suuuure your point gets across. He can't leave with any hope. It won't be right. Love sucks sometimes but everybody gets the crappy side every once in a while. My hat is tipped to you. Sweet of you to want to do it politely,.
2006-12-10 04:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 02:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem. Don't make one. Never let a guy make you feel OBLIGATED to be his girl friend. Everybody and that includes you, has the full right to chose the right person (mutual choice) by the way.
Say, I like you alot but I'm not in love with you. We are just friends.
Let me say it again, and I'm speaking as a guy here, who has been rejected by some pretty nice girls (and some rotten ones too), don't make a big deal out of it.
Be nice but be honest. (NOT TOO HONEST. DON"T TELL HIM YOU DON"T LOVE HIM BECAUSE OF SOME BAD QUALITIES.)
Just say, I don't want you to get the wrong idea. I like you alot, but you are not the right person for me.
In short, nobody owns you. You should be nice but don't be afraid to assert you own choices. It may take him time to get over this, esepecially if you date the other guy right after. Probably no way, you can not hurt the first guy a bit, if you are sure you want to date the second guy right a way.
Good luck. Its not easy.
2006-12-10 04:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you talk to this boy and tell him not to worry, is not telling him that your in love with him.so if he says that he loves you then tell him that you love him but only as a friend, that the feelings that you may have had for him at one time are not the same that you have for him now. just be honest don't give the kid falls hope.
2006-12-10 04:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the first guy cuz after u lose him u'll find out hes the only one u want 2 be with
2006-12-10 04:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't love him tell him... you can be friends without dating and if he asks why u don't love him tell him that you care about him but you just can't date him because you don't want to ruin the friendship..
2006-12-10 04:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm sorry, Cletus, but my feelings have changed. It's nothing you've done, I'm just at a different point in my life."
In case his name isn't Cletus, feel free to substitute his actual name.
2006-12-10 04:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can just say that u want to take break from dating, he should understand. trust me that will work! :)
2006-12-10 04:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him gently that your not ready for someone who is that serious about you
2006-12-10 04:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just say, "i can't be your girlfriend, the way i felt about you has changed"
be honest, its the easiest way.
2006-12-10 04:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by xbrex43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋