Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

My mates think i suit with this guy and always push me onto him or shout something out when he goes past
HOW DO I STOP THEM?!

2006-12-10 05:14:07 · 25 answers · asked by sofia k 2 in Friends

REALLY need people to help me. we've been together for about 2 years. we're going out anyway.. so not an active thing.. a shirt- jumper etc etc. he's 16 years old. (i know- we're young) but it is a serious thing, promise. (he's not at emo or chav or anything) he's boarding preppy. please send links of nice ideas, or just help with ideas. this is my last chance for ideas. xx

2006-12-10 05:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a wonderful friend for 8 years. We really have both known there was more than friendship, but never took it to there until just recently. To be honest with you, when it happened, the sex wasn't good.

He now has ended everything with me. He said he believes it wasn't God's will for us to be together. I gave him some space for awhile and then one day he emailed me and told me that he did not want me to try to contact him anymore because he was seeing someone else and wanted to be totaly commited to it.

I am so hurt and lost without my friend. I know we should have never gone there. He will not return any emails or phone calls.

He has hurt me so bad. His friendship meant more to me than anything in this world.

It has been about 2 1/2 months now since we spoke. I am wanting to send him a Christmas card, but don't whether to or not. I just want him to know that I am still thinking of him.

Should I send this card?

2006-12-10 05:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by MES 2 in Friends

I'm finally willing to admit that I'm one of the most co-dependant people I know. I can't be happy unless I'm in a relationship of some kind and it's ruining my life. I feel like I'm going to end up driving one of my best guy friends away because I'm so needy and lonely all the time. I don't even feel like a whole person unless someone is affirming that I'm special/loved/worthy of attention. I have no idea what to do, but I know I'll never have a satisfying life or relationship until I change this.

2006-12-10 05:13:31 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie M 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and My Boyfriend broke-up before 7months . And he didn't contact me for 7months .
And now he is sending email and wanna talk with me .

I still love him he was my first love and his tooo .
We love each other so much . But before 7months for a silly things he broke-up with me .
And I really got hurt from him .But I still love him .

What I suppose to do now ? I am love with him but scare if he hurt me again .

Plz can you help me to decide what I suppose to do now ? plzzz thanks

2006-12-10 05:11:49 · 1 answers · asked by Tithi 2 in Singles & Dating

we argue like every day now she says we arent getting any thing for christmas and i really want to just stay out of her way, do my chors and be good so we can have some peace in our house so how can i teach my self to bite my lip and be really good from now on (im fourteen) thanx

sorry for any spelling mistakes!!!

2006-12-10 05:11:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband has been away in limitary training for a few months and will be coming home soon. We have an infant and I stay at home with her(I am also pregnant). Anyhow, while he was away I moved in with my father and step-mom. Things went smoothly for a while but I have had a troubled past with my step-mom and we are very different and tend to clash as well as we have bad history. I was out of the country for a few years and did some growing up and now things have been much better between us because I don't let her BS upset me the way that I used to.

Anyhow, since my husband has been gone step-mom has made some rude remarks about how I care for my daughter. She tries to butt in but I don't give her much space. Also yesterday she said something and my father defended me and told her to shut her mouth about those things because I am a good mom. Things were smooth for a while but I want to move as soon as my husband gets orders for his next station. My question is...

2006-12-10 05:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by Somebody'sMother 3 in Family

I date a lot....and i am trying to figure out a problem that I have with girls that i care about With girls that i fall in love with, i get really jealousy and paranoid that they are going to cheat on me. I dunno what to do, and how to stop this cycle. I am in a realtionship right now, and i love this girl a lot, but i dont want to lose because of my jealousy and I dont want to control her..HELP ME PLEASE!!!

2006-12-10 05:10:05 · 1 answers · asked by aznromeo4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

It is a very nice and expensive ring and I want her to enjoy it and keep it nice..

2006-12-10 05:09:33 · 15 answers · asked by swanny2213 2 in Weddings

i've always wondered...
what do you think when you see a hot girl?
what about if you find out an ugly girl likes you?
honest answers please!

2006-12-10 05:09:29 · 11 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago she thought she was pregnant n wudnt talk to me she is not pregnant though it was a stupid fight, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt. so i left her alone for a few days, she emailed me yesterday and said she was going to flynns(bar) she said she was goin with a freind and said she will see me if im there.. i didnt go i wanted her to have space and i didnt want her thinking im desperate.she called me a a few mins ago and asked if she could get her stuff from my room,sumtime this week i said of course you can(im trying to keep cool) she said ok, i
didnt make small talk, i think she expected me too, but i think its up to her, she nos i luv her

2006-12-10 05:09:07 · 14 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Singles & Dating

It begs the question where have you been all this time, in the relationship, i would think that you would know what you got when you were together not when it's gone....why is it only when you are loosing something it means more, becomes more important?....let me know your views on this

2006-12-10 05:08:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He likes electronics and computers. I want to spend up to $20. Any suggestions?????????????

2006-12-10 05:08:53 · 3 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family

Okay, I have a friend that is getting married, and her parents are the sole financial contributors for the wedding. The bride and groom are recent college grads that have yet to find jobs, so they are unable to put any money towards the wedding. The bride and grooms families are all blue collar type people with no clue about designers and fomalities.

Here's the problem: The bride has insisted on the best that money has to offer, although she came from humble beginnings and her parents are struggling to make it a wonderful wedding they cannot afford all that she is asking for but feel obligated. She insists on Vera Wang china and champagne flutes, designer everything! The guests are all country folk that would not know Vera Wang from Wal-mart. Should her parents break the bank or she should come back down off of her high horse and be realistic?

2006-12-10 05:08:28 · 10 answers · asked by stacey h 3 in Weddings

My brothers always mean and narks on me. What do I do?

2006-12-10 05:08:27 · 2 answers · asked by Katie M 1 in Family

I am 22 nearly 23 I had my first son when i was 15-16 he is now 6yrs old..I was rapped and emotional wrecked when my son hit the age of 3. there was a bad lot of people who moved into my area and held me by gun point for money and the rest...I feared my life as i reported it to the police...My sons grandmother convienced me the best thing at the time would be to sign over residents order to her so i did after a couple of months i went back 2get him and she said i couldnt have him. I became more depressed as i didnt know what 2do i tried 2 get him back she refused so i left town as i couldnt take the stress was to much and i have no family to support me. i moved to london where i had my son now aged 2 i am studying and working for social services i have been back for 6mnths begging her to let me see him...On top of all this me and the dad of my first child have got back together aswell as we have been like high school lovers just the past got very heated and no one knew what to do..

2006-12-10 05:06:59 · 6 answers · asked by MissTee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 16 and i have a girlriend of about a year and a half.but the other night i had a dream where my best chick friend and my girlfriend made out then i joined in then it became a threesome.can someone PLEASE tell me what this dream means?

2006-12-10 05:06:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was only 45 yrs. & a police officer. I was so proud of him. He passed 3 months before my wedding. We were very close. I understand that he's gone, but it doesn't seem 'real' to me. Is it making it all worse by 'talking' to him at night? I feel like it's part of the grieving process, but I just want to feel better & don't know if the way I'm dealing with it's unhealthy for me. I still miss him so much & part of me feels like it helps to 'talk' to him, but I also wonder if that's keeping it all from becoming 'real' to me. I'm just so confused & hurt right now. Sometimes it makes me physically sick when I think about him really being gone. By the time I found out he was in the hospital & not doing well, I had to drive 2 hrs on the ice to get to him. By the time I got there, he was gone. I partially think that's the reason I am still holding on so strongly. . . because I didn't really get to say goodbye. I'm a psychology major, & I feel like I should be able to deal with it, but I can't

2006-12-10 05:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by tx_princess012001 1 in Family

Hello all - would appreciate advice on following - I am pretty inexperienced with women - sex etc makes me nervous - i worry about not getting it right. I am seeing this great woman at the moment - it is getting serious - should i tell her about being nervous or would i look like a total idiot? Thanks.

2006-12-10 05:05:08 · 2 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I joined the navy and met this guy who is in the army he just got done with boot camp and I leave tomorrow. I like him so much and he likes me but he wants to date right now and I don't want to be in a relationship when I leave it's hard for me to trust guys. But he is a good guy and he asked me more than 20 times to go out with him. What do you think I should do? help this is so hard.

2006-12-10 05:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by juggle 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to write the simplest of all wills - i.e. "I leave everything to my wife" - with no exceptions or conditions.

2006-12-10 05:04:42 · 3 answers · asked by mdejme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been in a relationship with a black man for 2years now. At first we dated on and off. For a year of our two year relationship, we decided to see each other exclusively. I felt as if I was a good catch. I am working on my Master's degree and he is blue collar brother that I respected and admired. To make a long story short, I found that he has a "solid" relationship with the mother of his children and a older woman who provides for him financially (and physically). We were planning on moving in with each other, he was shopping for an engagement ring, and we were both planning on spending the rest of our lives together. He spent so much time with me. Everyday we saw each other.

I try not to think about the resentment and hurt I feel. All I know is that I dont think I can trust, respect, or love another man period. I love black men so much, but it just seems to me as if they hate the very existence of black women. Someone tell me why black girls love hard?

2006-12-10 05:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by hypnotiq8 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my current boyfriend havn't been going out very long but since i'm not allowed to date then i only see him at school. well i don't want to break my mothers rules b/c i have enough respect to know that i should just wait but he keeps tellin me to lie and go out with him and he does a lot of thins that really annoy me. si the relationship over aready??

2006-12-10 05:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Lovin life 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not into those kinna things ... Is that normal. plz help

2006-12-10 05:03:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would u do if u and i were locked in a room together for 2 days?

2006-12-10 05:02:57 · 5 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Singles & Dating

i socialize a lot when im in school i dont know wht todo anymore......

2006-12-10 05:01:59 · 18 answers · asked by breszille 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out for a month and a half last year. Things were going great until I totally messed things up. Anyway, we broke up. Now we are best friends. I really love him and i believe we are soul mates. I had a party last night and he came over. I saw him checking me out and I could feel a special bond. All our friends are bugging us to get back together because we are like peanut butter and jelly. Equally good by itself but the best together. What do I do? I really want to get back together with him. Please, please help me.

2006-12-10 05:01:18 · 17 answers · asked by Flutie 3 in Singles & Dating

well this guy and me were together for the 3 time and he hears thins like i waz going out with wit hiz friend and things like that see iz like every time we get back together theirs a problem and all my friends say i dont need him even sum fo his friends tell me that but i really like him and every time i tink im over him im not and the thing that really hurts me is i go throught so much for him and i feel like he dosent care i want him but i kno i need to let him go but i cant i dont know so what do i do give him up or keep on getting back wit him

2006-12-10 05:00:52 · 5 answers · asked by ahkiya :) 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that stays in a different state than me she allowed me to use her credit/debir card for 1 transaction at that point I wrote down the info in black ink and scratched so hard til the pen point statred to rip the paper during a heated arguement he brought up the fact he is using her credit/debit card to pay his cell bill (mind you he got caught cheating w a girl that was paying his bill long story hollaback) I haven't spoken to my friend in 3 months due to being busy suddenly I get a call from her 2 days ago we were on the phone for hours not once did she mention activities on her card were being used by anyone if someone was using my card and I didn't know I was dumb due to me being bright I told him he was lying people don't miss anything when it comes to $ other than losing it I know if someone was using my card I will know immediately he says she just don't see it on her statements thats crazy how you not see your $ being spent that is stupid he is lying vote!

2006-12-10 05:00:44 · 11 answers · asked by msthicknest773 1 in Marriage & Divorce

be honest ....

2006-12-10 05:00:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating