My mates think i suit with this guy and always push me onto him or shout something out when he goes past
HOW DO I STOP THEM?!
2006-12-10 05:14:07 · 25 answers · asked by sofia k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just shout and holler, " Hey, mate how you doing he thinks I suit with you, do you want to suit with me.
2006-12-10 05:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I HATE that. That is so annoying.!! It used to happen to me, so I fixed the problem. Stop hanging out with them when you know the guy is going to be there. And if they lie to you & tell you he's not going & he shows up, leave. Show them you mean business-- you don't like the guy to begin with & them making comments is not going to make you like him. Eventually they will get the point that you're not kidding, and if they still want to be your friends, they will need to respect your wishes.
Good luck!
2006-12-10 05:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by erica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is make it clear to them you don't appreciate their behavior, don't find it amusing, and would like them to stop. Beyond that, it's up to them...
If they are really your friends, they wouldn't want to put you in an awkward position or force you onto someone you have no interest in.
2006-12-10 05:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them seriously to stop doing this or you'll not see them anymore. That's humiliating for you and if they're real mates, they shouldn't be doing that to you. Have a word with them and tell them to stop 'cos it's pi**ing you off big style. I'd hate this if it was me.
2006-12-10 05:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a mate then if they dont consider your feelings! I would tell them to grown up and stop being so childish! If you feel you can, I would speak to the guy .. and tell him to please excuse your mates, they are just being childish and silly!
2006-12-10 06:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel, ask them to stop, and if they don't, find some new mates.
2006-12-10 05:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lana P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with them and tell them exactly how you feel.
If theyr proper mates theyl understand.
Hope it goes well.
2006-12-10 05:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Luke D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They obviously don't think you are forward enough to step out.
So next time step out, and say to them and to the guy, get a life I have sense enough to say something if I choose to do so.
2006-12-10 05:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are not interested and if they continue to do so you will seek repercussions, then cackle evilily (ok, you don't have to cackle, but you get the point)
2006-12-10 05:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Miaka D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know that you don't appreciate their behavior and that if it doesn't change you're going to stop hanging out with them.
2006-12-10 05:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋