Well I joined the navy and met this guy who is in the army he just got done with boot camp and I leave tomorrow. I like him so much and he likes me but he wants to date right now and I don't want to be in a relationship when I leave it's hard for me to trust guys. But he is a good guy and he asked me more than 20 times to go out with him. What do you think I should do? help this is so hard.
2006-12-10 05:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by juggle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you are leaving ask him to write you. Get to know him before taking the next step. Just be honest with him. If he doesn't understand or respect your wishes he is not mature enough to be with you.
2006-12-10 05:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by maddiesmom982001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him that it's going to be hard to go out with someone when you two are going to be apart for awhile I know this will help you and him because I was kind of in the same situation before with my girlfriend.
2006-12-10 13:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Teodoro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can't tell u wot 2 do.. u r da only one who knows him and i think u gonna take da right answer. sometimes we r just blind cant see dat good guys r infront of us. we keep think we wont finde them etc. and it's only bad guys we meet.
i mean u said he asked u 20 time. why not see if it gonna work out 4 bough of u. u like him and i guess he likes u too since he asked u 20 times.
dont wait long 4 ur answer or choice. coz then he might dont wait dat long.
GOOD LUCK :)
2006-12-10 13:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by lil_g_aka_nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't want to date right now just exchange addresses and talk while u 2 are stationed. if u 2 are going to different states/countries its not gonna work, sounds like he wants sex.
2006-12-10 13:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. You will never know unless you give it a shot. Just don't get too attached right off. You can do it, and don't worry, have fun!
2006-12-10 13:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should talk to him and tell him about your situation but surely talk to him you don't want to lose a nice guy just get to now him and believe me you will feel better
2006-12-10 13:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by know eveything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him. And if you fear his trustworthiness, use his code of honour to guilt.
2006-12-10 13:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Grant A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋