I had a wonderful friend for 8 years. We really have both known there was more than friendship, but never took it to there until just recently. To be honest with you, when it happened, the sex wasn't good.
He now has ended everything with me. He said he believes it wasn't God's will for us to be together. I gave him some space for awhile and then one day he emailed me and told me that he did not want me to try to contact him anymore because he was seeing someone else and wanted to be totaly commited to it.
I am so hurt and lost without my friend. I know we should have never gone there. He will not return any emails or phone calls.
He has hurt me so bad. His friendship meant more to me than anything in this world.
It has been about 2 1/2 months now since we spoke. I am wanting to send him a Christmas card, but don't whether to or not. I just want him to know that I am still thinking of him.
Should I send this card?
2006-12-10 05:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by MES 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's a toughie, I say go for it, send him the card. If all you want to let him know is that you are thinking of him then the card will sure do the trick. whether or not he even opens the card the thought of you will already be burned into his head and you would have done your part.
best wishes
ps. don't make the card too mushy, try to keep it simple yet heartfelt.
2006-12-10 05:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by myfianceisamonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it hurts, no, you should NOT send him the card. He told you he wants no further contact with you, so if you truly care about him you should respect his wishes. If he wants to resume communication with you, let that be HIS move.
2006-12-10 13:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by clefmeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it and whatever happens happens. If he does read the card though you might wanna write something that has a chance of repairing your relationship. write something like "i've been lost without you and i hope that because of one thing that happened doesnt mean that we cant be friends anymore. i miss you being here and i want to talk to you again. you were a really good friend and now that i have lost you as my good friend there is a hole in my heart. please consider talkong to me again. sincerely, (your name)"
I hope i helped!
~~Vitty-T~~
2006-12-10 13:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by vittyvittyt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has told you not to contact him, then by all means DO NOT send him a card.
Also remember that no one can hurt your feelings unless you let them. When you feel hurt, that is your decision. You allow other people control over you when you believe that they hav the power to "hurt your feelings."
Best wishes!
2006-12-10 13:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't make anything worse than it already is. Go for it and see what happens.
2006-12-10 13:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-10 13:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Maybe in a few more months or so.
2006-12-10 13:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not ! Where is your pride ?
2006-12-10 13:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋