I feel uncomfortable around the 2 of them and I usually just go straight to my room hwen I come home. Sometimes when I come home and there all in the living room they get really quiet and weird. And I've heard my name come up in conversation when they thought I wasn't home. Also one of my roommates will talk to me when the other isn't around but when their together she wont even acknowledge I'm there. The one that is the worst tried to "make up" with me but I was still too hurt by the way she has been treating me to forgive her.
I plan on moving this summer, after I graduate and I was just wondering if I am wrong to just continue keeping to myself or should I try to fix things with them?
2006-12-10 04:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by S.A.Mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you plan to try to stick it out until summer, it really would be best to get it all out in the open and communicate.
Schedule a household meeting and let them know how you are feeling and have a discussion. Try not to blame or accuse, because that could make them get defenisve. Mainly just say how you have been feeling and ask if you have done anything to make them mad. That should get it started. (it always works best to act like it must be your fault there is a problem, that keeps them from closing up and getting defensive. It can help to start a dialog-- even though you really don't feel you did anything).
Once you all start talking you might be able to clear the air and even end with a big group hug! It is amazing how the power of communication and forgiveness and bring people back together.
If that does not work. just try to keep to yourself, keep interactions simple and as pleasant as possible until summer. then move out.
2006-12-10 04:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by San Diego 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't hurt to try to fix things... especially if you have to live with the for the next few months. You can still move out in the summer.
2006-12-10 04:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Quagmire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you dont like them, acting a little friendly and warm wouldnt harm no one. Even if you cant have long talks or share opinions then just having a nice conversation is ok.
You dont have to be nice just becuz you like somebody, you just be nice becuz its the right thing to do.
2006-12-10 04:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable around them, just remain civil until you move out.
2006-12-10 04:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're moving this summer--just stay to yourself and try not to let them to get to you.
2006-12-10 04:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to move out as soon as you can, don't put up with this. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-10 04:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might ask them what will it take to make the house more livable again, I assume it was at one time. they might have some input
2006-12-10 04:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋