Ways for me to become more secure/confident?

Question

And I'm not looking for like "just believe in yourself" and "dont care what others think of you" becuase let's face it, that's alot easier said than done. Does anyone have like...concrete things I can do? (ex: One thing i've done thats helped is writing down my blessings each day.)

Answer 1

this is not some thing you can fake it until you make it. So place your self in an area where you think confident people will be, and watch them ,see how they carry them selves how do they greet others, because you may be confident in your self and it not show, after you have observed for a while, think of one thing you excel at, perhaps your journaling, while in public carry than feeling of excellence around in your head and your body will follow through, and people will notice the difference, so learn , practise and be happy

Answer 2

write down all the reasons you think you are insercure and then try to write down ways that you think would make you less insercure. trust me when you do this u will be able to pin point where all the stress is comming from and then try to sort them out.. Working out too is a good way to make you feel confident, shopping works wonders, when u do go shopping try to pick a shopper that you think looks good in her outfit and ask for her opinion on what she thinks would look great on you.. its always worked for me..

Answer 3

Make your own choices--choices that are good for you. Do what you feel is good for you. You have a choice each day when you wake-up. Am I going to be more confident today or am I going to be insecure and depend on someone else to get me through?

Answer 4

Working out, if u look better... u will feel better.
Also how about karate, it builds confidence.

Answer 5

marry with me.
i will give you full protection and security with confidense !
I will make you my queen.
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