6 months back i met this guy online
we like talk to each other everyday and neither believes in the online relationshit stuff...
but its like we ve been there for each other when the other one was going through difficult times...
now he said he wanted to just meet up and talk someday... no obligations like upto me, otherwise we could remain online friends....
im wondering if thats prudent or sane...
bcoz he could be anybody..
2006-12-10 03:55:16 · 14 answers · asked by vegas l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you could meet him in a public place.
If you don't take a risk sometimes you lose out.
you really have nothing to lose, if you meet him
just tell someone where your going, bring a cell phone with you, so you can call for help if needed.
and meet him in a public place where there are lots of people.
you guys might just hit it off.
take care have a great Xmas
2006-12-10 04:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by celestialangel43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont meet up with him, msn can be a mask for pedos..
you might think you know him but he could just be some big fat greasy bald pedo that preys on young people online
he may have shown you photos, given details or talked about school or whatever as a normal young lad would do, but you never truly know what he says is true, he prob is a good liar.
dont meet up with him, personal safety comes before curiosity
2006-12-10 11:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest we just started talking back in august of 2006 and never met face to face either so yes there are some precautions to look out for but heres a few questions to ask yourself:1 have u seen him on cam?2 have you talked to him on the phone
as for us weve talked everyday since august 22,2006 everyday and never have missed aday well sorry we did one day and that was the day she was inthe hospital for surgrey but i did however get to talk to her that night when she got home but here is december and were happily married
2006-12-10 12:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. But make sure its in an open public space where ppl can see you. I met my boyfriend online and I went all the way to Ukraine to meet him and now we are living together. give it a shot but be careful.
2006-12-10 11:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by funkucla!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you been chatting for 6 monthes? maybe meeting is a good idea. have lunch in the mall. this way there will be lots of people around in case he turns out to be a serial killer. it's better to be safe than sorry.
2006-12-10 11:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust anyone you don't know in real..cause this will make you trouble after that, may be you don't feel it now. But try to meet real people and know them close.
2006-12-10 12:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet_kitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him a crowded place just for a coffee or something short
then ur gut feeling will tell u where to go from there
2006-12-10 12:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you're comfortable with. If it feels right, take the necessary safety precautions and meet him. If you feel weird about it, tell him NO!
2006-12-10 11:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring one of your friends with u to make sure nothing werd happens when u meet him. and make sure he's not trying to mess around with u because there have been alot of men who rape women they met on the internet.
2006-12-10 12:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel safe then don't go or bring a friend with you in case he is insane
2006-12-10 11:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋