I am getting abused....verbally, emotionally, and sometimes pshyically. I tried counceling....I tried to change myself...nothing has worked. I have bruises from when my sister kicked me in the stomach on Friday....she also threatened to kill me. I am trying to get a placve to live yet my parents keep taking my money and not letting me go anywhere. I even tried to kill myself to get away...found out I don't want to be dead just yet. I need help so please help me!
2006-12-10 04:12:32 · 7 answers · asked by *you make me feel invisible* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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Violence and abuse is systemic in many families. This kind of abuse does not stop and does not go away and is NEVER the fault of the victim. You getting counselling will not stop them abusing you. What it can do is help you to understand it is not your fault. No matter how many times they say it is your fault it is still not your fault. You do not make them do anything. They are responsible for their actions.
2006-12-10 06:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am deeply sorry that you are experiencing so much suffering, I went trough lots of suffering also, my family was also abusive. I think the counseling you went to was not truly helpful, some counselors arent really wise. My counselor is a woman who went trough hardship also but now she is contempt with her life.
Right now the best thing you could do is somehow get out of your situation, it is toxic. Then with time you will be able to heal and forgive your parents and siblings, it is not good to live with anger and resentment cause it robbs you from being happy. The reason they are abusive is because they are suffering horribly, they also need as much love as you need, taht is why they dont provide it to you.
Remember that is not your fault that they are treating you this way, it is just life circumstances, you do not deserve to suffer like that.
Try to hang in there despite your pain, death is not a solution, suffering will diminish, right now you dont have much choices since you are being manipulated with money and you are young. Put all your creative energy to find a way to get out of your home. Try not to get into addictions since they are going to put chains on you instead of freeing you.
I hope with all my heart that someday you will be able to look back and with much contempt in your heart you will see this present moment as just a sad past.
2006-12-10 12:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Alejandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get to a Shelter, go to a phone and call 911. A police officer will help you get out of the house and the abuse will stop.
2006-12-10 12:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the police, a school counselor, a teacher, a preacher.
Your parents are just as responsible for you being abused as your sister is.
Go tell someone. NOW
2006-12-10 12:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny! How old are you? Are you old enough to be out on your own? Go to a shelter, and QUICK! They will help you get a place of your own and get onto your feet. If you are underage, call your local Children and Youth Branch and tell them what is going on.
I know it can be scary to leave what you know, but please do so as fast as you can, maybe you have a friend that can help, if not, stay strong and get your hands on a phone book, FAST!
2006-12-10 12:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really trying are you?
You story has flaws in it.
Your smart enough to be able to write, try a poilce report, or restraining order and get out of that house.
2006-12-10 12:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call the police qand tell him what going dont tell the counselor in yoyr school because they just going to tell you mother and they goig to talk to your fa ther call the police please befroe something bad happend to you if you want will call the police for you. beliv me eveything is going to be good just call the police and hurry.
2006-12-10 13:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by know eveything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋