this guy ased me out friday morinng and we really like each other everything was perfect all day we talked and talked and hugged he was perfect like i actaully wrote this note to him that sed i love you and put it is his pen and he wrote back i love you to.
he was perfect . and since i was on restriction i couldnt hang out with him saturday so i went to our school basktball game on frieday after school . we were together the whole time happy as anything . hes the 1st guy ive actualy wanted to be with and that kept me happy in i dont know when. but turns out one of my friends told him i was gunna dump himand go out with him .
at the b ball game all the sudden he sed he had to use the bathroom he wrote s note and gave it to 2 of my friends 2 give to me that sed i dont wanna go with you no more.then he left.i was absoluly heartbroke. i havnt seen him since but i know he likes me he juss got freaked when that guy told him that stuff.but the thing is everything was perfect at the bball
2006-12-10 03:58:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wasnt very long term of a relationship. I would just let it go, i mean it didnt even last a weekend.
2006-12-10 04:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should probably talk to him about it. But, what bothers me, the two of you said I love you so soon. It seems like you two are not nearly mature enough for a loving relationship especially because he's listening to hear-say and not hearing it from you first.
When a person breaks up with someone over what they heard without finding out if it holds any truth, they obviously care more about themselves then anything else, and aren't so concerned with the person they were with.
He should have given you the benefit of the doubt; he didn't.
Tell him how you feel... if it doesn't work, move on.
2006-12-10 04:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it wasn't meant to be, I've had stuff like that happen to me with girls. It was kinda coward though to "Bail" on you like that, leaving notes with your friends, try and look at the "Little things" people do (this took me a life time to learn), it usually tells the whole story of what they are REALLY like, Do you want to put all of your stock, and feelings into a guy that "Bails Out" when something comes up ? What if you got pregnant with him ? Ya know from past experience, "He's gonna Bail on you". I think a smarter move would be to find a "STAND UP" guy, a handful of us still survive.
2006-12-10 04:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl sounds like you're in your late teens or early twenties and believe it or not if he really likes you he'll be with you. I'm in my 30's and I'm still with my high school sweetheart and we really love each other. We've been off and on alot but we finally got it worked out.
I would tell him about the rumor and let him know its all a lie. Try to have some quiet time with him when you talk to him (most young guys like to show off in front of their friends) or call him on the phone and let him know how you feel. "Love yourself first and other will also"
2006-12-10 04:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I'm off base here...in reading your story my first thought was maybe he got scared off when you told him 'I Love you.'
Many times guys get scared about hearing those words, because it takes it to the next level ... it maybe felt like a commitment...something he wasn't ready for.
I think I would find him and nicely tell him you didn't mean to scare him off. That you can take things slower if he is more comfortable with that.
Give it another try. You may regret it, if you don't.
You don't want him to be the 'one that got away.' Without trying.
Good Luck !
2006-12-10 04:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by flyinghawk0727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to tell him the truth.You tell him that your friend was playing games and you are not at involved in that and you dont have any intentions of losing him.Tell him that you are very happy with him and love him a lot.He will understand,and just be calm even if he freaks out this time.He will understand you.
2006-12-10 04:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gutted for u...! its weird that it all happens doesnt it... i had it happen to me... this girl i was dating just dumped me saying she doesnt want a serious relationship yet... but then few days later i found out she was dating another lad... i was heartbroke.. i even cried for her...! she was... a nice person.. i thought she was perfect... but now.. i know she wasnt the one... she cheated on me while i was on holiday... it all sucks...! lol!... anyways.. join the... BEING DUMPED GROUP!... dont worry so much about him... u still have time left... plenty...! just stay strong...! he'll soon know that none of what the other guy said was true then.. propbs wanna go back with u... but if it doesnt happen... dont dwell over it... theres plenty of guys out there for u... i mean... like... ones u havent seen yet...! =] keep smiling! x
2006-12-10 04:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by shdw_unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, or write him a note. Tell him that what your friend said was totally not true, that you really care about him and had no intentions of ending things.
Then, confront your friend, why did he/she say that? Does that person want to be with your boyfriend or does that person like you and want to be with you? Where did they get the idea you wanted to break up with him?
2006-12-10 04:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 01:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a easy fix. All you have to do is find him and be open with him. Ask him what freaked him out and why. Once you have your answer out in the open take it from there. Nothing better than communication in a relationship.
2006-12-10 04:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋