this boy is so confusing, we talk everynight (either on msn or phone), i go to his house (sometimes), i like him alot (when we first met he told me he liked me too but i dont know how he feels anymore), he's stopped now, but he used to complain about his ex gf alot to me, after he knew i liked him && wanted him, he got a girlfriend (but didnt tell me about it - i heard from other people because everyone else knew, he told me he didnt want to hurt my feelings) sometimes i think he likes me and other times i think he's just using me. as awful as it sounds, i think if i lost some weight ((im an unhealthy 211pds)) i think i'd have a better chance, b/c he says all the time that "big ppl" look so unhealthy, and like they dont take care of themselves and stuff but he also said that 100pd chicks are way to skinny! but as advised from the doctor, i already have to lose weight ((so im not losin it for him, im loosin it because im a risk for diabetes and other things, HEARTATTACKS as well lol))
but back to him..
-what do you think? && what should i do?
2006-12-10 04:10:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i recently got a boyfriend (i like him but not as much as i like the other guy, i keep constantly comparin him (my bf) to "the other guy") and "the other guy" stopped talkin to me as much, acts like he dont care and etc. etc. etc. but i did the same thing with him when he was datin that one chick..but everyone knew i was hurtin b/c i was open with him about how i felt about him..
2006-12-10 04:11:48 · update #1
BTW, him and the girl he was datin, BROKE UP.
2006-12-10 04:12:24 · update #2
when i said "lacks" everythin the other guy i had, i meant personality wise. they are both very cute, but my bf just doesnt have that thing that makes me stay up all night thinkin about him like i do "the other guy" or when i go to call my bf, how i want to call "the other guy"
2006-12-10 04:21:21 · update #3
Sounds like this guy would rather just be good friends other then a relationship..
2006-12-10 04:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all heavyset ladies can be and are very appealing to some guys....myself i prefer bbw but as to what you should do i think its time for u to spend sometime on u and let things happen as they happen life is to short to be miserable so go for what makes you truly happy good luck
2006-12-10 12:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by sudzy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he said he doesn't like bigger women it's unheathly he was hinting to you that he thinks you are over weight. He only will date your if u do loose weight. your being like the guy your like more than your b/f. your bacing him on his looks and the guy that u like is basing u on your looks. The guy you have right now likes you for who you are and u don't see that
2006-12-10 12:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy but thats an amazing story and i really dot know what to do but thats a great story
2006-12-10 12:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by im always right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesn't deserve you, don't lose a minute's sleep over him. Find someone who'll like you as you are.......best of luck to you.
2006-12-10 12:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋