I get the impression that women nowadays (especially the younger set) are much more slutty than they used to be. After a few relationships with really wholesome women, I took a good four years off of dating anyone. Now I am ready to get back into it and it just seems there is nothing out there that has not already been emotionally and physically used up. I know that sounds harsh, but am I right or do I need to work on my perception?
2006-12-10 04:39:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are they really that much more slutty or just try to look that way I guess is what I am thinking...I know they act outwardly much more liberal than when I was younger...
2006-12-10 04:43:00 · update #1
I think a lot of women are settling for men that aren't good for them. Because they don't see the good ones.
Much to our detriment.
2006-12-10 04:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure some are skanky, but many aren't. You know, you could probably get involved in some kinds of things like church activities, or other humanitarian/do gooder type of stuff where you'll find lots of wholesome women. Maybe some skanky ones there too... I don't know. I guess the thing is to just get out there and talk to people. Maybe many of them appear skanky b/c you're seeing them out at night, on the weekends, when they're all dolled up in sexy little outfits, but they are the same women who dress business casual every day of the week. I guess just get to know different people, see what's out there, and remain open minded. But yeah, it sucks to be single sometimes. Good luck.
2006-12-10 04:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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One day I was walking down the street when I met a nasty little flea, it crawled upon my stomach and settled on me, at first I thought to shoo it off but then I figured the rest of the fleas would be angered, I looked into its eyes to find out it’s name the flea fluttered and spluttered then said I call you bald, at first I thought I had done something wrong but as it flew away to be with its other flea friends I knew I made the right choice in the end.
2015-01-10 01:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was those 4 years you took off spent in jail?. You ready to get back into what having relationships, well I'm sure all the women is just waiting for you to appear. If you think women are emotionally and physically used up, are these some of the same women you dated befoe you took your little 4 year vacation.
2006-12-10 04:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well I get the impresion that men are total jerks...but that doesnt dampen my hope that an intelligent species would suddenly arrive.
Your preception could trigger your attitude and chase all the not so "skanky" women away. So when you try to date someone, just put that perception on hold...
and if you'll feel better, dont date younger women....
2006-12-10 04:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by rhea 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that, for the most part, you are right. It's hard to find a normal friend that's a girl, never mind a normal girlfriend. A lot of women are messed up....but I think that points more to how men treat them then anything else. So, perhaps you are asking the wrong questions. You should be asking..how can I restore women's faith in men!
2006-12-10 04:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by javaluv2002 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I honestly agree with you. Some of these younger women are maybe not skanky but definetely more agressive than they used to be. I also don't think it is just women - men are like that or actually maybe they were ALWAYS like that lol. Just keep looking and I am sure you will find someone not so "skanky" - lol! Good luck!
2006-12-10 04:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look whose calling the kettle black...your letting this effect you right now as it did them. Some women are drama queens and just want the sympathy but some got hurt but will move on as well. You'll find the right one eventually..just remember you will go thru 10 bad dates to find 1 good one. Its hard since it takes time to get to know people and that means going thru the process to come to a dead end. Just be open minded and look for the good qualities.
2006-12-10 04:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It seems to be the fad today for young women to go out and party, and get with as many guys as they can. There are women who arent like that, but you'll probably have to do some searching for them.
2006-12-10 04:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by piratewench 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Work on your perception. It'll be another 4 years before you get a date with that attitude.
2006-12-10 04:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Firespider 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I blame the parents...people shun their kids aside and do not have an open honest trusting relationship w/ their kids...so as adults they turn out to be idiots...why are the parents acting this way?...look at our leaders...they basically are doing the same thing...and we are lead...one big circle of indecency..
2006-12-10 04:42:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋