I am with this guy who treats me so good. Gives me money, takes me out, cuddles me, and kisses me and gives me that emotional sercurity that I need. I do not want to be all paranoid, but I am so use to being hurt that I don't want it to happen again.
2006-12-10 04:43:53 · 16 answers · asked by dmchest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HI ya
I am a skeptical person by nature, so forgive me.
How long have you been with him? Guys are not like that for long....
I would take all this sweetness with a pinch of salt !
2006-12-10 04:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by cool_cancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people so afraid of being hurt? Everytime you fall in love is that not a great uplifting experience? Each time is unique and teaches us something does it not? Each time we love someone and our heart is broken our heart gets stronger, yet softer, we've done it before so we know what to expect. We know we will heal, the pain and longing will stop and we will fall in love again.........and oh my God, doesn't it get better everytime.
Quit worrying about being hurt again.....so what, doesn't this one love, the way he treats you so beautifully like you are the only woman he has ever beheld make up for all the other hurts.....do you still feel the hurts from the past? No, you feel the fear of being hurt.Get fearless girl, go forward and Love without worrying about possible pain later on.
2006-12-10 12:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get paranoid, he probably loves you and enjoys caring for you. If it is to good to be true then leave it that way. If you get all paranoid and what not you will interfere with the situation and he may get mixed feelings and stop. This is when the "If it is too good too be true, it probably is" part comes in. Enjoy the love and affection he loves you. Don't mess it up by worrying about the past.
2006-12-10 12:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by what i read i think he loves you alot if he actually is willing to do all that stuff for you, so hes a keeper. I also think that you should stop worrying bout getting hurt because if you worry bout getting hurt most likely you will. well i wish you the best of luck through your relationship. take care
2006-12-10 12:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you know, a story with a happy ending. Or is just the beginning? Either way, if the Universe decides to smile on you, enjoy it! You deserve it, just like all of us do!
2006-12-10 12:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything seems perfect to me. if you've been together for a while and hes been treating you like this the whole time then that's probably how he's always going to treat you cuase you're something special to him. i'm sure everything is fine.
2006-12-10 12:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really bc we thought we were to good to be true bc we met and started talking in august of 2006 and got married in december of 2006 so yes sometimes it can be to good to be true
2006-12-10 12:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live your life worrying that you will be hurt, because eventually you will. Enjoy what you have as long as you can...maybe forever
2006-12-10 12:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Akyaas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know well he could be just playing with ur emotion or could be for real thats for you to find out test in a few ways to see if he is for real
2006-12-10 12:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by b baller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally understand, but it is a risk you need to take.Life is full of learning experiences. Live and learn
2006-12-10 12:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by darnell s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋