Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

I am a freshmen in college and i am a virgin. I am making a commiting it till i am married. I have done oral and otherthing, but a couple of weeks ago i was with my boyfriend and he is cool with me being a virgin asked me if we can try anal sex. I decided to give it a try, it hurt like hell at first but i became to like it. we have done it 3 times now, my best friend told me that dose not count.
dose it?

2006-12-08 15:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by jen g 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what i have this feeling right now,i admit im still inluv my husband eventhough he gave me a lot of pain and heartache.sometimes i cant help it to cry especially when when im looking a happy family.My husband betrayed me and cheted me alot of times and now he is living with somebody.he wants to come back with me again but i didnt accept him because everytime im thinking of all the pain he gave to me i feels like he crashing my heart.The LAST TIME i talked to him i said dont call me anymore and dont bother my life and my kids anymore and i told him that i will not push him anymore for the childsupport for our kids,because his not really responsible father for my kids and he also have kids with the other girl,not this new girl.but the mother of his two kids in states they are separated now and have a new one in his life now.i didint know all about this until his mother told me that.i was so stupid i admit it just that i trusted him so much.how can i move on with this?

2006-12-08 15:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She told him 3 guys after 2 months into the relationship, then a year and and a half later.........10 days bf the wedding she told him 12 or more "but i cant remember".

He is 26, she is 27.

She lied to him and came clean right bf the wedding, she thought since she got him commited it was safe to tell him now, after he spent 35 grand of his own money on the wedding preperations and ring.

Was he wrong to be hurt and back out?

2006-12-08 15:45:09 · 5 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a very successful businessman, and my brother is a slacker. My boyfriend gave my brother a good job, let him move in with us, and paid $5000 for a lawyer to get my bro out a legal mess. My brother screwed up at work time and again, not showing up, etc., and my bf gave him chance after chance. Finally my bro was very disrespectful to my bf and was fired. Now my bro wants me to "choose" between him & my bf, says he's my family, my blood. My bf is like a husband to me and is wonderful to me, my bro creates havoc wherever he goes. My bro implied he wants me to end my relat. I have not spoken to him since this happened, a week ago. Do I have the right to be pissed at him? He hurt my bf & me after all we've tried to do for him.

2006-12-08 15:45:00 · 13 answers · asked by F 5 in Family

I've been having a long distance realtionship with my guy for about 3 months. We see eachother about every other week or so. I have noticed lately that he hasn't been saying all those sweet things that he used to say. When i asked him about the change he agreed tthings were different but he explained to me that it was because "he felt comfortable now." Just wondering what i'm supposed to think of that.. By the way I'm not thinking of breaking up with him so please don't write the typical "dump his ***" response because that really isn't an option :) Thanks for your time!

2006-12-08 15:44:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 15:44:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does it really affect their interest to have sex with us?

2006-12-08 15:43:45 · 22 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you could pick any qualities for a guy to have, what would the most important ones be and why??

2006-12-08 15:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by flierchic 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so jake is a guy i met on a game called club penguin and well i talked to him for a year and then i stopped because i was scared that he was an online predator so yeah i didn't talk to him for like a month and then i got on and emailed him again and see this is the sweetest guy i have ever talked to and we didn't even know eachother on that game but he didn't just start talking to me i talked to him and he had friends on there who talked to him too anyway so yeah and if he was an online predator he would of already raped me or something and he would've asked a lot of questions but has he no he hasn't!! If i stop talking to this guy i might loose the guy that was the sweetest towards me in my whole life so yeah!! Should i stop talking to him???

2006-12-08 15:43:15 · 8 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Friends

So, I'm in College and tonight was supposed to be our christmas dance. We were taking two cars, the guys in one and the girls in another. One of the girls was running late (not me) so I walked all the way across campus to get my car and then came back to pick up my friends. I get back only to find out that the guys have all left. THEY LEFT US GIRLS. Now this dance is in Hershey, like 30 minutes away and we don't know where it's at, we were supposed to follow them! Now, not only did they leave without us, but they didn't even call us to tell us they were leaving. They just dissappeared and we had to call THEM to find out where they were. Needless to say, me and my roomie are very ticked. I really don't want to talk to these guys, (even though there all in my tight group of friends) What should we do? I'm sure they'll appologize, but is that enough? I mean will they really mean it? Addvice?

2006-12-08 15:43:08 · 8 answers · asked by lilly g 3 in Friends

when me and my boyfriend first got together everything was great we was like the perfect couple we fall in love with each other he even said that I'm special to him and that he would never do anything to hurt me and he loves me . The next month things changed he stoped calling me usually he would call to tell me where he's at and asks me what am doing and that he loves me and he will call me when he get home but he dont do the those things he used to do anymore . He also started to lieing to me and one time I cought him in his lie and my best friend is tellin me to break up with him and in my heart I have to break up with him but I love him to much to do that .. But something in me is tellin me that i need to and just because my best friend say's that I should break up with him thats not why am saying that . Before I even asked her something was tellin me to do so but i just cant do it cause i dont want to lose him i love him but i also dont know what to do...

2006-12-08 15:43:01 · 15 answers · asked by Golden Honey 1 in Singles & Dating

Last Friday my girlfriend got really drunk and pushed me down the stairs. I was ok, just a few bruises. I did take some pictures too. Anyways last night I caught her in bed with another guy and she screamed at me saying it was over. I am pressing charges because she pushed me down the stairs, but really I just want to get back at her for cheating on me. Is this wrong?

2006-12-08 15:42:07 · 19 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not taking no for an answer either.

Will this cause problems with the woman?

2006-12-08 15:41:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. He never really gave me a reason. We celebrated his birthday and he said he loved (like normal) and ten 2 days later it was over. Wednesday night his mother died. I met him through her. She was one of my customers. We became close friends. I would have lunch with her once or twice a week for years. I met him about a year ago, she introduced us. I fell him almost immediately. He is so caring and kind. He never gave me a reason for the break-up. I assumed it was b/c of his grief over his mother's cancer. Tonight, I hurt for the lose of my friend, but my heart breaks for him. I took him & his family a dinner last night. For the past 2 months though we've been apart physically have been going thru this w/ him. I loved her & I love him so much. I want to be there for him now in his time of need, but he shows no emotion really & I don't know what to do. The next couple weeks * months he is going to be dealing w/ this. Does anyone have any advice?

2006-12-08 15:40:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

(Or is that just for teenagers!?)

2006-12-08 15:40:36 · 10 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Singles & Dating

welll the boys names Are Jake, David , Paul , and Austin, Well put david and paul out of the scene,, well maybe not imitating me
so theres me, katherine, Elizabeth, Alena, and Taryn. Well the boys
imitate, annoy, and make up things like we have crushes on people we hate
what do i do?!

2006-12-08 15:40:26 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♪Jenni♥♪ 2 in Friends

I really want to be in a relationship with this guy, but I don't want to go on formal dates and stuff like that. I just wanna be more that "just friends", and be known as a couple. I've liked him since 7th grade (I'm a freshman now) and he really likes me too. we went to winter formal together and had an absolute blast! I just think that he's the perfect guy for me, but I'm too nervous. and I don't really want to talk about this kind of stuff with my parents cause that is just awkward for me. should I ask him or wait for him to, cause I know he eventually will.

2006-12-08 15:39:31 · 4 answers · asked by emily 2 in Singles & Dating

Well about a week ago me and my girlfriend of 2 years broke up. She got mad at me for never showing her how much I cared so she got fed up with it and broke up with me. It seems like that only days later she could have cared less about the past 2 years we were together and acts like we never dated. She said she wants to be friends but I asked her if she would give me a final chance to make things right between us and if I messed up this time then I would accept that its over with. It hurts too much to just be her friend wondering if she'll ever take me back or not and also everytime I look at her it reminds me of everything I screwed up on and how I wasn't given the chance to make things right so we could have a good friendship. Should she give me a chance to prove that everything I have said about her lately is true and that I will change? Should I be her friend since she said someday she'll give me a chance? Or should I just walk away from every memory and feeling we've had?

2006-12-08 15:39:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i like flirts with me alot in one of my classes.he plays footsie,talks to me,taps my shoulder alot to get my attention,etc.but my friend said he started flirting with her now and i thought he really liked me but im not sure.today he came and sat by me in class and we just talked alot and we didnt play footsie or anything but he was really nice and just told me some of his personel life,like about family and stuff,and he drew hearts and some pictures in my notebook nd looked at me and smiled at me alot(wich he does alot)while we were watching a movie and i thought he really liked me for sure better than my friend.but then my friend told me that today he sat by her and kept staring at her and im not sure if he likes me or her or if hes just flirting cause hes bored or somethin.hes been flirting with me for a a couple mnths now and my friend for a few weeks.im really confused and i really like him.so any advice on how to tell if he likes me or if hes just playing???!!thanxs

2006-12-08 15:38:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that a girl well be the death of him?

2006-12-08 15:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by tiff 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy that i work with and he is such a funny guy and the one thing about him though is he is engaged but his girlfriend is a "psyco" and he is planning on calling the wedding off,,,,my thing is that he is talking to me like he wants to get with me because he is looking for a nice girl and he knows that i have baggage (ex: i have a 2 month old baby) should i go out with him after he breaks up with his girlfriend or should i not because he is alot older than me...but i have a felling the he might have the potential to love me and my son...but how do i know that he wont do the same to me??

2006-12-08 15:37:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

one of my friends asked this guy what he though of another girl and he said that he though that "she is nice" he's been staring at her a lot lately.

2006-12-08 15:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by Salsa 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have known this guy for awhile and he recently asked me to hangout with him but i didnt have an anwser for him at the time and he told me he would call me sometime thought out the week to see what my answer would be.

Well tonite was the nite we were to hangout and he never called me to see if i wanted to hangout.

So i called him tonite and we started talking and he said that he was driving around cuz he said he was bored. He asked if he could call me back in like a min or two and i said thats fine. So like less then a min he calls me back and we start a convo. He said that he that he has to work tommrow and that he would have taking me out 2nite but that he had to work. And he told me that he would give me a call sometime tommrow.

He is such a sweet nice guy.

I dont know how to take this... i mean i shouldnt care but at the same time i feel like he should have called me or something.

Any advice?

2006-12-08 15:36:05 · 4 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has a huge issue with me watching porn, and attempts to enforce restrictions upon it, yet it's perfectly acceptable for her to insert a vibrating rubber replica of a penis inside of her vagina. For years women have been losing the "war on porn", and we've even seen the debate arise on the adult section of yahoo answers, and now, women find it quite alright to have sex with objects that aren't attatched to their boyfriends.

Don't get me wrong, I'm okay with her having a vibrator. What puzzles me is her logic behind banning porn. I understand that she's not who I'm watching (in the films) but you don't hear me saying "hey that's not my penis in your vagina" either. Men are generally turned on by sight first, when women often require alot of touch, which bases the subcontious reason of why we ... and they shove things in themselves.

She should be glad that I'm watching porn and not strippers or cheating, just like how I'm glad that her toys keep her out of truoble.

2006-12-08 15:35:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonimo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Give your love something that they alays wanted, but never had it.

2006-12-08 15:35:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last week a guy I'm not interested in asked me out to a concert the next night. I told him I was flattered but not interested. The concert was held where the guy I do like works. Someone told me I should have gone with the guy I don't like and made sure the other guy saw me with him, and that it would make him jealous and it would get him to make his move. I wouldn't do that, its not who I am, but it did make me wonder if it might have worked. Think that it might have? Has anyone out there done something like this?

2006-12-08 15:34:43 · 4 answers · asked by tessa 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy broke up with me about oct. and i want he back but at the same time i dont.But i want 3 other pple and they dont want to go out with me cause they dont want to mess up r friendship same here. But we all flrit out the butt.All of us do,but i dont know what to do about it plez help me??????

2006-12-08 15:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by wawa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do u know if u love someone or not? I think I love this guy but I dont know for sure.

2006-12-08 15:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by musicluver527 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 15:33:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he just opened his own business I want to congratulate him with out looking like i'm stuck on him. I made a gift basket for him and I want to include a card, what should I right on the card...I want something sweet but like I said I don't want him to think or know that I'm stuck on him.

2006-12-08 15:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by Yvette 2 in Singles & Dating