So, I'm in College and tonight was supposed to be our christmas dance. We were taking two cars, the guys in one and the girls in another. One of the girls was running late (not me) so I walked all the way across campus to get my car and then came back to pick up my friends. I get back only to find out that the guys have all left. THEY LEFT US GIRLS. Now this dance is in Hershey, like 30 minutes away and we don't know where it's at, we were supposed to follow them! Now, not only did they leave without us, but they didn't even call us to tell us they were leaving. They just dissappeared and we had to call THEM to find out where they were. Needless to say, me and my roomie are very ticked. I really don't want to talk to these guys, (even though there all in my tight group of friends) What should we do? I'm sure they'll appologize, but is that enough? I mean will they really mean it? Addvice?
2006-12-08 15:43:08 · 8 answers · asked by lilly g 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell them exactly how you feel, but as you know boys can be boys. If they are truly your friends they wouldn't have don't something like this. But in the same breathe maybe they didn't realize how important it was for them to wait on you and it also wasn't there fault that one of the party was running late. How long had everyone been waiting?
Did you miss the dance because of this? If so, then I say you have every right to tell these ppl to pliss off..
2006-12-08 15:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to teach them a lesson. Why don't all of you girls organise a night out, tell them that it's at a different place or even better a different day and come back saying that you had a ball! Otherwise us men won't learn. They obviously didn't want you girls there so ask yourselves why that is. I wouldn't speak to them either if they did that to me.
2006-12-08 23:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Roovs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they apologize, they won't mean it. Guys usually do what they want to do, and will tell you what you want to hear. When they apologize don't forgive them. Whenever you decide to hangout with them again, just do it. You have no reason to accept their apology.
2006-12-08 23:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a toughy,They knew you didnt know your way,but left you anyway.Huh....Sounds like you need a new circle of friends
2006-12-08 23:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by birdlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let them know that you are pissed. I mean, that was pretty f@cked up! I suppose you'll have to forgive them, but damn, I'd be mad.
2006-12-08 23:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Reverend Jank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should pull a prank on them
2006-12-08 23:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Chis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dummies
2006-12-08 23:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by ChIkaBuEnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they not sorry they probably had other plans....
2006-12-08 23:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by focused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋