Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

a couple days ago my best friend told me in a tough conversation with me that:

- she throws up food to keep herself slim
- taking pills for depression
- seeing a psychiatrist to help her
- and jumps from partner to partner

i played it cool, and let her know nothing changes between us and i wouldn't act different, but underneath... i was thrown off.

she kept it from me for a while because its very personal for her, she was afraid and also cos i believe i would lose 'interest' in her.

currently we have a 'friends with benefits' setup between us.

my question is.....what the hell am i meant to do?
i have NO idea....i really have no clue how to act now.

what would your advice be straight up?

2006-12-08 14:56:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am talking to this girl that i like, but whenever we talk she calls me names and is not serious with me, she takes me as a joke and has told me that she likes me, she gets mad at me and does not talk to me when i don't feel like telling her something, i don't tell her things a lot because the last time i told her why i broke up with my ex she laughed her head off (because my ex cheated on me) and she laughs at me when i tell her something bad that happened to me, but then on the other hand she tries to be nice to me when i am mad at her. she is confusing me. what does that mean ladies is she just flirting with me or she just see me as a friend, or takes me as a joke.... i have told her how i felt bout the things she say s she does not listen and does not respects me she thinks she is better den me and am 3 years older then her

2006-12-08 14:56:53 · 13 answers · asked by KB24 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u get a guy back that u still have feelings 4 but dont know if he has feelings 4 you anymore...but then theres another guy aside that you have in mind but dont know about him either because there friends...yet i still love my ex and want him back

2006-12-08 14:56:18 · 6 answers · asked by ashley c 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been in and out of each other's lives for 10 years.This last time he truly hurt me, but due to our history I will always love him.I loaned him money and afterwards he disappeared.We talked on the phone and through MySpace and he promised to return it, but never did.The conversations got worse over time and all we would do was fight and say things that would deeply hurt one another. In our last talk he promised to repay that coming weekend but I was hurt and tired of trying to collect.We have a 10 year history, and I just want him to know that I have forgiven him, that I believe in his talents and in him, and I wish him happiness and success.He doesn't have the same phone number anymore, we don't have mutual friends, and he asked that I not contact him through MySpace.Would it be okay to contact him just to let him know that there are no hard feelings and I wish him all the best or would that be disrespecting him? I just want him to find happiness.What do I do?I need closure!

2006-12-08 14:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend. is well a diffucult person and has a lot of hard stuff going on in her life. some domestic violence and how she hates her parents. i mean she always pointes out how much better my life is compared to hers. i guess it is. but wen she sez stuff like. ur life is the best. u haave all this stuff. but u dont understand. but then she gets mad at us a lot b/c to her she thinks we dont care and that we never listen. and.. that our lives are filled with happiness and stuff. but we tried to listen.. a lot of us did. but wen ur faced with things like. ur life is so great and stuff. and that u wont ever understand. stuff like that. wen they say " U dont have to go through this or that" i mean. wat can u say to that? u dont but ur trying to. but i mean.. wat can u say to that? that YES my life IS better than urs? that sounds so.. i mean. just retarded. but if u cant understand. i mean. it seems to me that no matter wat we try to do. it wont do anything unless its likei go through it too

2006-12-08 14:55:03 · 2 answers · asked by strictly_maggie 3 in Friends

ok i'am 19 and my weight is 85 pounds. How to gain weight? This is not a joke and not a sikness. i just never ate a lot never wanted. How to gain weight plzz i need this.

2006-12-08 14:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because I dont like admitting this but I am Bisexual and my family kicked me out of the house because of it and they won't talk to me anymore.So how do I talk to them about it without them ignoring me?

2006-12-08 14:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by Megan J 1 in Family

I would like to watch my wife douche herself.
That means actually give her a douche..
Is this kinky or I sick minded.

2006-12-08 14:54:28 · 12 answers · asked by clown_82401 2 in Singles & Dating

identical or not it doesn't matter!

2006-12-08 14:54:24 · 5 answers · asked by little_roz96 1 in Family

first i love him..second he ask me to because he's leaving for the US that time,i didnt realize its what i did was wrong.i didnt listen to my family,i decided on my own. what kind of face should i show him when he comes back...should i talk a lot?

2006-12-08 14:54:12 · 7 answers · asked by rcy123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a self made rule that no women meet my kids unless the relationship becomes serious (at least six months). I spend every other week end with them and won't date when I have them (this is non negotiable). I work all over the country and spend a lot of time in hotels and planes, so I can not call a woman every day.

I have met several women who are offended by these standards. Would this offend you or is this reasonable to you?

2006-12-08 14:54:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i break up wth my boyfriend by e-mail

2006-12-08 14:52:14 · 34 answers · asked by Anime Freak!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and i think he does too. because he kept looking at me in the hallways.should i ask him or my friend ask him for me or wait for him to ask me? we are also the same language too!!

2006-12-08 14:52:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She won't let me play her game:cat cradle because she thinks I bother her. What should I do?

2006-12-08 14:51:59 · 8 answers · asked by Chis 4 in Friends

Ive heard that old people have lots of money that they never really intend on spending and they mostly keep it in their house because they cant be bothered with going to banks and such... My question is, how do i trick an old person into giving me their money or how do i gain enough trust to find out where they keep their money so that i can steal it from them.

Dont get me wrong, its not like im an absolute bastard and i would never take more than 50% because im actually a really nice guy.

Any advice is welcome, thank you.

2006-12-08 14:51:38 · 21 answers · asked by i_smell_willy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so theres this girl that i went to elementary school with. I am currently in 11th grade and i hadnt said a word to her since 6th grade. We've had a class together for the last 8 or 9 weeks and she just all of a sudden started talking to me. First off it was kinda slow and she would only talk to me like every 3 or 4 days and just kinda say hi and go to her seat. Now over the last couple of weeks she talks to me every day for almost the whole period. now she laughs and we tell jokes and we talk about all kinds of stuff. what does this mean and why did she just start talking to me all of a sudden?

2006-12-08 14:51:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friends boyfriend is really nice but my friend treats him like ****. She is playing around wit his mind..and he is 12 & she is 14!!She is flirting with her ex and he doesn't even like her anymore. He thinks he is a try hard. Her boyfriend just wants to know the truth but she is playing a game with him. I want to know wat i should do to help??
cat

2006-12-08 14:51:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-08 14:51:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can I do????
I am very sad!!!

2006-12-08 14:50:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 14:50:34 · 6 answers · asked by ellie m 1 in Singles & Dating

but you knew she had VD would you sleep with her, wearing protection, ie Pamela Anderson, Selma Hayak, etc.??

2006-12-08 14:49:36 · 18 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but you knew she had VD would you sleep with her, wearing protection, ie Pamela Anderson, Selma Hayak, etc.??

2006-12-08 14:49:18 · 3 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

but you knew she had VD would you sleep with her, wearing protection, ie Pamela Anderson, Selma Hayak, etc.??

2006-12-08 14:48:55 · 17 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep thinking if the friendship would still remain the same after the separation.

2006-12-08 14:48:53 · 17 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. We broke up over the weekend and I've been eating non-stop. I'm half way through a bag of cookies and I'm waiting for a pizza to be delivered. I was so close to quitting smoking too, and I've bought 2 more packs. My friend invited me out last night but all I wanted to do was lay in front of the tv. I haven't done anything all week except work, eat and watch tv...my place is a disaster and I have no clean clothes or dishes.

I feel so sad and all I do is think about my boyfriend. I don't know what to do? I'm only 23 so I know there's more fish in the sea but he was the first guy I ever loved.

All my friends have their families to spend xmas and I was supposed to spend xmas with him. I have no family where I live and I have to work so I can't go away. I don't know what to do.

2006-12-08 14:47:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy that i think likes me by how he treats me. but then some days its like completely different and we barely talk. yet he goes out of his way to "help me" with chem hw sometimes.
i want to figure him out. it's driving me nuts. what are the signs?

2006-12-08 14:46:52 · 2 answers · asked by Da 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been married for eight years and seen each other for only once a year! its a long distance because of his work thats what he told me.so they have all the time to be together.and i just found out today what he's really doing here..i just got here in the US.now i know all the answers to my questions about him...i just atlked to the girl.i didnt fight her cause i know she really doesnt know that my husband is married..husband is not here he'll be back on sunday how will i talk to him,i dont know what to say.we have 1 kid i dont want a broken family,this is really hard for me.i dont have anyone here i've been here in the US for only two months,dont have a job yet

2006-12-08 14:45:17 · 17 answers · asked by rcy123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mattv u should b ashamed of urself the lady commited sucidide because of u i hope u feel ashamed an guilty every single day ppl the 40 pld woman died she commited sucidide............................................ wow that makes me so sad

2006-12-08 14:45:07 · 3 answers · asked by Shanae :) 2 in Friends

Does anyone know L. Rios in Calgary, Alberta?

2006-12-08 14:44:46 · 4 answers · asked by nowhere 3 in Friends

ok so there is this guy and i really like him but he doesnt know who i am and what i look like.... tear tear!!

2006-12-08 14:44:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating