How do boys/men feel about a little fat in our bellies even if they love us very much?

Question

does it really affect their interest to have sex with us?

Answer 1

If there truly is Love...it really doesnt matter. The issue of weight is in your hands at that point. That is something that, only if you wanted to work on...you should

Answer 2

G'day Sara,

Have you seen how many overweight pregnant women there are?

Some members of my gender will make love with anything female, so, an interest to have sex really isn't based on if you have a little extra padding around the waist.

Of course, would you prefer to have sex with a slob or a hunk?

Same as we do, we want the goodies!! So yes, it affects the desire / interest to have sex. So does personal hygene, hairy armpits and ashtray breath.

But in general, We Just Love Ya. A little fat in the belly isn't going to stop us from having sex with you.

Loving you very much is totally different

Best Luck (Rod from OZ)

Answer 3

You can do some focussed abdominal exercise, but don't expect too much too soon. It takes time to sculpt your body, do it carefully, not just fast, and you'll appreciate the end result more. Also, you're very young, be sure you're getting all the nutrients and required calories. One thing I've seen work for developing the hardest bodies, is manual labour. Offer to dig the gardens of your senior neighbours. If they need wood chopped, holes dug ... do that and anything like that you can find to do in the neighbourhood. You'll make a few bucks and get the hardest abs, back and arms.

Answer 4

I think as long as it doesn't become too big and it's still 'cute' its ok. I am relatively thin, but i have a slight belly, my boyfriend thinks its cute because its not flat but not fat, just with little fat. So don't worry, if they love you they can overcome that. They're so not perfect either. I doubt their interest in sex with us if affected since sex has to be seen as a whole not a fixation on one body part, unless the guy is a total ***.

Answer 5

No cause men ain't perfect and we have babies and stuff so they are no one to criticize. As long as when you stand up it smoothes out. lol...WOW look at all the men and how they stand up for the women with a lil thickness! I Love it!!!! Yes a little jiggle aint no big thing specially when u can still work it

Answer 6

My wife has gained weight since we got married....
I still love her. LADIES, please believe us men when we say that a little meat goes a long way.

If you watch Grey;s Anatomy there is a character on there who has LONG black hair, and is bigger then the other actresses on the show.

SHE IS SOOOO HOT.. now, I tell you. What man in AMERICA would kick her out of Bed. Let me tell you.
I would kick out
1. Lindsey Lohan
2. Paris Hilton
3. Posh Spice
4. ANY model that looks like she even threw up ONCE in her life

I mean, come on. Anna Nichole Smith is HOT. and why you ask? Because she has a confidence in her eye ( and huge boobs) that yells...SEXY.

Paris, Posh, Lindsey are not attractive in the least.

I mean, extra wieght just means extra jiggle....Can't jiggle bones

Answer 7

Not in my case, as it is the person I am in love with, not whether she has a little fat around her middle, which I find kinda cute.

Answer 8

well i got that ,i believe they just love us enough to say its fine ,but would much rather us have a flat tummy,most of are fat little bellies are their because of the little babies we want to give them, and caused by the sweets too ,if we will be... honest . and...most these guys got them too,beer bellys ha ha.

Answer 9

A man wants to feel a woman, not a twiggy.
A little softness is good

Answer 10

They very often will use it as an excuse to start looking around even though they may have "more than a little" fat around theirs..........