How do u know if u love someone or not? I think I love this guy but I dont know for sure.
2006-12-08 15:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by musicluver527 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd have to say:
If you have to ask this question on a website, to get answers from perfect strangers, then it isn't love. You'll know, and at that time you'll know I was right.
2006-12-08 16:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Schona 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is all kinds of love. Some people love the idea of being in love. Others love how others make them feel. Now are you talking about REAL love? That is pure and it doesn't come naturally. It takes a lot of hard work. But even if you love this person with all your heart, it won't mean a thing if the person doesn't love you back the same way. You will be cheating yourself if you do that. But real love is when you can see the person for what they are; their good points but especially their flaws and you can see that with open eyes. When the person not just makes you feel better, but makes you a better person. When you are able to forgive and forget everyday matters. When you don't hold grudges. Real love isn't blind and say oh, that's just a phase he's going through. Real love is able to communicate about any problem at anytime and even when you don't see eye to eye, you're still able to upbuild each other. I don't know your age, but teens aren't able to grasp true love - I know - I felt the same way but inexperience taught me the truth about that. Real love last; it doesn't go by how dreamy someone looks or how hot they dress or what nice body parts they have or things like that. That's infatuation and that never lasts long. Be honest with yourself in evaluating those feelings you have; if they're true they will still be there even after a year even if he doens't know about it. I hope this helps you.
2006-12-09 00:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Level424me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is one thing, infatuation is another. I've always beleived that it starts with infatuation, attraction,. Because love is a feeling that develops and grows, with time, in a relationship. It is respect and care for the other person. When you love somebody, you care about their needs. , and not about how you feel. It is the opposite when it's just attraction, but love can grow from there...
2006-12-08 23:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's true love, you wouldn't be questioning. if it is, and you know it is, and you're just trying to deny it or you're hesitant for something...screw it! true love can't be subdued...it's like seeing ghosts--everyone talks about it, but few people really experience it. ;) you have to really want what's best for them...push yourself to go the extra mile...always put them first...you just know that he is the perfect one that you want to and really could spend the rest of your life with. if it's TRUE...it's FOREVER. ;)i found that i had to put my heart on the line and just let all those feelings and emotions go, no matter how scared i was that i'd be rejected or heart...now we've been secretly in love with each other for a few years, and our 1-year engagement anniversary is coming up in 17 days!!!! Love is truly the most a-m-a-z-i-n-g thing that I have ever experienced....â¥*I LOVE YOU JEREMY*â¥
2006-12-08 23:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by *Texan Angel Baby Girl* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know when u in love when you and your boyfriend have alot in common or when you feel something different in that guy you never felt in any other guy u went with..And if u care about him alot and know you anything happens to him you dont know what you will do that is how you feel when you're in love...
2006-12-08 23:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by loulou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^ he's very right. I just agree with the above. You just know within when it s love. u feel it inside, in your body, in your chest, in your head.
2006-12-08 23:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by inthematrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know, you feel like you never have before with anyone else and you feel really comfortable..
2006-12-08 23:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ariel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test of time
2006-12-08 23:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by dagoodarab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, it's not love.
2006-12-08 23:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by invincible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your heart hurts.
2006-12-08 23:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋