Well about a week ago me and my girlfriend of 2 years broke up. She got mad at me for never showing her how much I cared so she got fed up with it and broke up with me. It seems like that only days later she could have cared less about the past 2 years we were together and acts like we never dated. She said she wants to be friends but I asked her if she would give me a final chance to make things right between us and if I messed up this time then I would accept that its over with. It hurts too much to just be her friend wondering if she'll ever take me back or not and also everytime I look at her it reminds me of everything I screwed up on and how I wasn't given the chance to make things right so we could have a good friendship. Should she give me a chance to prove that everything I have said about her lately is true and that I will change? Should I be her friend since she said someday she'll give me a chance? Or should I just walk away from every memory and feeling we've had?
2006-12-08 15:39:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she should take you back. when you go and hang out with her, tell her how you feel. then mildly sugjest that you give it a try. but the best thing to do is wait. she wanted to be friends with you for a reason, didn't she.
2006-12-08 15:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her so much ... then give her the time she needs and "just be friends"
my (now husband) had to do this (give me time) after he screwed up.... we were together for 4 years and i just had enough he hurt me to much... i started seeing another guy... we were apart for nearly 2 years.... but we did get back together... almost 3 years ago.... and things are going very well... we have both grown up alot... but somethings will always hurt... at least in my case they still do sometimes i dont know if it will be forever or not...lol... but we are doing great anyway.... soooo if you love her?? take the time ...... if you say you are gonna change though... do it.... changing is hard work.... good luck!
2006-12-08 23:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have sex with this person? Because it sounds like it was just a friendship thingy that you and her both walked away from
2006-12-08 23:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave it alone for now and if your lucky enough to get her back you had better be prepared to not screw up any more..
2006-12-08 23:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:( thats a bummer... idk if she wants you back idk the girl just try to get over it as fast as possible!
2006-12-08 23:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋