i dont know what i have this feeling right now,i admit im still inluv my husband eventhough he gave me a lot of pain and heartache.sometimes i cant help it to cry especially when when im looking a happy family.My husband betrayed me and cheted me alot of times and now he is living with somebody.he wants to come back with me again but i didnt accept him because everytime im thinking of all the pain he gave to me i feels like he crashing my heart.The LAST TIME i talked to him i said dont call me anymore and dont bother my life and my kids anymore and i told him that i will not push him anymore for the childsupport for our kids,because his not really responsible father for my kids and he also have kids with the other girl,not this new girl.but the mother of his two kids in states they are separated now and have a new one in his life now.i didint know all about this until his mother told me that.i was so stupid i admit it just that i trusted him so much.how can i move on with this?
2006-12-08 15:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't take him back. But do push for the child support.
2006-12-08 15:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about everything that happened. Erase him from you life. Consider it a stupid mistake and move on. Everyone makes mistakes every now and then, but you can't let something like this slow you down. You are a wonderful person and have great kids, you have a future to look forward to. Expand your horizons and meet a real man when you feel that you are ready. A true man would never do something like that to you. One day you will find that true love and be happier than ever before. Until that day enjoy all of the precious people in your life. Good luck.
2006-12-08 23:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is remain strong and protect your heart from any further pain. Sometimes its okay to be a fool once. You learn from it but you never continue to make the same mistake. You will find someone who is better suited for you but not if you continue to let deceit and betrayal dominate your world. Its time to close that chapter in your life and focus on a new beginning for you and your children. And always fight for child support, your children need and deserve that. They are just as much his responsibility as they are yours. It doesn't matter how many kids he has. Be strong and good luck!
2006-12-08 23:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did was right. I understand the feelings you have toweard him but you should try to focus on something else. He doesn't respect or love you soo you should do the same. How to move on? Give yourself some time. Think about your children, love them. Ignore your husband but i think that you should reconsider about the childsupport. Relax. Soon enough, you'll forget him or if you get lucky, you might meet someone else that deserve you. good luck
2006-12-08 23:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you just have to bootstrap yourself past this, no matter how hard it is, and if you have children, your first responsibility is to them. Also, ask yourself when it was that you decided that you weren't worthy of better treatment, because you chose him ,and say that you still have feelings for him which I find very hard to understand. If someone treated me like that, I would never speak to them again, and be doing back flips that that person was out of my life. You deserve better, and so do your children, and carrying on like this over someone who isn't even as good as something you scraped off of your shoe. Be careful as you are in danger of passing your low self esteem off on your children, and they deserve better too, OK? Please be well, and move on little sister, and put this piece of poop out of your life.
2006-12-08 23:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you very well. you did the right thing by telling him to stay away. you dont need anyone around your children like that. you are to nice of a person to put up with someone like that. good luck to you
2006-12-08 23:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same thing, just try to get your mind off of it, and pray that God will help you.
2006-12-08 23:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kristi A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON WHITH YOUR LIFE AND FORGET HIM,HE IS A DORK HE DOESN'T NO WHAT HE IS MISSING OUT ON!!!!
2006-12-08 23:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by ~misZ khImMi bHeibi~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋