Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

The guy I am asking about is a friend and we've kind of gone back and forth on whether we have more than a friendship.

I know the guy who does this is truly busy with work and is under alot of pressure. He will call after a month or six weeks or so and say he is so sorry that he has been so busy he just hasn't had a spare minute. He will point out he remembers things I may have e-mailed him about in the last month and he'll let me know I am just about the only one he makes time for to call at all.

Then he will tell me he really does want to keep in touch with me but he's so busy it's hard for him. He always tells me he will talk to me soon and he does want to stay in touch and then it's another month or six weeks.

Guys - could he be too busy really? If he's not why does he keep in touch at all? Is it a game? Help me understand why he would do this please.

2006-12-07 09:39:10 · 21 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you find it is emotionally tougher to be single this time of the year. Everywhere you look you see happy couples arm-in-arm enjoying life. Do you feel more alone this time of the year? If so, how do you deal with it?

2006-12-07 09:38:12 · 7 answers · asked by jam961 5 in Singles & Dating

i am talking abt my ex-GF. Although i got no love for her after the things she did to me(and i forgave her coz i think it were circumstances not her) but still I just think she is a very nice person and I said something very blunt to her. She felt too bad and said "I HATE U". Well it has been ages and i dint care to say sorry not even tried talking to her. But I think what i said was very blunt (and i said that for some reasons) the fault is mine i agree!

Should I care to say sorry to her even tho i no she will never be mine again? If yes what should i write ?? (i can only email her). I just wanna say sorry coz i just dont want someone to be angry with me esp my ex!

thx guys

2006-12-07 09:38:02 · 20 answers · asked by syd_guy 3 in Singles & Dating

So what do you think? If you dream about sex with someone other than your partner, does it mean anything, or is it an instinctual, random dream?

2006-12-07 09:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend (a girl) that is 16... she is dating (a guy) an 18year old... They have NOT and will NOT engage in sexual activity until they are both of the age... Is there a problem with the ages??? If the parents have no problems with them dating each other is it a pedafile if they are 2years apart?!??!?! NEED MAJOR HELP!!! Thank you 4 all of your help and if possible can u leave a link to the site where you have received your info!??!?! THANK YOU 4 ALL THE HELP!!!

2006-12-07 09:37:30 · 14 answers · asked by Animal I Have Become 2 in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering if the guy was receptive and said "yes" to everything you suggested- if you would do the pursuing. I heard it is not a good idea so I am wondering what you think.

2006-12-07 09:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by meanpromqueen 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i find out if my bf is lying about his work because he never seems to have a set working time he claim he works 12-2 then 4.30-11 but serveral times he cums online when he meant to be at work and when i ask he says oh i got time off also he never seems to have any money which doesnt mate sense as he says he on £8.30 a hour so he should be loaded

2006-12-07 09:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I was wondering because I am 21 and my mom treats me like I'm a child. Whenever I tell her I'm going to go and spend time with my boyfriend she gets an attitude and acts like awhole different person. I've been going through this ever since I've got of age and could go to clubs and such, I mean it's not just when I say I'm going to spend time with my b/f it's whenever I get ready to go somewhere. I just feel soo depressed it's like she wants to live my life when she's already lived her. I mean I can't take this no longer can someone please give me some type of advice please thanks...

2006-12-07 09:37:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 17 and never been kissed - I just started going out with this guy (my first boyfriend) He's kinda shy - what o you think kinda the average time of going out is before the first kiss - should i be nervous - i know i would be his first too!

2006-12-07 09:35:57 · 22 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

No doubt a divorce occurs when one partner or both of them fail to make eachother happy. But the alarming rate of divorce and a shameful frequence of infidelity in the married life shows that atleast one of the partner is very difficult to please and satisfy. Does it not show that the faith in individuality is getting out of hand?, that the element of sacrifice necessary for the fluent working of a relationship is missing in the western society? Does it also not show that we have easily accessible and consequently easily attainable men and women all around us which makes for us easier to get dissatisfied easily? Will any honest person tell me that he or she will leave his or her present partner she or he is unhappy with presently if there were no easy prospect of getting a new partner? Aren't we easily unhappy because we know that we can access it easily next door? Does our present system of relationships admit any sacrifice?

2006-12-07 09:35:55 · 15 answers · asked by sahil_samandar88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF is going to NY until Monday and he broke up with me for my x-bff! Shes only with my x-bf to make me jelous and its working!
She likes a kid named max so should I get with him to make her jelous? Or should I try to win him back! He only likes her because she calls him sweetie and sugar and hes the dirty type! Ps I like the dirty type!

2006-12-07 09:34:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 09:34:19 · 10 answers · asked by secret society 6 in Singles & Dating

my friend and her bf have split up, this happens to be my bf best mate aswell, he told me he fancied me but i said nothing back and then he said he was joking. but i cant stop thinking about him even though i try not to, waht should i do? my friend is still hooked on him and my relationship with my bf is fine. when he said he was joking does that mean he doesn't like me?

2006-12-07 09:34:00 · 2 answers · asked by designed for life 1 in Singles & Dating

have never been on this trip with these guys and would really like to go. It only lasts one night and i will be back the next day to go to a Christmas party with my girlfriend. I know that she wants me to be there to celebrate with her on friday though. I wish I could do both but obviously cant. Need some advise.

2006-12-07 09:33:27 · 10 answers · asked by shazay17 1 in Singles & Dating

I never understood why. I still don't get it, why is it such a big deal?

2006-12-07 09:32:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would really like to get in touch with him again!

2006-12-07 09:32:54 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Friends

that you don't go after another woman's man?

Would you ever try and date someone who already has a gf?

I never would because I would hate to have that done to me. I feel like even though I might not know the guy's gf, I would still have to respect her.

2006-12-07 09:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

A man looks for thinness, fitness, a pretty face, big boobs, a tiny waist, and a pert little @ss. He wants a girl who is pretty and sexy. If he has that, he really doesn't give a shiit about anything else. That is what a guy looks for in a hot chick.

If a guy is looking for a real person, he looks for kindness, caring, understanding, respect, and appreciation. If he has those things, he really doesn't give a shiit what she looks like. That is what a guy looks for in a real person.

So, which one will it be, ladies? Are you a hot chick or a real person? You can't be both, you know.

2006-12-07 09:32:09 · 45 answers · asked by Bastet's kitten 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok, for starters, I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I went out with my friend and some of her friends last Friday because it was her birthday and it was something to do. Her best friend is really cool. She speaks her mind, she's really nice, funny, etc. (the whole nine yards) I got her myspace from my friend who's birthday it was. Since last Friday, we've been talking everyday messaging at least twice in each day. She is single, gorgeous, etc. A junior so not much of an age difference. We have the same interests and everything. We even met a few months ago at a class conference of ours. (she goes to a different school) Both of them are coming over on Sunday to watch movies at my house. We're gonna make a day of it with pizza, candy, etc. There is only one thing that I'm concerned about. She said she's a Satanist. Now I'm not really big on religious stuff but I do know that these people worship the devil. I'm perfectly fine (I'm an atheist) with it. What do you all think of this?

2006-12-07 09:31:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is so

2006-12-07 09:31:22 · 7 answers · asked by Nobody 3 in Friends

My boyfriend of 3 years are breaking up because he cheated on me, alot! We have a 15 month old son and alot of bills in both of our names. Other than family court for custody is there anyother papers i need to file?

2006-12-07 09:31:06 · 5 answers · asked by rose_calhoun23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so, my best friend is having a birthday party. But we're not in the same classes this year, and I don't know a lot of people she is inviting. She's even inviting some guys. And the people I do know, i don't like. I don't know what to do. Should i go and risk having a bad time? Or should i not go and disappoint my friend for not coming ??? HELP?!!!?!?!!?!

2006-12-07 09:31:01 · 8 answers · asked by missjamo2 3 in Friends

my dad tells me he would kill me if i ever tired and i know he is playin and he is all i have in this world so he is making me fell bad so should i stay or should i go?

2006-12-07 09:30:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife tells me that she has been having a mfm fantasy. So I played along and asked her who was involved in the fantasy. She told me that it involved me and a good friend of mine. He is a pretty hot guy, and very well endowed, which I am not. Should I be concern?

2006-12-07 09:30:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend's parents all of a sudden hate me and wont let him see mee or leave the house for that matter. thier threatning to send him to quebec with his dad. we both love eachother so much but its imnpossible to see him, i want to run away with him but im afrad of what will happen then. becaseu it is winter and cold out. we would have no place to stay so i dont know what to do.

2006-12-07 09:30:17 · 2 answers · asked by ghostgirl_2050 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it today when we were at a party, i was telling him something, then he responded to my breast rather than my face. then the other day he grabbed my butt in class acting as if no one saw him. we were in his friends pool and then i saw him and his 3 other friends across the backyard pointing at my chess and looking preverted. he knows im upset but he is still being a jerk. he was never like this, just all of a sudden...wats up with that?? advice!

2006-12-07 09:30:09 · 1 answers · asked by Doaa A 2 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing a guy for just under a month. We had decided not to see other people but were not yet at the boyfriend girlfriend stage. We had never even gone on a date, we just stayed in. Last weekend i got drunk to the point where i blacked out. One of his "friends" ended up driving me home, and we slept together. I didnt really know what was going on until after it was done. I told my man what had happened withing 24hrs but unfortunately one of his buddies told him first. I feel horrible, i have applogised and asked for forgiveness. He says he forgives me but is not sure yet if he can give me another chance. He's hot and cold right now. We have talked everyday since, one day he'll act nice like we might get back together and the next day he'll be totally cold. I have never done anything like this before, and i dont know what to do at this point, i want to be with him so bad!!! Help!!

2006-12-07 09:29:38 · 38 answers · asked by applehotness 1 in Singles & Dating

....than their girlfriend? My boyfriend "John" lets his best friend b i t c h and nag at him as much as he wants because "that's the way he is" but if I say one wrong thing, John gives me attitude and acts like I'm being a *********

2006-12-07 09:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by im always right ya know 1 in Singles & Dating

They're both in mid 70"s and I'm looking to spend between $100 to $200.

2006-12-07 09:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by robel 2 in Family

please be positive

2006-12-07 09:29:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating