Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

ok my parents dont want me to have a cell phonee but i think i should;
1. im in gr.7, and im almost 13
2. i take 2 busses to and from school
3. i go to the mall alone with my friends
4. im responsible!!! i have a job

i tried saying that i should have one in case of emergencies like if i were being followed or one of my friends like... i dunno got hit by a car... but they still think i dont need one... i need a good debate!!!

2006-12-07 10:11:43 · 9 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4 in Family

2006-12-07 10:11:16 · 5 answers · asked by zero76 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl 3 weeks ago, hit it off, got her number and have been trying to go out with her since.

In the first week she wasn't sure about me as I'm 28 and she's 36. By the end of the second week, I was winning her over and suggested meeting for coffee. On the day of, she sounded like she wouldn't make it so I suggested rescheduling later that week. When that day came, she had to cancel due to something involving work. Again, I rescheduled for this upcoming saturday.

I'm thinking if she cancels again, I should write her off. But people have said I should give her more time because she is hot. But I don't want to keep doing this for another 3 weeks. Though she has been very good with taking and returning phone calls.

What should I do about this situation? And what guidelines should I follow when this comes up again in the future?

2006-12-07 10:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by jason h 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl whom I am in love with and she wants to be friends and she started the whole thing by flirting with me and saying she was my girl friend and like a fool I fell in love with her and after time she just wanted to be friends and now I cant get her out of my mind.I know deep down I am not the right guy for her and she isnt the right women for me..but tell that to my heart..I cant stop thinking about her..I miss the smell of her hair, her smile the sound of voice and her soft skin..she is beuitfull. so how do I forget her and move on..the pain..it hurts..

2006-12-07 10:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Kingofreportedabuse 3 in Singles & Dating

okay i jut broke up with my gf. now my best friend is going out with her. i told my friend it was all right but now i dont like it.what should he do and what should i do. also me and my friend are not getting along to well because of the situation. HELP ME!!!

2006-12-07 10:10:03 · 4 answers · asked by kobeman 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there signs your bf/gf is losing interest in you and starting to like someone else? How do you win him/her back?

2006-12-07 10:09:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OKay, there is this guy I like and we flirt, but he is shy and so am I and I wanted to do something to make something or anything (good) happen. After finals should I ask him out to lunch with a group of people, or do something cute b/c it is christmas- I have english with him if that makes any difference. I need a good, and safe way to make something happen. Please help.

2006-12-07 10:09:11 · 10 answers · asked by Katie W 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are in our 30's and have three kids. Usually we get about one or two "date" nights per month, but we feel old and without friends. What suggestions do you have to make friends and/or have some fun at our age?

2006-12-07 10:08:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands exwife and i do not get along.She hates me because i married her husband (no he did not leave her for me).I can't stand her because she uses her son as bait to control my husband.Plus she has made it very clear she wants me to have nothing to do with thier 8yr old son.Heres the problem my husband and i always have our own b-day/x-mas/graduation party for his son with our family and his ex has her own party with her family for thier son.She always invites my husband only never me to the parties even when she knows we already had one for his son.My husband always says i can go too but how would u feel going to a party where u know u are not welcome.i went once and she and her family spent the whole time glaring at me not fun.My husband hates her as much as i do but he always goes for his son's sake.I feel as long as we have our own party for his son there is no reason for him to go to the one she is having. Its the ex that always invites him too not his son.

2006-12-07 10:08:29 · 13 answers · asked by janevincent1974 1 in Family

My husband an I have decided to go our seperate ways.. but because of finacial reasons we need to live together in the same house for 6 months.. so we thought it would be better not to say anything to anyone .. We both have decided we are both going to live our own lives.. Yes we have kids.. And I really dont know what to do about my wedding ring..??? I dont want to wear it anymore as I think it will give my husband the wrong idea.. and I wouldnt feel comfortable talken with a potential date whilst wearing it .. I just dont want any questions ?? Any ideas..

Ohh yes I know you might say just move out .. sometimes life isnt that simple..

2006-12-07 10:08:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

See a few months ago my friend and his gf broke up, well i was wondering if you thought it was a bad idea to ask her out.

2006-12-07 10:08:00 · 17 answers · asked by LazY 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to hang round with the wrong of people and got into so much trouble. I used to treat women mean because they were "2 a penny". Then I grew up a bit and started behaving and being really caring and responsible.Gues what...not a girl in sight!! they always chose my "badboy" friends. Now I'm talking about a whole range of ladies, some really respectable.I really persevered thinking I would attract the right one eventually..never happened...Now I'm back to Mr. mean I cant move for women!! so why do you all make out you want this Mr. nice guy sh1t?

2006-12-07 10:07:38 · 22 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

For when my boyfriend comes home in March from being overseas in the Navy, what would be your opinion of the best sex I could give him?

2006-12-07 10:07:38 · 3 answers · asked by Finally FREE!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, long story short, I fell for my best friend, we dated for a month or so, she dumped me, I'm devastated, she says she never really liked me like that, I moped around until the start of this school year, when she said she really did like me, but she was scared. Then after a while, she says get over me or we can't be friends anymore. I thought I was over it, and we were kinda back to the way we used to be because I didn't think about it anymore. Lately, my old feelings for her have rekindled, and I've dreamt of being with her again every night this week and I don't know how I can stand it much longer. I can't be with her, I know that, but I also can't seem to get over her either. What am I gonna do?=(

2006-12-07 10:07:33 · 5 answers · asked by GUNSZxG0xBANGG 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 10:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont mean the universe...i mean Y!...one of the things that fascinates me personally is human behaviour...this is a great forum for looking at it...and i like to both challenge and be challenged...i also find it fascinating that people from all over the world come together on here and lay out a piece of themselves for others to see...there are little cliques of people on here too...and you get to know the odd person or three...as much as you can online anyways,lol...its like a self contained little cyber world...why are you here???

2006-12-07 10:07:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does laid back mean???????????

2006-12-07 10:07:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me n ex have bn 2gether 4yrs out of no where last mounth she wants out. after 2wks she calls again n wants back n i open my heart she promises 2never hurt me again n will alwaz luv me. Then she goes 2 her bestfriends college when she comes back she breaks it off with me agian. swares their is no1 ealse n she just doesnt feel the same. I saw her fac2fac a few days ago she hugs n kisses me n says she is sorry 2hurt me but when she came back she really felt great being w/me agian. But when she got back from her friends she felt differnt. she is trying 2 figure out her self, she says she want to move on n maybe in time we'll be friends. we cant see each other for along time. I agreed. the next day she calls me n ask if i wouldnt mind keepin her company at the train station for 3hrs. I ask if anybody ealse could do it she said no n is afriad 2b alone. i said yes. She calls last night n gives me the 411 n2 see what im up2. can i make this work 4me? If she is payin with me how can i play back

2006-12-07 10:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is going on yahoo answers and emailing boys. Im scared that she will talk to the wrong person and get hurt. To me she is giving out to much info and needs to stop. She doesn't know that I know and if she found out I would be dead meat!! HELP PLZ!!!!

2006-12-07 10:06:51 · 2 answers · asked by bh_3pointer 1 in Friends

I have four friends which are all girls.
I just dont have the money to spend a lot on them
Everyone wants to spend $30 dollars on each other but I cant afford it. Are there any gifts I can get them that are really cheap? Teenage girls. They are 13.

2006-12-07 10:06:49 · 7 answers · asked by Angie P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ipod video
leather case for the Ipod video
Cologne
new shoes (circa's)
and a couple band t-shits
would you be happy with just that for Christmas?

2006-12-07 10:06:17 · 18 answers · asked by Poptart20 2 in Singles & Dating

Michael Owen...

2006-12-07 10:06:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering???

2006-12-07 10:06:06 · 7 answers · asked by Hannah! 1 in Singles & Dating

Well..I could've sworn this guy liked me..maybe he does...I can't tell. Well anyways..I'm pretty shy, and everyone says that if I'm shy and I don't really talk to the guy I like, or let him know I like him, he might lose interest..which is true. So today I saw him, and I decided to give it a shot. He was reading a paper on the wall so I went over and asked him a question. I got nervous so that's all I asked. He stayed there for a few mintures then went to look out the window..then went and sat down by my desk. So I casually walked over and asked him what were the other classes he had..and he answered..and yet again I got nervous so I didn't say anything else. He stayed sitting there a few more mintures then got up and went to another group of people who were talking.
Well..last week, he came and asked what I wanted for Christmas, if I had a nice time on vacation, if I liked Starbucks and so on.He'll hold the door open and such. And yesterday he was eating a cupcake and he accidentally

2006-12-07 10:05:56 · 2 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 10:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by T. H 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok Recently Today Something Scary Happened:

I was eating my dinner when some of my Friends Friend's came over and said do you Fancy (sone-so) I said no, (Which i do i love Her To Bits)

What i want to know is what do I do:

Do I
A: Tell Her The truth and get tortured by schoolmates

Or
B: ditch her and not talk to her or her friends again?

It all started when i said to her do you want to go to the cinemas on Saturday as i'm Not doing anything on that Day.

2006-12-07 10:05:35 · 12 answers · asked by danderton1 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, and liked her all the time i have know her. About 5 months ago we started going out. I think i am in love with her - i think about her all the time, and i am incredibly happy when with her. I first said i love her about a month into our relationship, and she said i love you back. However recently i had inkling about things and had a week of really deep thinking which culminated in me asking her if she really loved me. She said no, and when i asked if she ever could, and she said no. I felt a mixture of upset, confused, angry and hurt (hard to expain!) by this, although i was glad she had told the truth and i understand it is exceedinlgy hard to say i dont love you back to someone you care for. Undoubtedly she likes me a lot but i would like to know if our relationship is effectively flat - is it possible to go out with someone who loves you although you are certain you could never love them back?

2006-12-07 10:04:34 · 18 answers · asked by acid_butter 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 10:04:10 · 3 answers · asked by Hannah! 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands exwife and i do not get along.She hates me because i married her husband (no he did not leave her for me).I can't stand her because she uses her son as bait to control my husband.Plus she has made it very clear she wants me to have nothing to do with thier 8yr old son.Heres the problem my husband and i always have our own b-day/x-mas/graduation party for his son with our family and his ex has her own party with her family for thier son.She always invites my husband only never me to the parties even when she knows we already had one for his son.My husband always says i can go too but how would u feel going to a party where u know u are not welcome.i went once and she and her family spent the whole time glaring at me not fun.My husband hates her as much as i do but he always goes for his son's sake.I feel as long as we have our own party for his son there is no reason for him to go to the one she is having. Its the ex that always invites him too not his son.

2006-12-07 10:02:58 · 9 answers · asked by janevincent1974 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well everytime I have a fantasy or dream (i never share this with anyone) whoever i was fantasising about shows up at my house, my gym trainer, my boss, a client, a lifelong friend and believe it or not the list gets longer and wierder....welll what the heck is going on how can all my fantasys come true? (havent yet acted on any though) Im scared now to fantasize as this odd attraction thing going on can cause havoc, is this psychic(not litterally) or what?
I'm an average looking girl, a little shy but friendly and this is all new and very overwelming

2006-12-07 10:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating