Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

Ok yall...My guy loves me and I love him were gonna be married but on our honey moon night I kinda wanna do something special for him because He wants me to be dominate...But he normally leads our...adventures....I dont know what to do! HELP!!

2006-12-07 10:45:47 · 3 answers · asked by abbi 1 in Singles & Dating

let me start from the begining, this kid asked me out i said no i have a boyfriend(but i dont)and he asked me who. i said i'll tell you later after class i didnt see him after class so i had to find a boyfriend and it would be my first one. i asked the kid i like(jack) and he said no so then my friend and jack when up to this one kid and asked if he would be my boyfriend and he(jordan) said yes! but i dont like jordan only as a friend. turns out jack gets this girl monique involved and she starts to set me up with jack and jordan. after that she called me a pretend s lu t. guess what monique likes jack too but i found out that jordan really really likes me.!. what should i do so jack likes me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-07 10:45:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so tomorrow first trimester ends, and we get a new schedule.
usually the schedules dont change much, so im not expecting mine to make any drastic changes.
the problem is, my crush's (who is sorta my friend too) schedule isnt changing either...
and, well, i'm in Concert Band for music, and there's this advanced group called Wind Ensemble. I wanna audition for Wind Ensemble, but if i do, the only class i have with my crush will be changed with another class.
I really like my crush, and I'd always thought of this one class as a chance to get to know him.
But if I switch to Wind Ensemble, i might never even talk to him again....
what should i do?
please dont be mean..

2006-12-07 10:45:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 10:44:45 · 4 answers · asked by jesenia h 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on my situation with my boyfriend. We've been together for five years and we have a daughter together, the problem is that he is really a hard person to be with. It's really hard to explain, I don't know what to do. We've had so many issues together in the begining it was just perfect. Then about 5 months into the relationship he started to choke me and spit me in my face, those are things that I will never be able to forget. I still have alot of anger built up towards him for all the things he's put me through. He doesn't do that any more but he doesn't trust me, because this past summer we had separated and I tried to be with someone else, but it didn't work out because I could'nt stop thinking about my boyfriend. So we got back together and all the time now he's always saying that I'm cheating on him. He also doesn't let me have friends or hang out with my cousin. He doesn't help me out with our daughter he doesn't have a job.

2006-12-07 10:44:30 · 34 answers · asked by Sally C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is moving and me and all my other friends want to give her a gift that will be really nice from all of us and we all are gonna split paying for it..we might get her an ipod..but any other ideas? and only say store bought things because we will make her things too

2006-12-07 10:44:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we were together 4 yrs went and did everything together passion love and lust went on all that time.moved in together and the friction jealousy all made it go wrong..thought id die without him took me 2 years to get over the loss..took him 2 months b4 he was with another and then moved in with her 6 months later.
Never thought i would get through the pain.On my own for a year getting to know myself better learning from my mistakes. Met someone new took things slowly cos once bitten twice shy but falling in love again but with far more knowledge of how to make things work
im happy for him and im now happy again. He lives with another woman now just like he did with me and again cos he has not learnt from mistakes he is breaking up and making up every other month with her
Then he comes to my friend and asks him who am i seeing and what am i up to and am i happy.My friend told him yes she is and dates many as she is always being asked out..he was peeved.
Im over him..Is he over me.

2006-12-07 10:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by itsallgood 2 in Singles & Dating

they say

they say a picture is worth a thousand words, but she was worth more
they say the grass is always greener on the other side, but nobody knew for sure

they say you win some you lose some, but i lost all
they say kindness is the key to a womens heart, im still waiting for her call

they say love is blind and that is so true
they say people do crazy things when their in love, thats why i do the things i do

they say beauty comes from within, we all seem to forget
they say you only want things you cant have.and its you i wanted but could never get

they say dreams come true, but they never do
they say the best things in life can't be seen, maybe thats why i couldn't see you

they say ask and you shall recieve, now this i dont believe
they say friends stick by your side, so why did you leave

now i dont know what phrase or piece of advice to follow
so i guess nothing will ever change and my heart will always be hollow

2006-12-07 10:44:16 · 2 answers · asked by guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like a boy in my class. This may seem strange, but I asked if he likes me by email (he said yes), but how do I ask him in person - do I come up to him or something. Oh yes, my BFF asked him and he also said yes! I need advice, cause he's really nice!

2006-12-07 10:43:21 · 5 answers · asked by kapo 2 in Friends

I have been hooking up with this girl and i have felt her up and we made out, but we want to do more stuff along those lines wihout fingering or sex.. any ideas??

2006-12-07 10:43:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK here goes im married 10 yrs sep for 3 1/2 of that came back to him in aug 2006 and things arent working for me still the same issues. Now hes working out of state. And we technically are living in the same house even though hes not here because of work. I want to file divorce. How should I do this file while hes gone or wait till he comes home. He has no idea that I want a divorce as far as he knows everything is fine..But I cant handle being accused everytime i leave the house for cheating i have never cheated on him so is this his own insecurity...Someone please help me on this...my main question is do this while hes away or wait till he comeback....thats where im stumped....and should of move and leave his stuff at the house (we r just renting) or should i just stay for the kids sake and move his stuff out.....O my am i confused on this anyone has any advice plz let me know......???CONFUSED???

2006-12-07 10:43:08 · 11 answers · asked by u8pebbles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just a pure acceptance...can you think of anything?...from your children loving you to santa claus...go for it...;0)

2006-12-07 10:42:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

husband wife girlfriend bofrien so on...

2006-12-07 10:42:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How are women supposed to know whether or not a man loves them? My ex and me broke up because he was commitment phobic and couldn't decide how he felt or didn't fell for me. Now, he comes over every day again, he hugs me, kisses me, cuddles with me and we're closer than we ever were before. Last night he made a comment about how he's trying to get this job that would pay a lot more and he was thinking about settling down, even though he knew we'd broken up but his words " I know we broke up but you know we still do the same things just do a little more of our own thing now." anyways his point was he'd been thinking about maybe settling down, quitting all the partying and just being in a relationship agian. But I'm so confused because when we broke up we'd been engaged three months and he comes out with I'm not sure I love you that much any more, so what is he thinking now? I'm scared to ask because I'm afraid of what I might hear. I'll ask him but now i just want your opinion.

2006-12-07 10:42:06 · 16 answers · asked by curious_and_hopeful 1 in Singles & Dating

and if you could have anything at your wedding for no cost what would it be?

2006-12-07 10:41:56 · 23 answers · asked by The King 1 in Weddings

I have being dating this girl for about a month now. She broke up with her ex whom she dated for a year. She claims that she realized that they weren't meant for each other. I like her immensely. She stated that she cares alot about me and didn't want to hurt me when I confronted her about the possiblilty that I could be the rebound guy. We've had sex at least 6x. My question is what do I need to doi? should I be careful so as not to be rebounf guy. Should I trust her? Does she cares about me or does she want to just have sex with me and dump me? I am having all kinds of thoughts creeping thru my mind. I know I am the one who'll make the ultimately make the decision. But I need input as to what you guys would do if placed in my plight. Thanks for reading and responding..

2006-12-07 10:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

every day

2006-12-07 10:41:19 · 14 answers · asked by nosey one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i found 2 men on her IM account - she says they are friends and tha i invaded her privacy. should i feel betrayed?

2006-12-07 10:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Ryan B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 10:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when someone asks if were going out alls he says is that were really good friends just really good friends isnt enough i want to go out with him and last week he asked me waht i wanted for christmas and i said i dont know. doies he like me and do we have a chance?

2006-12-07 10:41:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to have a crush. Then I had to move, and was extremely sad. Now I'm really, really mad at him. Could it be that it SEEMED like he was flirting with me and didn't say good-bye, or is it something else? I'm confused...

2006-12-07 10:40:08 · 5 answers · asked by emjackson95 2 in Friends

I live in Essex and i have a beautiful 7 year old daughter and a boyfriend who works alot and i am bored. All of my friends have families and i feel i have no one to talk to. Any suggestions?

2006-12-07 10:39:35 · 22 answers · asked by stacey f 2 in Friends

i wanna be with this guy but this big bunch of whores are always with him and all over him. i want him to notice me not them and acting like a whore aint gonna work

2006-12-07 10:39:25 · 19 answers · asked by confussed 2 in Singles & Dating

i was going to get this sweet chick i know for about a month a gift card for christmas. what store is a girls favorite store?

2006-12-07 10:38:32 · 23 answers · asked by justinxtime 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i get a guy to like me? all of them like all the s.lutty and popular girls. i think that i am pretty, but no guys go for me!!!!!

2006-12-07 10:38:17 · 13 answers · asked by Caroliney 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 10:38:03 · 7 answers · asked by Shelby Madison Runyon 1 in Singles & Dating

im 18 and Ive been with my girlfriend for almost 6 months now and dont feel like i love her yet??? is it because we spend too much time together???? we have had a handfull of arguements and broken up 3 times and gotten back together but i feel as though if this was the girl im marrying that i would of loved her the first month we were together...???? i believe two people can fall in love in the first week but dont really know???? HELP!!!!! shes a good girlfriend but we have our differences, should we just really end it next time we get into a big arguement or be patient????we both have a lot in common but just dont feel happy 100% of the time, sometimes she really annoys me!!!by the way i dont have a problem getting girls i just want to be with ONE surprisingly!! what should i do???

2006-12-07 10:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by playboy10888 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months. We are really nature oriented. We live in Florida so it will most likely be warm. I am 17 and he is 16.

2006-12-07 10:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by Allie M 1 in Singles & Dating

I think he is going to be the father of my future child, but i cant find him! Help!

2006-12-07 10:36:53 · 5 answers · asked by Octupussy 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife says she doesn't have to obey me if she doesn't agree with my decisions. I thought that was the biggest bunch of garbage I have ever heard in my life. What kind of obedience is that? She also says I have to earn her respect. Truth is, I am her husband and she needs to respect me because of my position in the family, correct? I'm really getting tired of her choosing which commands of mine she wants to obey or not. Should I start a system of discipline? If not, any other ideas to get her to straighten up and quit being so stubborn?

2006-12-07 10:36:49 · 38 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Marriage & Divorce