i found 2 men on her IM account - she says they are friends and tha i invaded her privacy. should i feel betrayed?
2006-12-07 10:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Ryan B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You did invade her privacy. Even if you were still married you still didn't need to go in there.
But now that you know I wouldn't blame you for feeling betrayed. That is natural. But you are separated and it sounds like there is no going back on this one now.
Sounds like sharing the house isn't such a great idea.
2006-12-07 10:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why should you feel betrayed? You and your wife are separated. If you don't like what she is doing, move! And you did invade her privacy, how would you like it if she did that to you?
2006-12-07 18:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, she should. You have no business invading her privacy. This is not a good living arrangement in my opinion. I can understand your feelings, but right now you two are just friends. Is it her business what you do?
2006-12-07 18:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should not live in the same house. You may SAY that you are separated, but if you guys still live together everything is still going to feel the same. You guys may say that oh we can date other people but IT WON"T WORK. One or the other will get jealous. Just leave.
2006-12-07 18:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by luvlebrowneyez 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what are the two of you thinking????? Separated and living together...well if that isn't a recipe for disaster I don't know what is.....if you have any chance of getting back together and sleeping in the "big bed" you better stop snooping and start thinking about what got you here in the first place and if there is anyway to correct it...if not, one of you should move...good luck
2006-12-07 18:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
um no, you are seperated remember. That means she can bring men into your home and sleep with them too, so no, dont invade her privacy.
2006-12-08 17:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your seperation isn't legal if your in the same home.
So, yes, you should feel betrayed.
A seperation consists of seperate housing.
2006-12-07 18:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude get away from her, otherwise you'll never be happy. Run and don't look back.
2006-12-07 18:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL You're a hoot.
2006-12-07 19:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋