I have being dating this girl for about a month now. She broke up with her ex whom she dated for a year. She claims that she realized that they weren't meant for each other. I like her immensely. She stated that she cares alot about me and didn't want to hurt me when I confronted her about the possiblilty that I could be the rebound guy. We've had sex at least 6x. My question is what do I need to doi? should I be careful so as not to be rebounf guy. Should I trust her? Does she cares about me or does she want to just have sex with me and dump me? I am having all kinds of thoughts creeping thru my mind. I know I am the one who'll make the ultimately make the decision. But I need input as to what you guys would do if placed in my plight. Thanks for reading and responding..
2006-12-07 10:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
30 days of dating and already sleeping together and you want to know if you can trust her? NO
2006-12-07 10:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really be the one to decide if you're the rebound guy ,
she might be on the rebound then move on. its a risk anyone takes when they get involved , if there are no other problems just be you and don't rock the boat
but it you start picking up on clues that its a one sided relationship, bow out , you deserve to receive what you give in a relationship
2006-12-07 10:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the "rebound guy" is actually the right guy--simply ask yourself (1) is she worth the risk of being hurt and (2) would it be worse to call it quits and always wonder what might have been?
2006-12-07 10:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by jbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think too much. just have a good time and see what happens. "to love is to take a risk." take a chance, but don't be stupid if she's like not giving you full attention or whatever, you know? if it doesn't work out, you haven't been together that long anyway, you have a lifetime of good opportunities ahead of you...
2006-12-07 10:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh if you want to know if she cares about you dont have sex --- if she still wants to get to know you then wonderful if not move on
normally this is the same sort of thing the ladies are told
2006-12-07 10:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S TESTING THE WATERS. DON'T PUT YOUR HEART ON THE LINE. SHE ALREADY THREW UP A RED FLAG WHEN SHE SAID SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HURT YOU. JUST TAKE IT SLOW AND EASY. IT TOOK LEAVING MY FIANCE' LAST YEAR TO REALLY LEARN THAT I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH. WE WERE APART A COUPLE OF MONTHS AND NOW WE ARE BACK TOGETHER AND WE ARE GOING TO GET MARRIED. GOOD LUCK......................HC
2006-12-07 10:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you have feeling for her huh if she does see you as a rebound guy at least you are getting that pussy
2006-12-07 10:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by Orlando 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋