let me start from the begining, this kid asked me out i said no i have a boyfriend(but i dont)and he asked me who. i said i'll tell you later after class i didnt see him after class so i had to find a boyfriend and it would be my first one. i asked the kid i like(jack) and he said no so then my friend and jack when up to this one kid and asked if he would be my boyfriend and he(jordan) said yes! but i dont like jordan only as a friend. turns out jack gets this girl monique involved and she starts to set me up with jack and jordan. after that she called me a pretend s lu t. guess what monique likes jack too but i found out that jordan really really likes me.!. what should i do so jack likes me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 10:45:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
UMMM...YOU HAVE TO BE YOUNG, BECAUSE THINGS LIKE THIS ARE ONLY THIS COMPLICATED WHEN YOU ARE IN LIKE MIDDLE SCHOOL. IF JACK DOESNT LIKE YOU THAN THAT IS ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW. IT IS BETTER TO BE LIKED FOR WHO YOU ARE THAN TO HAVE TO PRETEND THAT YOU ARE LIKE SOMETHING ELSE, YA KNOW? SO WHAT IF YOU LIED TO THAT ONE GUY, LIFE GOES ON. HE CAN FINE SOMEONE ELSE, JUST LIKE YOU CAN.
2006-12-07 10:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, why did you ask jordan out in the first place if you didnt like him? I dont really understand the part where Monique is setting you up with Jack AND Jordan? Its her own fault for setting you up with two guys so she shouldnt be the one calling you a s.l.u.t
and first i think you should talk to Jordan, tell him that you arent into him like that, it might hurt him but he will get over it. Dont leave him hanging like that, if you do that it causes more problems later, like gossip, friends against friends and much more. And im not sure if there is anything to do to make Jack like you, you just have to be yourself and dont go out with jordan because if you do you will end out Jack saying, "oh well she has a boyfriend so its not worth me to try." and sence this is your first boyfriend i kind of understand your problems but honestly go for one guy and make sure u accually LIKE him. I really hope i helped you, this really was confusing lol.
oh and i hate to say what everyone else is saying but you shouldnt have lied in the first place, and even if you did you could have said, id rather keep that to myself instead of going on a "man hunt" for someone that way the kid wont get upset. all guys get over things like that. You sound very young, im assuming 6th or 7th grade ?
Best of Luck
2006-12-07 18:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you set yourself up for this by covardly telling the first guy that you have a boyfriends and making up an excuse rather than just saying you don't want to go out with him.
As of what to do now - decide who YOU like. Jordan? Jack? Go with one you like if he asks you, don't go with the one that you want to be just friends with, or because you want to hide behind him from some other guy. Keep it clear in your head.
2006-12-07 18:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your story is very difficult to understand. First, I would suggest not lying when people ask you if you have a boyfriend. Next, I would suggest not getting upset at people calling you a sIut or anything else, and just going with whatever guy you like best- or none at all, if that's what suits you (if it is, don't think that's a problem).
2006-12-07 18:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, it's never good to lie...especially when it's so easy to get caught like you did. I think that you should just own up to your lie to the kid, and explain that you really don't want to date him, and that you lied because you didn't know whatelse to say without hurting his feelings.
As far Jack, I'm not really following too closely, but to get a guy to like you you have to be friendly to him and to be yourself! Don't try to act a certain way because you think he'll like you better. That never works. Just be yourself and if he does like you, great! But if he doesn't, well, I'm sure you'll be another "Jack" that you'll like just as much as you like this Jake.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 18:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by rockergirl20032003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time do not lie about having a boyfriend.
2006-12-07 18:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would go with the one who treats you rite and the one who loves you the most
2006-12-07 18:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lies come back and bite you in your little tushy.
2006-12-07 18:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋