there is this girl whom I am in love with and she wants to be friends and she started the whole thing by flirting with me and saying she was my girl friend and like a fool I fell in love with her and after time she just wanted to be friends and now I cant get her out of my mind.I know deep down I am not the right guy for her and she isnt the right women for me..but tell that to my heart..I cant stop thinking about her..I miss the smell of her hair, her smile the sound of voice and her soft skin..she is beuitfull. so how do I forget her and move on..the pain..it hurts..
2006-12-07 10:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Kingofreportedabuse 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cut ties with her. Hanging around her just makes it worse. If you feel like saying bad things about remember it is part of the healing process to see a person's bad points.
In truth until you meet someone else you probably will not get over her.
2006-12-07 10:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try staying active and keeping busy. Spend time with your friends and family members. Try writing down why you are wrong for each other. Think about what kind of lady you really want to be with! Give yourself some space from this other girl and you may have to explain to her you need some space right now to get your feelings in prospective. Some people are better friends and have differnt wants and needs. Move on with your life and do things that you enjoy! good luck!
2006-12-07 18:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow i am so sorry to hear that i know how that feel but you seem like a pretty nice guy and anyone would be happy to have someone like you to love them she on the other hand had no right to do you that way if she really knew how you felt about her she should have said something to you about that because it can definantly ruin a friendship but on that note please don't fall in love too fast make it's what you both want first and maybe you need to talk to the girl your in love with maybe you two can work after all you two were friends first, good luck
2006-12-07 18:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by honey bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything comes and goes. obviously you cant expect to feel better in one day. in a way it depends on how deeply 'attached' you were to her. it's not as easy as it sounds even though everyone just going to tell you to move on. none of us can tell you precisely how long it'll take you to forget her, it depends if you want to hold on or not. of course the pain is excruciating but you gotta bear it. if she's not the one then at least you know there IS someone for you. the right girl will come along to make the pain go away. i hope you feel better.
2006-12-07 18:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by SUPER. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is diffrent per person some times it takes more then a year to get over people the best thing to do is probly hanging out with another girl you might like and stop haning around the one that you dont think is wright for you beacuse it will just hurt more and more if you do
2006-12-10 18:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by bkewlv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remeber that lovebreaks your heart, love makes a change in everything, love makes it hard and it fades away so easily. Love leaves wounds that will take time and that no one can heal. with time u will get over her, ust try o think that she was just another lifein ur past that didn't last
2006-12-07 18:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, i feel it before , but u should go on, she is not only girl, there are whom deserve u and deserve them. life teaches u how to overcome on Ur hurts so quickly if u learn how to forget and want to. it takes time but since she leaves u and she was able to , u should do the same, live ur life again, l learned that in the previous days, under one quotation, " who sells me , i sell him." fin.
2006-12-07 18:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant tell u cause its not the same ...if u loved her alot it will take time and it wont be easy but if u didnt deeply love her it wont take a minute to kick her out of ur heart and mind
2006-12-07 18:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit but you will get over it eventually, its hard but just try and see that life still goes on, you will snap out of it look back and laugh. trust me
2006-12-07 18:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by designed for life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time, ok? Maybe get involved in a sport, or something like that to get your mind on something else instead of off her. Get involved in something, ect.
2006-12-07 18:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋