Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

Orange County Ca.

2006-12-07 10:02:23 · 16 answers · asked by mmike714 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex ended our relationship a couple of weeks ago due to "his doubts". i however did not believe him because to me that was a ridculous reason. i believed that it was because he wanted to explore his other options in college. while my mind is telling me he is wrong for me, my heart still longs for him, more than he will ever know. i confronted him with this theory and he denied it to a t. i also told him i thought he ended it because he wanted to control me and to have control in our relationship. he was less than enthused. i also told him that if he really loved me, he would tell me everything. he responded but not in the way i wanted him to. i want him to tell me the truth but i feel that he's convinced himself that doubt is what really ended it. it's funny. he wasn't the guy i thought he was. he's controling and manipulative and he just can't see it. advice?

2006-12-07 10:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

I NEED ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-07 10:00:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was thinking of playing guns nroses sweet child o' mine as my
recessional song.

Do you think that is a little much or do you think that it's a good love song?

2006-12-07 10:00:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, about 2 months ago a met this guy. In the 2 months we only seen each other twice, when we 1st met and like 2 weeks later. Well we talk every day on the phone & live about 45 min. away from eachother. Anyways we stoped talking bout 5 days ago, we had been making plans to go out this coming weekend for my brithday. Well since he hasn't call me in 5 days i call him last night. He didnt answer, i caught his vocie mail. So i decided to check it for him. Well i know i did bad, Okay so he had a vocie mail from his friend then some gurl tell him if he wanted to go over & like 2 other voice mails from the same gurl. He tells me that he likes me and he wounld hate to stop talking to me. So what do i do call the gurl and ask who she is or forget him or tell him what i did and heard. Or what do i do?

2006-12-07 09:59:47 · 8 answers · asked by Me ★ 1 in Singles & Dating

13 year ol smart nice loud likes Panic! @ the disco, Greenday. All American Rejects, etc, likes 2 read, wrirte ♥ HELP

2006-12-07 09:59:28 · 22 answers · asked by J@YDI$$L3 3 in Friends

Do guys feel more secure about themselves when they purposely flirt with other girls in front of the girl that they really have interest in? Why do guys do this?
I don't get why guys will do this but when the other girls aren't there, he will totally stare at the girl he likes. Are they trying to get their attention or are they telling them to back off?

2006-12-07 09:59:14 · 4 answers · asked by BeachBabe 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I remeber my boyfriend always used to complain we we'd go shopping he would always rush me. But when I would shop for clothes he would alway be so eager to watch me try them on.

2006-12-07 09:58:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok long story short
im in 7 grade ya i no im young but i need some help
ok there's this guy and hes like one of the many guy friends i have
lots of people i tell this to think he likes me but i dont think he does so i need you people to help me
ok well he always looks back at me and he likes to make me laugh and smile alot he also smacks my butt sometimes he loves
to anoy me he remembers stuff i said like 2-3 months ago he als stairs at my boobs alot too so remember tell me what u think or dont think i need all the feed back i can get

2006-12-07 09:58:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you make your crush not like his girlfriend anymore,so he will like you?

2006-12-07 09:57:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have ...and im not...im wearing mine out on my birthday,...we are having a theme night out,lol...where will you wear yours???;0)


just having christmas fun

2006-12-07 09:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a woman wrote him saying , does it mean our friendship is over i am worried about you and i thought we had someting special and if you have move on with your life i am happy and can we still be friends. he calls her at 2.00 am and all the time and he never mentioned her to me

2006-12-07 09:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-07 09:56:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even though i havent been with a guy im feeling like i need a guy to hold me and kiss a little foreplay right now and i know im afraid to make whoopie but why am i feeling this way

2006-12-07 09:56:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 09:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hate it when girls are overprotected. i was never like that with my bf but i see my friends who try to keep track of evrymin which gets me annoyed. but even though i was never like that with my bf he was and i liked it to know someone cares but i knew if i did it to him it would kill him.

2006-12-07 09:55:30 · 1 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 09:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by ALISON O 1 in Family

2006-12-07 09:55:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today was the worst day of my life. I'm so shy and it's so hard for me to make friends. My friends keep switching schools. Now my friends in my art class are all gone and I'm all alone. I have to switch tables now because now that she's gone I would be all alone with the perverts who sit at my table. the pervs are this boy and this girl who are all over eachother and talking about sex and their both such wores, it wont be long before they are having an afair with eachother (they are both seeing other people) but that was ok when I was with my friend. I don't know what table I should move to though. All the other tables are full but I'm sure I could pull up a stool to any of them and it would be clear why I was moving. I have to know where I'm gunna sit when I walk in tomorrow. Table1:2blackgirls2special kids, Table2:1longtimedatingcouple2otherpeople, Table3:2emopunkypeople2blackgirls, Table4:4peoplewhoactlikeveryclosefriends,
Table5:thepervs,
Table6:2jerkyguysand2otherpeople

2006-12-07 09:55:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-07 09:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who provokes raw emotion in you to such an extent that you almost forget yourself and who you are...you just become lost in your feelings...im not just talking love and lust here...could be through anger...or sorrow...happiness...fear...;0)

2006-12-07 09:53:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'VE ALWAYS MADE THE HONOR ROLL ALL MY LIFE.
MY TEACHER HATES ME. AND NOW I'M FAILING GYM. WHICH MEANS, I'M NOT GONNA MAKE THE HONOR ROLL. :( WHAT AM I GONNA DO? DOES THIS MEAN I'M STUPID? ... HOW WILL I MAKE IT INTO COLLEGE? ... WILL THEY STILL ACCEPT ME INTO COLLEGE? I AM IN 8TH GRADE.

2006-12-07 09:52:16 · 21 answers · asked by ToO CuTe 4 YoU 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in the halls od high school he doesnt talk to me in between classes, his friends say he's flirting with other girls and i dont know what to think anymore... help?

2006-12-07 09:52:09 · 16 answers · asked by Elisia Z 1 in Singles & Dating

A recent poll showed the top fantasies for men and women. What do you think? Do these float your boat or turn you off?

Men's fantasies:
Girlfriends dressing up and role play.
Three's company - threesome.
The idea of paying for sex.
Submission to a woman - lying back and being told what to do
Making it public - making love in public

Women's fantasies:
Putting on a performance - having an audience.
Team building - sex with other women
Sex with a stranger - meeting an anonymous man of mystery
Sex with the ex.
Dominant Diva - women taking the lead.

2006-12-07 09:52:08 · 10 answers · asked by Aries 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 09:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 28 year old man, married, and have found myself more in love with my female best friend then with my wife. I'm not sure, but I think that my friend feels the same about me, but wouldn't act on it due to the sanctity of marriage, both hers and mine. Divorce is not an option due to my faith, and so i'm very confused!!

2006-12-07 09:51:48 · 24 answers · asked by huntingtonjason 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy i fell for made me feel he really liked me ,he knew i was married and older than him,ive never had someone look at me as much as he did,and looking to see if i was looking back at him,also hanging around where i was,he had a girlfriend i found out he would get nervous aroundme as i would him as well,he used to keep coming over putting things in my bin but he would not talk ,i dont understand him,or hed come over say hello to the person next to me and ignore me,was he just playing games with me some times we would look at each other for ages,hes left now didnt even say good bye ,i want to phone him at workis this agood idea i need to know why he wanted my attention so much ,then left without a word.

2006-12-07 09:51:47 · 12 answers · asked by olivia a 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this woman in her 40's and she wanted to have a child to keep her company in her old age, and of course child support til child is 18. Her brother said that men can be raped, not physically but by a drug (not sure which one) that can be given in a drink, and then the girl has sex with him, and gets pregnant, even though guy didn't want a child. Is this true? And if so, can this be proven in a court of law? It's been 5 years since child was born. Why would her brother say this to me after all this time. So was this guy raped?

2006-12-07 09:51:39 · 29 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Singles & Dating

So far for my dad all i have is - PJ pants
My mom so far i have- a sweater
Sister so far i have- slippers

2006-12-07 09:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here's the deal:

I've had a crush on this one (Mark) for almost two semesters, and we're not really close or anything, but we're not complete strangers.

I finally decided I wanted to ask him out today, and I had his friend talk to him for me... and he said no. According to Chase (his friend) this is how it went down:

"Hey Mark, Sameeh wants to go out with you."
"Umm...Yeah?"
"Yes or No, man!"
"Eh...I'm already going to the dance with someone"
"Oh, so you're not going out with anyone, though. Do you want to go out with her?"
"Umm...not...no."

I started crying and I left the band room after they talked and Chase told me what he said.

What am I supposed to do?

As my question states, the Christmas dance is tomorrow. I have a very cute outfit and he is going.

How can I use my weapons to make him, IDK, just notice me?

2006-12-07 09:50:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating