If I'm shy and my only friend in my art class switched schools who should I sit with?

Question

Today was the worst day of my life. I'm so shy and it's so hard for me to make friends. My friends keep switching schools. Now my friends in my art class are all gone and I'm all alone. I have to switch tables now because now that she's gone I would be all alone with the perverts who sit at my table. the pervs are this boy and this girl who are all over eachother and talking about sex and their both such wores, it wont be long before they are having an afair with eachother (they are both seeing other people) but that was ok when I was with my friend. I don't know what table I should move to though. All the other tables are full but I'm sure I could pull up a stool to any of them and it would be clear why I was moving. I have to know where I'm gunna sit when I walk in tomorrow. Table1:2blackgirls2special kids, Table2:1longtimedatingcouple2otherpeople, Table3:2emopunkypeople2blackgirls, Table4:4peoplewhoactlikeveryclosefriends,
Table5:thepervs,
Table6:2jerkyguysand2otherpeople

Answer 1

I would suggest that part of the reason this is causing you to worry is that there's no possible way to be sure of the outcome; social interactions are not entirely predictable. That's a reality that makes them frightening, but it can also make them enjoyable. Just relax and do whatever feels right. And remember that even if it doesn't work out as you hoped, it will still be okay. Afterall, what's the worst that could happen?

Answer 2

u just need to change ur mentality so that u can see the Positive things instead of the Negatives.


the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.

so having said that, work on:

1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.

2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.

3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.

:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.

Answer 3

i'm a sophomore in severe college, i'm getting shy too, yet once I have been you i might attempt to speak to 3 one that seems truly severe high quality. I even have the comparable subject in my English 2 Honors classification. that's in basic terms what you have have been given to do or in basic terms save to your self and permit the instructor assign you a companion. i'm sorry if this does not help you, yet terrific needs!!

Answer 4

You should sit with the people you are comfortable with. Try ignoring those people. Try not listening to those people who are perverts as you say. And be with the person in your art class who you are most comfortable with.

Answer 5

Table 4 if they are'nt annoying