my ex ended our relationship a couple of weeks ago due to "his doubts". i however did not believe him because to me that was a ridculous reason. i believed that it was because he wanted to explore his other options in college. while my mind is telling me he is wrong for me, my heart still longs for him, more than he will ever know. i confronted him with this theory and he denied it to a t. i also told him i thought he ended it because he wanted to control me and to have control in our relationship. he was less than enthused. i also told him that if he really loved me, he would tell me everything. he responded but not in the way i wanted him to. i want him to tell me the truth but i feel that he's convinced himself that doubt is what really ended it. it's funny. he wasn't the guy i thought he was. he's controling and manipulative and he just can't see it. advice?
2006-12-07 10:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to add to his controlful nature, he told e that if i were to date anyone anytime soon, he'd know my feelings for him weren't true. wtf?
2006-12-07 10:03:00 · update #1
for what ever reason he ended the relationship. Now you you have accept that and move on. He make decide that was not the right thing to do. Don't seat around waiting go out and meet new people.
2006-12-07 10:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your right he's a controll freak and youll never get a proper answer at that age sorry. I had a similar issue the guy i dated and loved all through highschool i lost my virginity to him and boy did i make him wait then all of the sudden there were no fights, no lack of affection no evident problem he gives me this as an excuse " Im sorry I have to leave you i had a dream and god told me we wont be happy together so i need to leave you" WTF he never did give me a real reason even years later and he did try getting back with me but i threw him to the curb after our history to leave me like that (man i was hurt so bad, i hated him and yet still hurt so so bad) So my advice stay away from him, he's just to immature to fess up to the real reason, and trust me youll find someone else when your ready
2006-12-07 10:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u but i think what is holding him back is d fact tha u show him that u r independent and u won't let him control u. Heis a guy i think that he wants to test d waters and whe that doesn' workout he will wan tu back. d statement where he told u that if u date anytime soon.......ur feeling.............. that is saying that he doesn't want u 2 b with anyone other than him, he doesn't want u 2 b happy with no on else
2006-12-07 10:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP, sound like controllilng manipulative to me... let it go and move on.. Who cares how he feels about it.
2006-12-07 10:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋