Okay, about 2 months ago a met this guy. In the 2 months we only seen each other twice, when we 1st met and like 2 weeks later. Well we talk every day on the phone & live about 45 min. away from eachother. Anyways we stoped talking bout 5 days ago, we had been making plans to go out this coming weekend for my brithday. Well since he hasn't call me in 5 days i call him last night. He didnt answer, i caught his vocie mail. So i decided to check it for him. Well i know i did bad, Okay so he had a vocie mail from his friend then some gurl tell him if he wanted to go over & like 2 other voice mails from the same gurl. He tells me that he likes me and he wounld hate to stop talking to me. So what do i do call the gurl and ask who she is or forget him or tell him what i did and heard. Or what do i do?
2006-12-07 09:59:47 · 8 answers · asked by Me ★ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa whoa whoa, You are not his girlfriend! You can not call another woman and ask her who she is, because really it's none of your business. When I started reading this article the first thing I said to myself is this guy doesn't seem to interested in her.(Not to be mean) but when a guy is interested he will try to see you as often as possible. You do live far but he hasn't made a clear effort from what I've read. Speaking on the phone, even if it's every night is not enough. When he stopped calling I knew there must be another girl, you should leave this situation alone. Do not call him anymore and definitely don't tell him that you listened to his messages, it sounds scary (to a man that's psycho behavior). Yet as women we are always trying to make sense of the stupid things guys do. What I suggest is that you move on, and wait for a man that wants to spend time with you- and only you!
2006-12-07 10:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen dear,
Life is once and that is precious.
Each and every picture of life is like a photograph, that can't be changed at all , so be carefull at each and every moment..
There is no eraser to erase these things from the history of life...
Always the defect is for the girls that is the fact..
Keep it in mind dear...
So better to avoid worrying for those unneccesary things,rather you can spend your time in any useful things..
Think in a different way and hit the success.
You will feel proud of yourself at one time when you are busy in the journey of sucess.
This will be painful but you know onething
" Pain is the Secret of sucess"
You can understand and agree it fully only when you are mature enough. So there is no need to think whether what I have given is right or wrong, better to avoid those kind of unwanted thoughts in this Teenage.
Experience comes from the error, But there is no need for each of us to do error to get the experience...
I think you can understand this..
Best wishes for your future..
2006-12-07 10:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by rani v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at this as if you are in a relationship, the problem is he's acting as if you guys are just hanging out.
2006-12-07 10:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him he sounds like a fast mover and has no plans to stop.
2006-12-07 10:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the gurl it may just be a misunderstanding.
2006-12-07 10:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by brigid r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what is going on
2006-12-07 10:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by xpishix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what happened or just forget abouthim
2006-12-07 10:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by jenniferyoung1987 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should dont think about him!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 10:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by ozgn__Sn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋