Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago she thought she was pregnant n wudnt talk to me she is not pregnant though it was a stupid fight, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates. its only been like 4 days since we didnt contact eachother, she said that she does still love me. do you think their is chance that she will come back if i give her space, and what do i do if i meet her on the street? do u think it might be too late? please help me...advice.
we are both 19 but i love her, i know im really young but i dont wana just give up hope yet... i think she is confused about what she wants, i want other oppinions

2006-12-07 09:50:46 · 6 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 09:50:29 · 15 answers · asked by Kelvin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

about this guy he is always were i am and we have he same friends and always meet at gatherings he seen a pic of me and asked about me once and always is checking me out but never shows anything how can i get his attention cause i really want to get to know him?

2006-12-07 09:49:38 · 17 answers · asked by blndie08 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 09:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by little one 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-partner was abusive to me and my children and I lost contact with everyone that I knew and I am at a loss as to how to go about making new friends now at this stage in my life. I cannot go out alot and when I do, I feel that men are not interested in friendship and women think it's weird if you ask them would they like to meet up for a drink again or go see a movie or even swop phone numbers so I have no idea what to do. I'm unable to do a course at the moment because of a lack of babysitters and finances. Any thoughts?

2006-12-07 09:49:25 · 28 answers · asked by casper_christina 1 in Singles & Dating

play games...

there's this guy i've been like seeing for like 2 months and he tells me he misses me and that he likes me , he says it's a good thing cause he does'nt usually like girls.

then everytime he's drunk he asks me if i like him....obviously i do if i drive down to see him all the time.

he texts me that " AREN'T YOU TIRED OF THE GAMES GUYS AND GIRLS PLAY...LIKE I WANT TO STOP BUT I FEEL IF I PUT ANY KIND OF TRUST IN A GIRL I'D GET ****** OVER.

he had an ex that he loved and he said they went out for like 2 yrs and broken up for like a yr ago.

In his myspace he has all these pictures of him and different girls......

What do i do??

Is he Messing with my head

pleasee help me .

2006-12-07 09:48:33 · 7 answers · asked by ~*SagiTTarius*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

age and location pls

2006-12-07 09:48:20 · 4 answers · asked by kimi, speedy 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep reading answers that start or finish with, "I will never this or that!"

There is no such thing as "Never." I can think of too many times in my life where I have said I would never do something and end up doing it anyway. "Never", is an abosolute statement! Life and death are the most common abosolutes in the world, you can pretty much cut the deck after that.

My question I guess is, what do you think about "Never" and how so many use it in vain. People abuse it probrably more then they abuse the use of the word, "Love."

2006-12-07 09:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by BionicNahlege 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 09:47:05 · 28 answers · asked by Cubs Fan 3 in Singles & Dating

For example, I like girls with a great smile and humor sense

2006-12-07 09:47:04 · 14 answers · asked by CaMuS AqUaRiUs 6 in Singles & Dating

I love her so much and she also. we are together since Aug 10th, 2005.

2006-12-07 09:46:55 · 9 answers · asked by Pushpendra C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 09:46:14 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that she has a bf but she has never seen him or meet him.there is a dance on friday but 1 of her other friends has invited her bf and Donnie(they r bros.) 2 help docorate the tree at her house.she really wants 2 meet him but she wants 2 go 2 the dance also.she has been blowing off everything that we r suppossed 2 do just 2 go w/ her other friend and she will not stop bragging about it.I have confronted her my self and asked other people 2 talk 2 her but nothing will work because she gets mad at us.i have had pleanty of bf but i have never blown something we were suppossed 2 do just 4 them.i have risked many of relationships just 4 her because we have been bff's since 4th grade and she is willing 2 set our friendship aside just 4 another bf.what should i do???

2006-12-07 09:46:03 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2 in Friends

my ex ended our relationship a couple of weeks ago due to "his doubts". i however did not believe him because to me that was a ridculous reason. i believed that it was because he wanted to explore his other options in college. while my mind is telling me he is wrong for me, my heart still longs for him, more than he will ever know. i confronted him with this theory and he denied it to a t. i also told him i thought he ended it because he wanted to control me and to have control in our relationship. he was less than enthused. i also told him that if he really loved me, he would tell me everything. he responded but not in the way i wanted him to. i want him to tell me the truth but i feel that he's convinced himself that doubt is what really ended it. it's funny. he wasn't the guy i thought he was. he's controling and manipulative and he just can't see it. advice?

2006-12-07 09:45:39 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

okay..i;ve be friends wit this girl ev. reallly loong..and we are tight as anything. yah kna chill ALL the time. and today we got in a fight cause i wasnt in a good mood and she was tellin me bout how much she LOVES this kid and he LOVES her bak but he has a girlfriend . for 2 and a half years. but he still likes her. and i told her that i didnt care bout it and to shut up.......its all shes talked bout for 2 weeks now. it gets annoyin. then EVERYDAY ..we do wat she wants and also this morning i told her that i dont care wat she wants and shes not goin to get it her way all tha time.............and now were not tlkin ..and i dont wanna lose a good friendship over a stupid fight..wat should i do?

2006-12-07 09:44:48 · 7 answers · asked by JENNifREEEEE 1 in Friends

ok I was thinking one day about my dreams...they r usually about guys...Iv heard before that if you have a dream about a guy u like and he likes you, that he would have a dream similar to urs on the same night...so do u think its maybe possilble?

2006-12-07 09:44:36 · 10 answers · asked by mandy_711 2 in Singles & Dating

Im going crazy, my aunt never EVER wants to get off the phone, we talk and talk and I just set the reciever down half the time. I love her but all she talks about is like my future and stuff, REALLY ANNOYING, do you know any serious ways to stop a conversation and FAST

2006-12-07 09:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by CSWS♥ 2 in Family

you know - better housing, food, education, health. Before you answer, try and consider being dirt poor

2006-12-07 09:44:11 · 16 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 09:43:46 · 5 answers · asked by haas 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i love really really smart people. Im smart but i want someone smarter then me and kinda geek like....lol.....i love nerds..like the ones with the glasses and that stay in the books....and who are not confindent enough to ask a girl out...thats me......bye for now...

2006-12-07 09:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by Egyptian Queen 1 in Singles & Dating

Lookin for a woman to pose in a leg cast for me tot ake pictures of contact me if intrested.

2006-12-07 09:43:17 · 6 answers · asked by Bill T 1 in Singles & Dating

WELL MY BF FOR 1 MONTH AND 3 DAYS DUMPED ME YESTERDAY. BECAUSE HIS FRIENDS ARE BEING *** WHOLES.BUT NOW THEY SAY I LOOK LIKE A MAN. AND I KEEP ASKING EVERY IF I DO AND THEY SAY NO IM VERRY PRETTY AND EVERY THING WHATS WRONG WITH HIM OR ME???

2006-12-07 09:43:08 · 15 answers · asked by jess_the_mess1312 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom said no!! i like this guy and ive liked him since september i finaly got the guts to ask him out and he said yes my dad said he didnt care but i would have 2 ask my mom because if he(my dad) said O.K. with out asking here shed flipout. so i asked and she said no not this guy or any other im 2 young (im 16)2 have a boy freind(she thinks that if you go out with some one once that your boy friend and girlfriend)that there wont be proper shaperoneseven though its mostly adults that are going to be there( its a work party) i even oferd 2 take my grama or my older brother(18) with us. what do i do to get here to be more resonable???

2006-12-07 09:42:38 · 18 answers · asked by C.J. 2 in Singles & Dating

the Father of the children lives 2000 miles away and has only seen the children twice in the last 4 years??? He doesnt give birthday presents but calls... He sometimes gives Christmas presents and calls. For the most part he only calls once every month or two. He hasnt called them since Thanksgiving and even then we werent here and he left a message stating he would call later.... He never called back. This occurs when he has a girlfriend. He spent 300.00 on her for christmas but only got my kids a toy gun and a book. I am not materialistic but he doesnt see them and u would think he would put a lil thought and effort into a gift. I didnt make a big deal out of it. Just an example. My husband wants to adopt them because he thinks their father isnt active in his life which he isnt. He says he can keep the child support he pays. Alot of men think that because they pay child support they can come and go as they please in their childrens life.... not all men but some including my ex.

2006-12-07 09:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by texaslady78 2 in Family

4. She said, "It'll look better with 5 bridesmaids." Should I spike her coffee with rat poison?

2006-12-07 09:41:58 · 39 answers · asked by stormy 4 in Weddings

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-07 09:41:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like fat girls and my girlfriend doesn't know... how should I tell her I like fat girls and I would like it if she was to gain some weight with out her dumping me?

I also don’t just want to change her I would just prefer it if she was fatter, it’s not mandatory. I would like to tell her my preferences instead of her finding out her own. And I don’t want to make her gain weight with out her knowing what I'm doing; I would be breaking her trust in me. I hope that all made since

I do love her at the weight she is I would just find her more attractive if she would gain weight... she’s doesn't have to gain weight for me to love her I love her for who she is... I'd just find her even more attractive if she would get fatter

ummm how could I get more people to answer this... its REALLY important to me I love her more then anything and at least want her to know my preference...

2006-12-07 09:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guy since september and now my best friend likes him, she is soo much prettier then me and soo much nicer, so i told her she could have him and that i did not like him anymore. I still do and when she asked me to tell him that she did,..I couldn't...Was this selfish of me? I should of been able to tell him right? i mean she is my friend i should care more about her happiest and his happines right? Both of them are my best friends and i have no idea what to do about this? Should i just step out completely, will i ever get over him?

2006-12-07 09:40:33 · 11 answers · asked by mcrmy~ 2 in Singles & Dating

...I may be looking for a new job, and I was wondering if anyone had an opening that i might be right for?

2006-12-07 09:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by irish1269 2 in Singles & Dating

If a person cheats because they are not getting their needs met in the marriage will leaving their spouse for the other person solve this. What is more important the fact that the needs are not met or the fact that their spouse is not meeting their needs? For example, a man might have an affair because he is not getting enough sex from his wife. What is more important - the sex alone or the sex from his wife? Will getting sex from another person satisfy his needs?

2006-12-07 09:39:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce