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ok, i was goin out with this girl for about a year and three months she always told me she is really happy being in a serious relationship with me, then we had a fight three weeks ago she thought she was pregnant n wudnt talk to me she is not pregnant though it was a stupid fight, and she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, she said she doesnt want a relation ship anymore cause of the preassure, i havent really left her alone ive being calling her n stuff, and i know i shoulndnt do that cause that puts preassure on her and thats what she hates. its only been like 4 days since we didnt contact eachother, she said that she does still love me. do you think their is chance that she will come back if i give her space, and what do i do if i meet her on the street? do u think it might be too late? please help me...advice.
we are both 19 but i love her, i know im really young but i dont wana just give up hope yet... i think she is confused about what she wants, i want other oppinions

2006-12-07 09:50:46 · 6 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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i think that u should see her and talk to her maybe she feel like that u didnt want her when she was in da problem...u should see her and talk to her tell her all those nice things like how much u love her and u don wanna lose her and all those things and tell her that u'll give her a chance to think again and tell her that u love her no matter what ..and u'll be always beside her ...lol

2006-12-07 10:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0 0

Oh bless your heart.

Honey I hope that all she needs is time. She really could be confused. I am in a similar situation right now myself. I am the one who asked for space and I do love him. I just need to figure out some things and didn't want to be unfair to him while I did it knowing my heart was not fully there at the time.

Keep the faith, she could come back, but don't wait around either. Don't count on it , cuz she may continue wanting to be single and then you would be even more hurt.

Good luck sweetie.

2006-12-07 09:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-10-14 05:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Lay off her for a while, give her some space and give the impression that you are not sure that the too of you should get back together... she'll come around.
PS... consider that she may be exploring other people... if she changed so fast from "i want a relationship.." to "ummm it's too much pressure"

2006-12-07 09:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by La Machine 2 · 0 0

Love, by itself, is not enough for a successful, adult relationship. Compatibility, friendship, respect are all just as important.

The mature thing to do is to let her know that you DO want her in your life, but that you will respect her desire for a pressure-free environment.

Then, leave her alone - totally. None of that "friends" crap. Either she'll come back or . . . she won't. Whatever happens, you'll be fine.

2006-12-07 10:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Humberto 3 · 0 0

try giving her her space and a break but still let her know how you feel about her and that you want to do whatever you can to workit out and make it work

2006-12-07 09:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by jenniferyoung1987 2 · 0 0

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