Last month, I gave birth to and lost a baby at only 21 weeks. I am still heartbroken about it. I held and named the baby and we had her cremated. We had an obituary in the paper. We received sympathy cards and donations in our babies name from all our friends and family and from the co-workers at my old job and from our neighbours, but I have received NOTHING from my present job, even though they all know what happenned. It's like they don't care, and I have to go back there to work with them. It's the worst thing that's ever happenned to me, and I feel selfish and greedy to say this but I'm angry that they didn't send me a sympathy card, or send flowers or something to acknowledge my loss. If you were me, would you say something? If so, how would you word it so as not to sound rude? I do want them to know that it hurt me, but I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, since I have to work with them all. (I'm going back to work soon)
2006-12-07
09:10:16
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