im arabic and he is english and we met online 2 months ago n its going fast n crazy, he wants to move in with me so we can give it a try!! i love him, i think so, but worried coz he is young and also coz he said ' ï love you' 10 days after we first talked!! he is going to leave his country to come n live with me!! i dont know what to do, any advices?
2006-12-07 09:17:18 · 6 answers · asked by twety . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the age is definitely not a problem, age is totally irrelevant in love!
But with that said, it sounds like you are both moving WAY too fast, especially given the stakes involved with cross-country relationships.
Make sure that you aren't falling for a scam -- if he asks you for money, get out fast! And if you let him move in with you, even if he's being sincere, I think you're doomed.
So my advice is, don't worry about the age difference, keep talking to him and enjoy yourself but do not make any big moves like moving in together and don't lend or give him anything no matter how cruel it feels (otherwise, how will you know if it's you that he loves or your money?).
2006-12-07 09:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by quincy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First - she is married and has children! You can't marry her. And, she is too old for you. I am 45 and can't even begin to understand wanting to be with a 22 year old (no offense, but you could be my son - eeuuwwww!). Quit messing with a married woman and mother of 4 please! Rule of thumb for age differences for couples. Take your age, divide it in half and add 7 - that is the youngest person you should even consider dating or having a romantic relationship with. **Logan - if you do the math from the 'rule of thumb' formula - a 54 year old person's youngest 'date' is 34. You said you are 38. I'm not sure what is not true for you? The age thing is a good guide because it deals with issues of maturity and the cycles we go through in life. The age span widens considerably for older people. Do the math and you will see what I mean.
2016-05-23 04:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter, if you love him back and you think it could work out, give it a try. If you are more worried than not about the relationship, then tell him you need more time and maybe talk a few things over with him. You know, weigh your pros and cons of him moving here for the two of you to be together. But don't do what we suggest, do what you feel is right!
2006-12-07 09:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It probably could work. Your age difference isn't too big The younger person in any relationship should be at least half the age of the older plus seven years. Plus, since he's younger, he'll be deeply in love with you.
2006-12-07 09:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by aclockworkpotato 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't let him come move with you he sounds like a phyco path. I would meet him a few times and also his family befor leting a complete stanger move in.
2006-12-07 09:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by juicy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the age yes the culture no
2006-12-07 09:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋