I like fat girls and my girlfriend doesn't know... how should I tell her I like fat girls and I would like it if she was to gain some weight with out her dumping me?
I also don’t just want to change her I would just prefer it if she was fatter, it’s not mandatory. I would like to tell her my preferences instead of her finding out her own. And I don’t want to make her gain weight with out her knowing what I'm doing; I would be breaking her trust in me. I hope that all made since
I do love her at the weight she is I would just find her more attractive if she would gain weight... she’s doesn't have to gain weight for me to love her I love her for who she is... I'd just find her even more attractive if she would get fatter
ummm how could I get more people to answer this... its REALLY important to me I love her more then anything and at least want her to know my preference...
2006-12-07 09:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh umm this is a online releationship(we've seen each other pics... we have each others phone #s... and lots of other things proving we ar eboth who we are) so I physicly can't tak her any where :( ... I wish I coul hold her in my arms and kiss her till the end of time... back on topic, If your going to bash me for my prefrences... not the best idea... I'm suicidle and dont know how much longer I can continue on living :( (if you want to help me on that issue look at my other questions)
2006-12-07 09:49:59 · update #1
Adressed to Gryphon: so would you rather have me ask her to be anorexic or bulmic(sp) liek the rest of the female population... its actually healthier to be over weight then underweight... your mind is just tainted with the media telling you fat girls are ugly stupid and smell bad(all of those are wrong being fat has nothing to do with intellect and they dont smell bad and them being ugly is is an opinion)... and its not always harmful and I dont paln to make her immobile or anything. in fact I plan to help her how ever I can online and if theres one sign of health problems I'll tell her to stop... if she ghains that is I dont really care if she does or doesn't its just physicle atraction... that like 5% of love(I would like it to be none but all humans are flawed after all)
2006-12-07 09:59:34 · update #2
tell her that you love. tell her what you just typed to us that you love her and that she is attractive and you dont want her to change and that she should always be how she wants to be, but tell her you like heavierset girls and that you think she would be more attractive to you if she was to gain some weight , but that you think she is already beautiful. tell her it is up to her
2006-12-07 09:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by calico_gurl2006 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
confident, tell your female friend. I mean, it really is a few thing that befell to you and there is no reason to conceal some thing because you grew to grow to be this lady down. so that you would only be sharing it because it really is exciting, or possibly a humorous tale. in case you tell your female friend and he or she receives jealous and begins interrogating you, then it truly is a caution that a) she's insecure, or b) you've a acceptance for being untrustworthy. both way, if she receives dissatisfied about a difficulty the position, in truth, no longer some thing befell, it really is a demonstration of an risky relationship.
2016-11-24 21:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious????
Have you heard of the obesity epidemic?? It is KILLING people! Our Western World is getting more and more overweight by the minute and it is causing so many deaths and obesity-related illnesses that the Wolrd Health Organization is trying to address it with global anti-obesity efforts.
Now.... regardless of your preference for overweight/obese women (which is shallow), how could you EVER encourage somebody you LOVE to do something that could be HARMFUL to their health?
If you would like to start going to the gym with her to encourage to to become more fit and build up a bit of healthy muscle mass, that's one thing. But you would be a very, very selfish boyfriend if you encouraged her to gain FAT.
2006-12-07 09:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Gryphon 4 · 1⤊ 6⤋
wait. u like fat girls? like over weight??
2006-12-07 09:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by mindi 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
wow thats a first...asking your gf to be fatter?
2006-12-07 09:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by obvlious56 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would u tell her?
2006-12-07 09:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋