that she has a bf but she has never seen him or meet him.there is a dance on friday but 1 of her other friends has invited her bf and Donnie(they r bros.) 2 help docorate the tree at her house.she really wants 2 meet him but she wants 2 go 2 the dance also.she has been blowing off everything that we r suppossed 2 do just 2 go w/ her other friend and she will not stop bragging about it.I have confronted her my self and asked other people 2 talk 2 her but nothing will work because she gets mad at us.i have had pleanty of bf but i have never blown something we were suppossed 2 do just 4 them.i have risked many of relationships just 4 her because we have been bff's since 4th grade and she is willing 2 set our friendship aside just 4 another bf.what should i do???
2006-12-07 09:46:03 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i don't think its right for her to blow you off all the time. If she wants to spend time with him then she should but if she is a real friend than she will spend time with you also and keep the dates you set to hang out. I would talk to her and tell her how you feel. She may not even realized she is doing it and that its hurting you.
2006-12-07 09:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jesse's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you miss her and you dont want to lose your friendship, why not suggest all of you do something together as a group?? But, If she is not interested maybe it is time for you to start planning things without her and with some of your other friends and or family members. If she is a true friend she will come around and see how she is acting is hurting you. good luck!
2006-12-07 09:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well, since you already talked to her, let her chill with her bf. Spend time with your other friends for now. When they break up, she'll probably come to cry on your shoulder. Be a good friend, be a shoulder to cry on, and don't bug her about it. Don't start drama and go with the flow for now!!
&& as for the other friend .. i have the same problem! Try calling her to make plans with YOU AND Her other friend!!
2006-12-07 09:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by missjamo2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 00:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her ..again .if she gets mad at you let her cool down a lil bit. and ask her ..are you going to let a friendship go down the drain for a guy? remember chicks b4 *****. && girls b4 guys.. tell her how yu feel. eventually she will stop acting like that and get over it. dont worryy everythin should go good.!
2006-12-07 09:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by JENNifREEEEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok slowwww down there its not that bad take a deep phew in out in out! ok not that were calmed down re ask dis question with like stuff we can understand and some ine might be able to answer you
2006-12-07 09:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her write her a letter or something it will be hard but if yall are as tight as you say she will come around if she dont then maybe your friendship has timed out i am sorry your going through this
2006-12-07 09:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by tjamesmomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama queen kids drive me crazy.
2006-12-07 09:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you just told us
if she really values your friendship she will listen
and always remember this
be their for her
& when your in love your blind
2006-12-07 09:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by xpishix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost you on the 2nd sentence...you are loaded with drama girl.
2006-12-07 09:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋