in the halls od high school he doesnt talk to me in between classes, his friends say he's flirting with other girls and i dont know what to think anymore... help?
2006-12-07 09:52:09 · 16 answers · asked by Elisia Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confront him, its highschool dont expect much
2006-12-07 09:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by jenniferyoung1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys will flirt with anything in a skirt - old saying. don't worry about it. If he doesn't want to talk to you in the halls, he may be embarassed or uncomfortable showing his feelings in public. don't worry about it. Best thing to do it talk with him about it, but don't argue. It's hard but have a mature conversation without accusations or assumptions. If he feels uncomfortable drawing attention to your relationship in front of his friends, understand it's a common problem with young guys (heck even with older guys). Don't read anything into it - this is a common problem with girls, they think too much about the little things. Remember, guys are much more simple than girls. Little things like talking in the hall make sense to you but he won't see the importance until his maturity catches up with you.
2006-12-07 17:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by armus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really weird. you should ask him why he does that. in high school i always met my girlfriend and walk through the halls holding hands so every guy would know she was mine. i liked it. well if he does flirt with other girls and keeps avoiding you in the halls maybe you two were not meant to be together and you should find a new (better) boyfriend
2006-12-07 17:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Crazy ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl hes probably not cheating on u beacause all guys do that. especially in high school. i guess its just the way that they are program. If i was in this situation ( wait, i have been before) i would just go on and dont even worry about it. cause if he is really cheating on you, u will find out sooner or later and if he is then dumb him. u can find someone else!!
- Angel
2006-12-07 18:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not speak to you in the halls at school, he is just a jerk. High school drama sucks. Move on.
2006-12-07 18:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Colette B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he gets defensive or accuses you of cheating or becomes angry it is possible. I would not believe he is cheating just because he flirts. Also, sometimes guys are just not as in tune with their emotions as girls are. He may just be unaware of how he is making you feel.
2006-12-07 18:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by the_shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you tried to ask to ask him? And you should not listen to what people say and if you do see him messin with other girls than make him want to like you. And if that don't work flirt with one of his friends or just leave him.
gurl i believe in you
2006-12-07 17:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by candy gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...leave him do what he wants to do and you go on with your life and try and met different people...Would you honestly like to know if he's cheating on you wouldn't you rather just not get hurt and leave him and met someone that really deserves you>? Maybe he's interested in other gurls etc...just don't get hurt and search some other place...
2006-12-07 17:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by ChIkaBuEnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is. All guys are cheating if they stop talking to you. It's a fact. Most people just don't like to say so.
YOU ARE BEING CHEATED ON GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP.
2006-12-07 17:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you need to confront him and if it continues hell I would tell him to be gone!!! Its high school most likely he is!!
2006-12-07 17:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little paranoid there? Dont worry about it.
2006-12-07 17:54:14 · answer #11 · answered by I Hate Liberals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋