I really thought I was over it?

Question

Okay, long story short, I fell for my best friend, we dated for a month or so, she dumped me, I'm devastated, she says she never really liked me like that, I moped around until the start of this school year, when she said she really did like me, but she was scared. Then after a while, she says get over me or we can't be friends anymore. I thought I was over it, and we were kinda back to the way we used to be because I didn't think about it anymore. Lately, my old feelings for her have rekindled, and I've dreamt of being with her again every night this week and I don't know how I can stand it much longer. I can't be with her, I know that, but I also can't seem to get over her either. What am I gonna do?=(

Am I gay? I'M EXTATIC!!! lol

No, actually I'm really not into labels, but if I HAD to call myself anything I'd say I'm bi.

Answer 1

Move on... it seems like your friendship is more important than your love to her...respect that.

Answer 2

Wow! Hold on a minute here? Are you saying your a girl and she's a girl that you fell for you girlfriend, your gay! is that it?

Well: Why didn't you just come out and say so? I don't know what to tell you. I guess she told you where to get off and I guess I'd say take it for what it is.
If something happens in the future then, O.K. but, for now? cool it. I would get rid of her, this would hep cool the relationship. If she decided she wants to speak to you, she knows how to reach you, there are others you know.

Answer 3

You can't get over her because you are spending too much time with her, get other friends if you are bi start dating guys.

Answer 4

It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Why not find yourself a new love interest?

Answer 5

ur gay?................awesome =)