i am talking abt my ex-GF. Although i got no love for her after the things she did to me(and i forgave her coz i think it were circumstances not her) but still I just think she is a very nice person and I said something very blunt to her. She felt too bad and said "I HATE U". Well it has been ages and i dint care to say sorry not even tried talking to her. But I think what i said was very blunt (and i said that for some reasons) the fault is mine i agree!
Should I care to say sorry to her even tho i no she will never be mine again? If yes what should i write ?? (i can only email her). I just wanna say sorry coz i just dont want someone to be angry with me esp my ex!
thx guys
2006-12-07 09:38:02 · 20 answers · asked by syd_guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant meet her in person as I am overseas (and will be living here from now on). Although I will go back to home country but i am sure she wont meet me!
2006-12-07 10:20:11 · update #1
We only really hate those that we truly care about. Everybody says to someone now and then. At that moment you hated her.
She obviously did something to make you feel that way.
If you want to appologize that is fine. Just say hey, I want to appologize for saying I hated you. I didn't mean it I was just really peed off at the time and it just came out.
I don't want to go out with you but I would like to remain friends with you if it is possible. I guess I will go, wb.
2006-12-07 09:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say your sorry and say it was your fault. Offer to take her to her favorite restaurant or a movie she's been wanting to see (if you have the money). It's better to say your sorry in person. Not through email, notes, text messaging, IM, ect. That will just make your girlfriend even more angry with you!
Good luck!
2006-12-07 17:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Hunty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that my ex would say a true sorry to me especially what he did to me. he did exactly what you did to her. i think the best way is tell her on your message that what you said was because you were in a desperate moment and that you are really sorry about what you said. tell her that you would like to be her Friend again and that she was always on your mind even though you there was a distance between you too. and one last try ask if she wanna meet with you to clear things out face to face.
good luck
2006-12-07 17:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Dianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say you tell her sorry and that you couldn't find a right way to tell her, it would be probably best if you tell her sorry personally it won't do any good if you just email her, so I guess talking to her personally is the best way of telling her sorry, and it can be good too if you want to get back with her, so tell her sorry personally and when you tell her sorry, you should tell her with your feelings. Hope this helps!
2006-12-07 17:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Abigail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with telling someone you feel bad about the situation and your sorry that it might of hurt that person and There is nothing wrong with saying you were hurt as well and then forgive yourself and move on with your life. Sometimes it takes time for people to cool down and be able to step back and look at the situation and admit they were wrong. good luck
2006-12-07 17:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thing is, if you don't mean it dont say it. I feel that if you said it you meant it and there is no taking it back. If its bothering you and you want to make a mends with her, then you could email her and explain to her everything, but when you email her don't say you didn't mean to say what you said cuz yes you did! You will be the bigger person by doing this, emailing her and apologizing that is.
2006-12-07 17:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by sr04model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive that you owe her an aplogy. Remeber that females are very sensitive whenit comes to emotions. You two shared something special and it doesn't make any sense for u two to give up the best thing that you have, that is u guys friendship. Apologize to her telling her sorry. send her a nice poem. i don't have ne rite now so sorry
2006-12-07 17:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that first you need to rexamine your feelings for her because it sounds like you might still have some. If not, then you should apologize just on principle. If you feel that what you said was mean or wrong, then talk to her and try to make it better.
2006-12-07 17:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jason N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES>....its never to late to say your sorry,,,,let you know u didn't mean it and be honest to her about everything...Tell her about the beautiful/friendly times you guys spend together and ignor the bad past you guys had....don't say anything too weird () just the "Friend" sort of thing and be totally cool about it and otherwise if she doesn't want to forgive you or anything...at least u'll know that you asked for forgiveness and thats wut counts and go back to ur life...GOod Luck
2006-12-07 17:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by ChIkaBuEnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you're sorry only if you feel like saying you're sorry. Get another girlfriend if what you want is another girlfriend. Say I hate you if you feel like saying I hate you. If you feel like saying you're sorry you can write "I'm sorry". If you want another girlfriend, tell another girl you like her. Nothing bad will happen if your ex-GF is angry.
2006-12-07 17:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by carmelitacerda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋